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People always treat you better when you are…

One other off putting thing is when the provider shows up wearing older dingy white underpants. The “tell” that you’re in for an unimaginative session.

I once showed up to see a provider with a stack of 20’s that I left on the dresser before the session. He immediately picked the stack up and slowly counted it. I thought that move was in bad taste.

It’s very hot but so much work to maintain. Not a fan of stubble when it turns into sandpaper. In general I usually prefer some hair…

The reasons you’re now available are no one’s business. Shit happens and people change their minds. 

I’ve pretty much stopped hiring guys under 35ish for that reason

I’ve seen him a bunch of times. Very sweet. Combines massage with bfe. If you are looking for a traditional massage on a table then look elsewhere. If you are looking to have someone roll around with you in bed then he’s great

7 hours ago, Unicorn said:

See him another night? WTF? Are you assuming the OP is a masochist? And what do you mean, you keep a few options open? Do you schedule different people for the same time and accept the one you like best? The OP may have been able to schedule someone at the last minute, but doing that can be difficult, especially with a lot of escorts who aren't diligent about responding to texts. I remember 2 years ago an escort I'd scheduled an in-call for several days in advance while I was at a medical conference, and confirmed the day before, cancel on me at the last minute because he'd "overslept and forgotten about it." He asked me if I wanted to reschedule, and I said no way. Shit didn't happen. The OP got dumped because his escort thought he could make more money. This is not an auction. The OP & escort made an agreement on the price and time. The escort simply reneged after the fact. 

(I will also comment that in a prior string, sometime back, a poster asked how long one should wait for an escort to answer a text. While some agreed with me, some disagreed when I said it's wisest to move on if there's been no response after 3 waking hours. How can one make a same-day appointment with such response times?)

I also use A4A and whenever I hit a foreign city I often get a handful of inquiries from various people. If my planned escort session falls through I will sometimes go for a random chance meet. Quite often they are just as satisfying….and don’t cost me anything.

Ive had a few occasions where the escort bailed at last minute for understandable reasons and I’ve met up a few days later but they are rare

To respond to Jarrod’s original question….

Over the past 6+ years I’ve probably hired close to 50 Rentmen around the world. Most  of the experiences were no more or less exciting than what I might have experienced with a random hookup.

A good 20% or so were truly exemplary and worth the money. Most Rentmen that I’ve tried are just not that imaginative.

I’ve had many instances where the posted escort locations didnt match reality so I never totally trust what’s printed. This is especially true when escorts have an agenda with 5 or more serial locations. It’s easy to get thrown off schedule especially if you’re flying 

PatrickFunBoy for sure…with his partner Vince. They are on Rentmen. Fantastic massage and more. Super sweet muscular guys

It’s so unusual that I consider it a treat when I find a guy with a hairy back. I love a hairy chest too

I notice that escorts post rates on Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder…but invariably they are not the rates quoted when you contact the person directly….

I thought it would diminish as I got older and my testosterone faded. The joke is on me. Just around the corner from 70 and I’m as horny as I’ve ever been. Still thinking about it all the time. I need to J/O or have an adult interaction at least once a day or I feel edgy. Especially after working out.

6 minutes ago, Unicorn said:

I've been to a number of pool parties in which wine's not on offer. Who prefers wine to an ice-cold mixed drink or a cold beer/hard seltzer on a hot day by the pool? I can also think of an evening party I went to in which no wine was offered (by a Kiwi couple), and we also went to a party of a friend who has a balcony overlooking the WeHo Pride Parade, and there was no wine at that party, either (just hard seltzers, hard liquor/mixers, and beer). We must travel in different circles. Most evening parties do offer wine, though. 

Not sure where you live but here in the Northeast white wine is always served chilled….

Asking for wine at a party does not seem out of line if there is already alcohol at the event. It would seem a bit weird to throw a party and not offer it.

Publishing companies used a similar screw job to illustrators with “work for hire” contracts where an artists illustration would be reused in different ways without added compensation. Studio musicians probably face the same screwing when they perform on a recording and have no skin in the game when the album gets re-released.  No surprise that studios view AI in the same way 

A lot of hotels have corner rooms with unusual bathroom layouts. You should ask upon check in.

A few years ago I stayed at a Hilton Garden Inn down by Battery Park. I don’t recall any restrictions for a guest coming right up to the room

We have rabbits in our neighborhood. The population ebbs and flows depending upon the health and abundance of our local foxes and coyotes. I find the foxes to be especially majestic. I see then roaming the neighborhood in the early morning. As far as damage to our garden, the chipmunks are a far greater menace.

I’ve hired a few guys who have done porn. They weren’t any better or worse than non-stars so I don’t think it’s worth paying a fame tax

I saw him a few years ago. Nice guy but a bit loopy. It was an ok if not somewhat unmemorable experience. At that time he looked a lot older than his curated pix.

I made the mistake of waiting 30min outside the door of a provider. He called me after that to tell me he was running errands and wouldn’t be back for an hour and asked me to wait.  I left and never rebooked.

If you don’t hear from someone within 15 min of arrival then you are definitely wasting your time.

When traveling I try to keep a few options open in terms of scheduling. Shit happens but it sucks that he bumped you. At least he was honest about it.

Find someone else, hopefully…..or see him another night. 
 

I don’t think that the original poster was obligated to tell the escort that his price was out of line. It’s nice that he shared the info but it really wasn’t the escorts business to ask, no more than for the client to try to negotiate a cheaper price.

You get one chance to make a first impression. When someone has the gall to ask for a grand they should be prepared to overcome objections. That’s basic sales 101. He needs to convince you that he will be really worth it. Sounds like you dodged a bullet