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When it comes to job hunting, 65 is the new 90. That’s how all the 30-something managers view you. Glad to be retired. By all means call me elderly. In Portland they use the term “honored citizen” for the transit card

The new version allows me to blow up images on my iPhone which is very useful. 

Through some weird hole in the sexual ozone here in the US my updated Rentmen app is allowing me to see reviewers comments now….but I no longer get height and dick size measurements in inches. I don’t mind converting cm to inches in my head but the kg weight measurements throw me off slightly. Ironically the reviewer comments are generally not all that helpful. I stopped paying for the premium service a few months ago when the price doubled and haven’t missed it

4 hours ago, purplekow said:

Many men spend a lot of time on the upper body, especially here in NJ.  Great thighs are harder to develop and calves are ridiculously difficult. So it is always great to see a great pair of legs, for me they are a rare avis.  

My gym is filled with buff 20-something college students this summer with huge upper bodies and bird legs. It makes me wonder if muscular legs are just out of style

On 6/15/2023 at 6:43 PM, DrownedBoy said:

You offered the entire amount. It was refused. The escort sounds like the kind of old-fashioned soul who would have been offended if you "insisted" he take some. It's fine.

I would recommend trying to hire him again, though, as anyone willing to refund for that is worthy of a second chance.

You were good to offer payment and he was good to turn it down.  
 

In the few times that it’s happened to me I’ve always paid. People aren’t robots and sometimes they don’t stay hard.

On one occasion i rehired an escort a month later who couldn’t stay hard and the same thing happened the second time. So it was either something in his head or maybe something about our chemistry, but after that experience I won’t ever repeat a session with someone who couldn’t stay hard the first time

He quoted me $750 for 2hr. I went elsewhere 

Maybe I’m lucky but I have yet to experience a private messenger who wasn’t sincere about his inquiry…and who wasn’t appreciative for the response.

Occasionally they have useful info about others whom I’ve been interested in trying so it’s win-win

One of my providers is a practicing attorney. He just enjoys the escape of escorting. His partner, a therapist, is also an escort. I enjoy seeing them simultaneously. They groove on having 3-somes especially if they can both top.

Another escort I see just got his PhD in neurobiology. He enjoys the diversion as well.

I seen all kinds of guys with day jobs including nursing, flight attendant, gym owner, teacher, programmer, etc. Nothing wrong with a side hustle.

For a first timer, it’s not the length that matters as much as the girth. You will want someone with a max diameter no more than 5 inches. Unfortunately that’s not a spec featured on Rentmen

1 hour ago, Daniel84 said:

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I saw Daniel84 last week for a massage. He was fabulous. Definitely planning to repeat.

You always look better in someone else’s mirror

There is such a fine line between lying about age and simply forgetting to update your profile as years pass. I always add 5-7 years automatically to any profile….and subtract an inch from dick size 

It’s also possible that your original course of antibiotics was not strong enough to totally kill off the gonorrhea…and that it would have come back even if you hadn’t engaged in sexual activity….

As a client the reverse is also true. I find that some providers are curious to know what other providers I’ve tried and what the experiences were like.

Usually though, I’ve found that in the course of sessions, providers will often tell me about unusual encounters with other clients without mentioning any names. They’re all good stories 

I once had this happen to me…an escort who wanted to stay the night after our 2hr session. Turned out that he had a fight with his bf who had thrown him out and he had no place to stay. It became a bit uncomfortable and I didn’t want to be pulled into his drama. I wound up driving him to a friends house on the other side of town. Was afraid that if he stayed the night I would face the same drama the next morning. 

On Rentmen the conversion from cm to in tends to round up a bit as well.

It depends on what the nature of the interaction is.

If it’s primarily massage then an hour is plenty, especially if it’s a local provider who you can see again easily.

If it’s a BFE thing with someone under 30 I would be inclined to try just an hour first unless it’s a traveling provider who I’ve been eager to try.

An older seasoned provider…definitely 2 hrs. 
 

Call me ageist if you wish…just my honest opinion based on experience 

State Farm sucks. They canceled me back in the 80’s when they left Massachusetts. Now that I live in the PNW I would NEVER consider using them again. Sorry Jake but he sucks too. 

Make sure you can tolerate the 6000ft elevation of Albuquerque…and don’t get sick. Not exactly a Mecca for health care.

Sometimes, though, it’s good to add new blood into the mix. Sometimes my regulars come up short too.

Click on the box at the top header on the left side of messages. Below you get a dialog box with a trash icon…click on the trash icon.

Each message has a selection box but the little box on top allows you to select everything at once

If we are going to start weighing people and charging them for 2 seats, them airlines should impose height limits as well and make unusually tall people sit in the premium section so others can recline their seats

I live in downtown Portland. It’s no worse than any other city. You just need to use street sense and be aware of your surroundings. The vast majority of people I meet on the streets are friendly and harmless

There is a married couple that I often see. I used to think that one partner was hotter in a 3 way. Due to availability I’ve had occasions where I’ve also seen each of them separately. Once I started doing that I found that I had a better appreciation for both of them

Don’t shit where you eat.

Let it pass and say nothing to anyone at work. 
 

While not a work thing, I’ve run into 2 different Rentmen I’ve used at my local gym. Even then I just smile and move on. They are entitled to their private lives.