KensingtonHomo

We've all grown up in a patriarchal, heterosexist society. There are no matriarchal society outside of a few hunter gatherer societies. It's not a "personal preference" then, it's something you've been propagandized to believe.

The OP started off by saying if he set a date and the provider shows up with nail polish he's sending the guy on his way without a cent. The fragility is that if Chris Evans (or the hot guy of your choice) shows up looking every bit as sexy and hot as you'd imagined. Then you notice he has on nail polish, and that's the deal breaker? Why? Considering you're going to be horizontal shortly, kissing, blowing, fucking, whatever, how much would you even notice the nail polish? I hooked up with a guy in P Town last summer and it was only after the deed was done, and we were dressing that he noticed my fingers and toes were painted with bright red polish. Which he complimented me on. So the only reason to be SO opposed to nail polish is due to a rigid understanding of gender. @pubic_assistance equates a guy wearing nail polish with being gender queer or non-binary. For some that may be true, but for others it's just something they enjoy. But what most of those opposed seem to be reacting to is that nail polish = femininity. And rejecting feminine guys is just reactionary misogynistic bullshit. No, it's not your "personal preference", it's a bias you've been socialized to have because of patriarchy and heterosexism.

You know, I'm not that young. I'm a Gen Xer and parts of this conversation feel like they're taking place in the 1980s.

The fragile masculinity on display in this thread is too much. If the provider isn’t to your taste, hire someone else. Why are you asking people to change themselves? Getting a manicure and pedicure costs about $100 at a decent, not high-end, salon. Are you going to give him the extra money to have it redone?

This guy’s not my type so I wouldn’t give him $1, but we recently had a similar situation where an escort changed the time and was still 15 minutes late, couldn’t stay hard, and as we continued chatting for a while after, said we owed 2 hour’s worth. He was very nice but he cost more than my therapist! Lesson leaned for me, as I will set a timer with any new guy.

They were not complaining about him, but the idea of a $50/hour hotel room in NYC.

No one is policing your attraction. Fuck who you want, but you don't need to misgender people to do so. And considering that I saw this escort you're all going about eating a pussy on his Twitter, he apparently does fuck cis women.

No, you chose to differentiate in order to suggest trans women are actually men, which is a) not true and b) really awful coming from what I assume is a queer person.

Good looking is subjective. I have friends falling over for 23 year old twunks and I'm over here like "What's Christopher Meloni in these days?"

Oh really? I guess some people do. For us, it's really more about convenience. We can meet guys on Grindr or Scruff, but it's a bit more difficult for a couple. Some guys aren't into it. Some guys are only into one of us. And some guys are offended by the idea of a couple of who plays together. Hiring eliminates all of those issues and probably saves hours of scrolling and "sup?" conversations. And as a couple in our 40s, we get approached a LOT by much younger men (18-25) who have a daddy fantasy, which really isn't our thing. We prefer 35 and up, as well as guys who can carry on a conversation. So there are a couple in NYC who are younger but they're like "old souls" or something.

Trans women are women. No need to differentiate.

Some people like a thick guy. I prefer a little thickness over 2% body fat.

I didn't claim 40% of people who get COVID are dying. I was responding to the claim it was the same as the common cold.

I have some guys who PM me about SS. I don't mind responding if they seem serious. But I always try to search the forum before I reach out.

The Delta variant was far more virulent and deadly than the Alpha strain. Omicron seems to be AS deadly to the unvaccinated as Alpha was, and it's far more transmissible. I'm vaccinated and boosted and had COVID-19 last month. It was certainly worse than a cold. The claim that COVID is moving inexorably toward being less virulent is just a narrative made up in the heads of people who want the pandemic to be over. It's not based in science at all. Also, 40% of all the people dying from COVID right now are vaccinated. The common cold doesn't kill 40% of the people who get it.

LOL, the "Orient." Is this 1870? Zoonotic diseases can and do emerge all over the globe. Falling for divisive claptrap from politicians does nothing to stop pandemics. It just prevents the majority of us from demanding better public health measures.

It has nothing to do with the number of people on the planet. Zoonotic viruses crossing over is due to humans entering spaces we don’t live; disrupting ecosystems; and climate change adds to that by disrupting migration patterns, deforestation ruining habitats, and bringing us into closer contact with bats, mammals, etc. The scientific consensus is quite clear.

There is no evidence that the virus is less deadly. The country is mostly vaccinated, which is what is making it less deadly. The virus is becoming more transmissible which - coupled with removing all the mitigation measures- is allowing the virus to mutate very rapidly. The next variant could be more virulent or not. It’s not sentient and doesn’t care what we want. The utter failure of western countries to properly manage this pandemic is a very bad precedent bc with climate change, we’re seeing more and more viruses jumping from animals to humans.

Also, it's Pride Month so the gays may be doing a little extra.

Ask yourself why you're asking this question. I sincerely doubt that any trans men on RM are trying to trick cis guys into hiring them. That would be potentially quite dangerous as cis people use transphobia to explain away their violence against trans people. This reads as a fear-mongering hypothetical to me, which is in particularly poor taste as trans people are facing unprecedented violence and political attacks across the country.

I wear nail polish at times. Having well-manicured nails is wonderful and should be encouraged. And if the polish puts you off, maybe examine your internalized misogyny and femme-phobia. Nothing irks me more than gay men policing other people's gender expression. If you're a man who fucks men, you've already crossed the Rubicon, so why not enjoy the perks.

We've mostly been getting $300-$350, but Montreal was cheaper before the exchange rate.

I'm good, boo. I was making a generic statement that most providers won't get into details over those mediums because of potential entrapment.

Yeah, "fool me once shame on you..."

Maybe it's that the first picture is of a double penetration, but their ad puts me off. It's just like "here's HUGE cocks" and relatively few pictures of them. And the text is very staccato.