KensingtonHomo

Yes, totally bummed he left the business. He was my favorite.

I don't hire bottoms, so it would never be an issue. But he's definitely a very young person brimming with self-confidence. I don't find him attractive but I know a lot of men who love that twunk look. And I agree that shaved bodies are a non-starter. It's VERY uncomfortable and I really disliked bare genitals. So it's a pass, pass, pass but - again - there are people who want what he's selling.

We've been meaning to check out the Scum parties. There's one in Brooklyn this Friday.

I'm a big believer in consent and being upfront. So I will ask a new provider what an erotic massage includes, including "can I blow you?" If it's not been discussed up front, you can simply ask "may I suck you?" But doing it that way may make the provider feel pressured so I think it's best to be upfront. Also, if you really want that as part of your experience, you want a provider who includes that.

We didn't get an STI but we did have a provider who contacted us when he tested positive for gonorrhea. He called and seemed very nervous. I assured him that I was very glad he contacted us, and we made arrangements to get tested. We were negative. To me, this showed me that he was professional and care about his clients. We've wanted to hire him again but he does this part time so our schedules just haven't aligned.

Your blog is great. You're a good storyteller.

I suspect there's pent up demand at the moment due to two years of pandemic, when guys were not available or we were disinclined to hire. I generally don't go above $350 unless its for more than an hour. Most of the regular guys we see are in the $250-$300 zone.

I have no desire to have sex with a straight man. I gave some blow jobs to straight guys when I was a teenager. That was enough. Plus, I want my queer money to go to other queers.

I'm younger than my husband but he is fitter. I'm sure it's difficult for a provider or providers to ensure they are given 50/50 equal attention. And I don't expect that. It was just SO obvious in this case that we would not repeat. Funnily enough, it was my idea.

My husband and I hired them for a couple's erotic massage. They clearly found my husband more attractive than me and it was a real bummer. The massage skills were mediocre, they were both a bit heavier (probably due to COVID), but the worst part was there was times when they had three hands on my husband and one on me. I never received as much attention. Just a bad vibe for working with a couple.

Same. For an hour, I think anywhere from $250-$350 is reasonable because I'm in NYC. One of our favorite guys, who's in his 40s, charges $275 I think. And most of our times with him are better than anyone in their 20s.

The name alone would put me off. Know your history: the aristocracy employs hookers but doesn’t consider them part of it. 😝

I need to say that we have made deposits to hold a specific date/time, never more than $50 and it’s always come off the bill.

I'm not interested in "yucking your yum", but I see hiring an escort as hiring a person. So they may look a little different. But I've never experienced a guy with clean cut pictures showing up looking like a punk. When I reach out I'm looking for hints at their personality. I often send a photo and ask for a recent one. If people are having these experiences, I would suggest that you ask to FaceTime or some other way of confirming appearance before you confirm the appointment.

Yes

What are you looking for in terms of age? What’s “tall” to you? Over 6 foot?

Our experiences have not been nearly as bad as the OP described. Maybe it’s bc we’re in NYC. But most of the guys we’ve hired do look like their pics - some even better. Our primary reason for hiring is that it’s easier then wasting time on Grindr and Scruff. We’ve had a couple of duds in our time hiring, but probably 80% positive. But I read reviews. I check their social media. I come on here. I do think you have to be discriminating. What we look for more than anything is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy this work.

Yes.

I can PM you.

My current favorites are https://rent.men/JonahWheeler and https://rent.men/Nickhalden. Jonah is a bit more free wheeling and fun, where as NIck is a bit quieter and passionate.

I saw him a while back. The massage was nice, but his cock is too thick for my tastes.

I went to hm for a massage a couple of months back. He was good and pretty generous during the massage. He's in amazing shape.

With a couple of exceptions my great experiences have bern with providers who are not in their 20s and looks wise probably a 7-8, some less pretty but nice bodies. So the person who wrote about Conner being kind, fun, good at sex, are all pluses to me. We hired a guy this weekend who will now be a repeat. He’s in fine shape, a bit skinny perhaps, not very muscular. BUT he was both proficient at all kinds of sex, clearly enjoyed it as a pastime, and enjoyed it with us. To me that is far worth the coins than a pretty face or Adonis like body.

We just saw Jonah, and OMG what a fun guy. Thanks @burtjohn for PMing me. You were right. Happy to share our experience.

I live in Brooklyn and wish there were more masseurs in the area. I've gone to Bushwick and Bed Stuy a few times to see guys there, but I do drive when I do.