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Sorry this happened to you.

It’s a good reminder to hide stuff when new providers come to call. A hotel safe always cones in handy

Why perseveration over this? Find someone else. It beats spending your session worrying about it

5 hours ago, Lucky said:

Please tell me how resistance training will protect a user from Ozempic face.

Touché. In my experience though, people who exercise and lift weights while losing weight always look better all over including facially. 

For a first meeting it’s nice to do it in a neutral space like a hotel. Nothing kills the fantasy more than going to an escorts’s place and it’s a filthy shithole with dirty dishes stacked up in the sink and an unmade bed.

The Burner app for IPhone is great. I use it routinely for all sorts of vendors when I don’t want them tracing me

Not a fan of taking these kinds of drugs as they also reduce muscle mass. If you do take them you need to be doing resistance training so you don’t become frail and gaunt from “Ozempic face.”

1 hour ago, Bokomaru said:

Great point! It’s just that it’s hard to keep that in mind when you really look forward to having a good time with a hot guy and get a cancellation instead. 

I used to take it personally when I got a no show. I’ve experienced enough limp zombies to realize that it’s a money saving blessing

49 minutes ago, Bokomaru said:

Maybe they just aren’t motivated that much  by the money, in contradiction to what is often stated on this forum. “I’m tired” is the type of excuse you often hear. Too tired to make $800 in two hours? I guess it’s just an on-the-side thing to do, when it’s convenient? I’m not a provider so I can’t really fathom why this happens so much. 

Your opinions? 

Some of these guys still want the money without the effort. I’ve had my share of escort “corpses” show up at my door. Would rather have them flake out and not show up at all.

I don’t mind hair. What’s worse is shaving it off and having to maintain it. 
When I stopped shaving my face I was amazed that my shirt collars stopped wearing out. All of that abrasive stubble is such a drag

Not a fan of tats that obscure key muscles like pecs, biceps, calves, delts etc. 

I love it when you see an escort again and he remembers what was going on in your life from the last visit…and cares enough to follow up

That sucks that your 3 some was a bust. At least you got some decent enjoyment from stud #1. Did you need to call the coroner to ditch #2?

When I’ve done 3 ways on the road it’s with partnered guys. Never had an issue with energy level or feeling like a 3rd wheel.

A few years ago I saw an escort at his place and had a fantastic time. Two weeks later I unknowingly booked his married partner. When I showed up at the same apartment I was a bit amused to find that the appointment was almost a carbon copy of the previous encounter. I subsequently started seeing both together which is a lot of fun.

The funky issue I have is that I occasionally only want to see one of the two which makes it a bit awkward since I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. Any suggestions on the best ways to broach this?

My favorite thing is when the escort finishes by showering with you. 

Speaking of info drip, I hate it when I ask 2 basic questions of a provider and he only answers one. That’s now a “pass” for me.

It’s not just the reviews themselves….but how many there are and whether they are spaced with reasonable periodicity. I also look to see if there are repeat clients who book for increasing amounts of time…like 1hr to 2 hrs to overnight….

In any environment, “Always be selling.”

People always treat you better when you are…

One other off putting thing is when the provider shows up wearing older dingy white underpants. The “tell” that you’re in for an unimaginative session.

I once showed up to see a provider with a stack of 20’s that I left on the dresser before the session. He immediately picked the stack up and slowly counted it. I thought that move was in bad taste.

It’s very hot but so much work to maintain. Not a fan of stubble when it turns into sandpaper. In general I usually prefer some hair…

The reasons you’re now available are no one’s business. Shit happens and people change their minds. 

I’ve pretty much stopped hiring guys under 35ish for that reason

I’ve seen him a bunch of times. Very sweet. Combines massage with bfe. If you are looking for a traditional massage on a table then look elsewhere. If you are looking to have someone roll around with you in bed then he’s great

7 hours ago, Unicorn said:

See him another night? WTF? Are you assuming the OP is a masochist? And what do you mean, you keep a few options open? Do you schedule different people for the same time and accept the one you like best? The OP may have been able to schedule someone at the last minute, but doing that can be difficult, especially with a lot of escorts who aren't diligent about responding to texts. I remember 2 years ago an escort I'd scheduled an in-call for several days in advance while I was at a medical conference, and confirmed the day before, cancel on me at the last minute because he'd "overslept and forgotten about it." He asked me if I wanted to reschedule, and I said no way. Shit didn't happen. The OP got dumped because his escort thought he could make more money. This is not an auction. The OP & escort made an agreement on the price and time. The escort simply reneged after the fact. 

(I will also comment that in a prior string, sometime back, a poster asked how long one should wait for an escort to answer a text. While some agreed with me, some disagreed when I said it's wisest to move on if there's been no response after 3 waking hours. How can one make a same-day appointment with such response times?)

I also use A4A and whenever I hit a foreign city I often get a handful of inquiries from various people. If my planned escort session falls through I will sometimes go for a random chance meet. Quite often they are just as satisfying….and don’t cost me anything.

Ive had a few occasions where the escort bailed at last minute for understandable reasons and I’ve met up a few days later but they are rare

To respond to Jarrod’s original question….

Over the past 6+ years I’ve probably hired close to 50 Rentmen around the world. Most  of the experiences were no more or less exciting than what I might have experienced with a random hookup.

A good 20% or so were truly exemplary and worth the money. Most Rentmen that I’ve tried are just not that imaginative.