KensingtonHomo

If I’m traveling, I like around 9 or 10 so it will help me sleep. Home I like late afternoon or early evening for massage and escorts. It’s when I’m feeling my best - I’m ready to bottom if that’s on the menu - and then I be can have dinner. Also, providers tend to have a lot of energy and particularly if it’s a massage; I don’t need them to cum.

This is rich from you. You can write endless negative commentary about providers, fellow posters but you draw the line at someone make the most obvious statement about a rich person - Edited by moderator to remove political reference.

I think many of my fellow hobbyists are overthinking this. I'm middle aged but look about a decade younger than my age. In my conversations with providers, those with any real experience are not worried about age at all. Their biggest concerns are respectful interaction, treating them well and - this is frequently stressed- excellent hygiene. Chemistry is unpredictable. If I enjoy a provider's company - even just in the greeting and saying goodbye - I am more likely to see them again. And those who enjoy my company (or ours if I'm hiring with my husband), tend to follow up or reach out. Is that intimacy? Sometimes. I have a couple of regulars who I care about but as I do my hairdresser or doctor. But perhaps being married and not interested in romance with anyone else, I'm less likely to "fall" for a provider.

We saw Shareef about a month ago. And he was wonderful. His massage skills are strong. He looks younger and more handsome in person. And he wad very sweet. Definitely seeing him again.

RFK Jr. is undoubtably on a cocktail of testosterone, HGH, and who knows what else. No 71 year old can look like that without pharmaceutical assistance. Plus he's insane.

I am younger than you and still hire primarily for convenience. But, I agree with @Jamie21 that a big part of it is your self-perception. I was SO insecure when I was younger, particularly around sex. The older I've gotten, the more secure I feel in terms of what I want and my body. Sure, I'm not 25 but I'm quite fit for my age, look at least a decade younger, and I remain flexible. So I don't struggle to keep up with a younger provider. I think @Vin Marco is on to something: regular exercise - particularly strength training - is essential as we age. I would add a good stretching routine to that.

Yeah, young Dick Ward definitely made me gay.

This isn't weird at all. I'm a bottom who can switch between being submissive, dominant or somewhere in the middle. A lot of it depends on the chemistry with the other guy.

LOL - Not toxic gay masculinity ruining your threesome.

I saw him last night. He was fantastic. Great massage and wonderful extras.

This is why I generally prefer providers who are over 30. Often, they've been at it for a few years and just want to be treated well, paid well and not incite or receive drama. There are exceptions, as we've seen a 24-year-old recently who is super cool, easy to talk to, passionate, and all you could want. I looked my number up on Mr. Number, and there was one complaint that I "flaked" on someone. It didn't give other details so it doesn't bother me.

This is unnecessary and mean.

It looks like he has multiple sources of income and only wants to see men who can afford a premium price. Maybe he's aiming for a sugar daddy or maximizing his time and energy. Either way, he's priced himself out of most of the market. That's his prerogative and none of you have to waste time hitting him up.

We generally look to see if someone is mentioned here. If they are and there are red flags, we'll probably stay away. A lot of enthusiasm may make us more likely to hire. That said, if someone isn't mentioned here but they have positive reviews on RM, we'll generally go ahead with him.

He doesn't have anything that other providers with a more reasonable fee have.

No, we hired someone who we found more attractive than you and your buddy. And had a great time. i notice you didn’t post your attempt to insult me. I’ll share it here so clients know what you’re really like:

I guess Logan is on some damage control mission. Because he started texting me today. As was clear in my post that he quoted, the experience I was referring to was trying to set up a meeting. We were only interested in him; not his buddy. When he insisted we pay for the services of someone we were not attracted to or interested in, we declined. Had Logan just come over and met with us on his own; we would have paid his fee happily. He seems to think this is a “gotcha” but we found a local guy in Maui and had a great experience. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Agree. Caveats unrelated to services always give me pause.

He seems to be promoting more of a sacred intimate and sex surrogacy then massage or escorting. His website is interesting: Divinity Empowered DIVINITYEMPOWERED.LOVE Reconnect with your body, passion, sensuality and sexuality in the care and guidance of a loving, strong...

He's marketing himself as Irish, but his name "Devah" is from Sanskrit. Weird. But there's nothing he could possibly do for $1,110 to be worth it.

I saw Cain today. The massage was great. He’s very handsome and very sweet. I got a bit of a vibe that it could have gone sensual but I was only looking for therapeutic.

Have you tried hiring someone a second or third time? Perhaps if you build comfort with someone, you'll be less nervous and able to get to the main event more quickly.

Yeah. I used to tip more but if the base rate is over $200, then the service has to be exceptional.

Yup. I never repeat with a guy who does that. What I do if they offer erotic is ask up front what that includes. And as others have said, if it goes beyond that or the experience is really good, we tip well.

I do not regularly carry cash but if a provider requests it; I will get some. Maybe it's an NYC thing but almost every provider I've seen takes some form of digital payment.