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DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.
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I think it pays to be more direct and convey some sense of urgency if you want an actionable response.
Like “ Looking to get a 90 minute massage on Tuesday evening. Are you available and how much do you charge incall?”
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It would be foregivable if his phone went dead but my guess is that’s not what happened. One cancellation without an excuse is a hard pass for me. Two back to back cancellations for any reason is also a hard pass
- buckguy, Medin, + DrownedBoy and 1 other
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I tip my massage guy 25%. Every time I see him he does a little more and adds a little extra time to the session. You get what you pay for.
- Simon Suraci and Jamie21
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I prefer either bi providers, or partnered gay providers. I find they have less “baggage” and tend to be less self absorbed.
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I used to get massages from him when he would occasionally come to Boston back around 2016 or so. He was a super sweet guy with a great body and he gave a great massage. Somehow I’m not surprised that he got caught up in some weird shit. When I saw him he was into monetizing everything outside of just a basic massage. Still though, just a guy trying to earn money no matter what.
Edited by moderator to remove political content.
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You are never required to find a strangers family emergency. Huge sign to step away. Chalk it up to charity and forget about it
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12 hours ago, azdr0710 said:
I found a hilarious Ben & Jerry's one....is this it?
My bad- that’s the one
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LPL has a fantastic channel. His Häagen-Dazs video was a classic.
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When I lived in Boston I used to prefer seeing providers I could walk to. It was fun trudging through snow to see someone who could warm me up.
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I’ve never understood the Kristy Keene hype. I think their stuff is highly overrated. Sickenly sweet. More of a Dunkin fan.
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When that happens, I just ask them to massage another part of my body that needs a little more. Sometimes it pays to take a little control in a nice way
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Chains are very hot.
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I prefer nice clean transactions. Cash in big bills and no Uber. My tip will more than cover any transport. I’m not paying to make my life more complicated.
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You’re a possible back up client. Don’t count on it. Find someone who wants to see you.
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Funny- I saw him about 5 or so years ago. Nice body and a nice enough guy but the sex was rather average. There was no desire in my part to repeat.
He also required a phone interview prior to hiring which I found a bit off putting
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5 minutes ago, Oakman said:
Example solicitation:
“Hi Mr. Provider, this is Mr. Client, I saw your profile on RM 🤩 (attach photo of myself). It looks like you are in town this weekend and I am interested in setting up some time to hang out with ya on Saturday or Sunday afternoon.
I’m 46, 5’11”, 200 lbs, bald, fit, muscular. I like to be submissive with big men. I’m a pleaser, so am pretty open to you being in control and doing whatever gets you off. I’m also affectionate.
I think your photos are amazing. If this sounds like a good match, please let me know if you’re up for an outcall to my place at (provide Goggle map link to my location). I’ll cover the ride and your travel time. What’s your rate for an hour?”
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I’m open to feedback. This tends to work.
IMHE this is a bit wordy and your request for rates is buried at the end where it will get overlooked. I would start out with something shorter like:
Hi- saw your Rentmen ad. What would you charge for a 2hr incall consult sometime Sat or Sunday in X city?
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I have a luxury problem
in The Lounge
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Why are you willingly subjecting yourself to family on an expensive retreat? That’s not a vacation by any definition.
Sounds like it’s time for some new family rules .
If you have to do family dwell time, do it somewhere more pedestrian, like a city where you can more easily find ways to separate…like NYC or DC.