KensingtonHomo

I need to say that we have made deposits to hold a specific date/time, never more than $50 and it’s always come off the bill.

I'm not interested in "yucking your yum", but I see hiring an escort as hiring a person. So they may look a little different. But I've never experienced a guy with clean cut pictures showing up looking like a punk. When I reach out I'm looking for hints at their personality. I often send a photo and ask for a recent one. If people are having these experiences, I would suggest that you ask to FaceTime or some other way of confirming appearance before you confirm the appointment.

Yes

What are you looking for in terms of age? What’s “tall” to you? Over 6 foot?

Our experiences have not been nearly as bad as the OP described. Maybe it’s bc we’re in NYC. But most of the guys we’ve hired do look like their pics - some even better. Our primary reason for hiring is that it’s easier then wasting time on Grindr and Scruff. We’ve had a couple of duds in our time hiring, but probably 80% positive. But I read reviews. I check their social media. I come on here. I do think you have to be discriminating. What we look for more than anything is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy this work.

Yes.

I can PM you.

My current favorites are https://rent.men/JonahWheeler and https://rent.men/Nickhalden. Jonah is a bit more free wheeling and fun, where as NIck is a bit quieter and passionate.

I saw him a while back. The massage was nice, but his cock is too thick for my tastes.

I went to hm for a massage a couple of months back. He was good and pretty generous during the massage. He's in amazing shape.

With a couple of exceptions my great experiences have bern with providers who are not in their 20s and looks wise probably a 7-8, some less pretty but nice bodies. So the person who wrote about Conner being kind, fun, good at sex, are all pluses to me. We hired a guy this weekend who will now be a repeat. He’s in fine shape, a bit skinny perhaps, not very muscular. BUT he was both proficient at all kinds of sex, clearly enjoyed it as a pastime, and enjoyed it with us. To me that is far worth the coins than a pretty face or Adonis like body.

We just saw Jonah, and OMG what a fun guy. Thanks @burtjohn for PMing me. You were right. Happy to share our experience.

I live in Brooklyn and wish there were more masseurs in the area. I've gone to Bushwick and Bed Stuy a few times to see guys there, but I do drive when I do.

Yes. I told him I wasn't interested.

I’m talking about raw data. You’re selecting data that suits your misleading argument, and ignoring a 16% increase in all case death during a year in which COVID was the third leading cause. And heart disease and cancer account for hundreds of distinct diseases. If we combined infectious disease deaths overall, it would be third even without COVID.

PS: We were initially planing on seeing a couple of guys around Christmas and then New Years but ended up waiting till after Christmas. This was because we were spending the day with my nephew who is too young to be vaccinated. So we hunkered down on purpose for a little over a week before X-mas.

I work in public health and a lot of what you're saying here is technically true but very misleading. Vaccines do not necessarily prevent you from getting SARS-COV-2 into your body, but for most people (pre-Omicron) it prevented the progression to disease. Now, Omicron is evading the vaccines to some extent - though boosted people seem to fare better - but it's also limiting spread to some extent. But my main gripe is the focus on ALL causes death rate for 2021 is post-vaccine, and still within a time frame within the US where people were not commuting, not necessarily going out as much, flu was down. However, all cause mortality for 2020 pre-vaccine, height of the pandemic, was UP 15.9%. Without vaccines, the rate in 2021 would likely be significantly higher than it has been. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7014e1.htm

in my experience of threesomes, both with providers and with other guys, a single person is not doing all the work. That's why the doubling of the price seems off to me. I know some providers who charge $200 first hour/$150 second. Again, that makes sense to me because it's a discount for more time when the provider has already prepared for the date and traveled. In our case, we're less likely to rehire someone who charges double - the exceptions being for massage as @Jamie21 pointed out because it is actually twice the work.

Nick Halden is an incredibly good kisser. Sensual, soft, passionate.

So my husband and I hire together because we play together. With some guys it's just their hourly rate; for others it's 1.5 times their hourly (this feels correct to me); and for others it's double. Double feels like too much because it's like like the escort is doing double work. I'm curious where the providers on here stand on that and if you're charging double is it just because it's two people?

I didn't want to say it but...

I've started chatting with him. He has a lot of good reviews on RM. We may take the plunge over the holidays.

I didn't assume you were a closeted old queen. I'm not sure why you're projecting that on to me. I literally said there are valid reasons for wanting anonymity. And you don't need to justify or explain that to me or anyone else. I don't worry about electronic transfers bc I only use a single Venmo account connected to a credit card. I recommend this or cash. It minimizes risk and provides a degree of anonymity. We'll have to agree to disagree on risks. Yes, clients occasionally get scammed or beat up, but violence against sex workers if far more prevalent. If I had my druthers, I'd legalize it all so it wasn't an underground economy.

I spoke to what I am prepared to do and have done, as well as an understanding that due to flakey "clients" some providers may require this. It's not a moral decision. It's business. Also, knowing people who do or have done sex work, sure there's some risk for clients, but the overwhelming risk is on the part of the provider. I don't know why you're so concerned about anonymity but that's totally valid. I'm not that concerned about it because I'm totally out, and while there's a small risk to my public profile, I'm pretty open about being pro-sex work.

This is pedantry. Most doctors will charge you for a missed appointment if you don’t cancel with sufficient notice, same for dentists. Electricians, landscapers, etc, are coming to your house. So if you don’t pay, they don’t do the work. They’re not sitting in a hotel waiting for you to show up. if you were to do extensive landscaping work, remodeling your home, etc, you would likely pay a deposit before work begins. You would also have a contract. if you don’t want to send a deposit to a new provider, then don’t. But if I were in their business, I’d probably insist on it.