Jamie21

Oh no! You wouldn’t hire me then. My 90m rate is £185…..but I take card payments so you can pay the exact amount if you don’t have cash 😂

Yes some do. For example if they’re anxious about the risk of catching something (that’s an unfounded concern in my view since I test regularly), but it’s understandable if you’re wanting to be 100% safe, which some discreet married clients are requiring. I respect that even though it’s tempting to suck him!

The endless, and impossible to answer tip debate again! I don’t expect any tip, and to get one is fabulous. But this is from a UK perspective where tipping is not such a big thing as it seems to be in the US. If you tip here then it’s generally only because you received exceptional service. If you tip zero then that isn’t interpreted as being bad, it means expectations were fully met. I’ve said previously that I much prefer a client to come back, or to give a fantastic review, than to tip. Of course they’re welcome to do all three 🙂

Depends on the masseur. You should ask him (although some might be guarded about how they answer because of legal issues). I include blowjob if my client wants it but other masseurs will just do handjob.

There’s a massage demo video on my website where clients can watch me, and hear my voice. I never thought about the voice thing until a number of guys who watched it commented it was nice to hear my voice, so I understand what you say about how it can be attractive, especially to those who like an English accent 🙂.

I never travel to other cities. I’m never listed in other cities. I’m not even on the same Continent as him! My RentMasseur advert always says “London”…..So if someone sends me a message like that my response “I’m in London, sorry” is I think totally reasonable.

On the tube there is only one rule to remember. Stand on the right of the escalator. NEVER stand on the left or you’ll look like a foreigner, you’ll get tutted at and told to move.

You’re a fabulous client @Coolwave35 🙂. Keep spending on your BA cc!!!

Sorry, I didn’t answer that question in my last reply did I (ironic 😂). Likelihood of him actually booking questions start with: “Hi Jamie, I looked at your site, it’s great but I’d like to ask do you do xxxx?” or “…would you do out call to xxxx” or “I’m discreet, can I pay by cash / is your studio private etc”. Questions where he has gone beyond deciding to go ahead but he wants to check some detail are likely to result in a booking and so get a more engaged response. Messages like this: “Hi Jamie I’d like to book a 90m session with you at 3pm next Tuesday please, I’ll pay by card. Thanks Bob” will get a prompt reply with confirmation, address & directions and an invitation to ask any questions or make any specific requests. Ideal 🙂

It’s by experience. My rate and availability times are easily found - it’s on the website. If a potential client has looked there, seen what I’m about and most likely had all his basic questions answered by what’s written on there then he’s more likely to book. Whereas if he’s just found my number somewhere (it’s on lots of places even where I haven’t advertised because these sites just find numbers of guys who do this kind of work and add them to their directory to make it look busy and attract paying advertisers) or if he’s not looked beyond page 1 of my website then it’s more likely he won’t follow through with booking. Example texts I get: ”Hi, I want a girl for tonight, my hotel”. This punter thinks I’m an agency. Ignore. ”I’m a student, what’s your best rate?” This one hasn’t read that I don’t do student rates. “Sorry I don’t discount”. ”Your videos have got me screaming Wow every sec of the way through. Tonites my best nite. Had to give Head for a gram in the office toilets and its gd stuff i can get more for us?” That one is one of my favourites…. one of many examples where the client is drunk or high when they contact me. Ignore. “Hi do you do massage?” That’s obviously someone who has found my number on a list of workers….and often the conversation reveals they expect me to be female…(I guess my name could be female too) and when they discover I’m a guy…it’s my fault and I get shade. Those guys are actually worth being rude to: I tell them guys give a better bj so he should try it out 😂. ”Hi I’m at a hotel on 23rd and 5th downtown Indianapolis. Are you free later tonight?” He believes I’m in some US city (swap Indianapolis for AN Orher place). God knows how he thinks that. “I’m in London, England, sorry”. I could add that if Concorde still flew I might be able to make it but my outcall rate for outside of London includes travel costs…. So you see, lots of questions get asked that obviously aren’t going anywhere. They get a short, polite, response, some get instantly blocked.

So was I! Seems strange to me as I love being covered in cum. Everyone is different though. Since the filming I looked at his films and I see he’s always top. I guess he just shoots his load on or in the bottom or the bottom shoots on himself.

Ones that turn up.

Definitely ask if it’s something you specifically want. Just because someone lists lots of things doesn’t mean they’re into everything. Sometimes it’s surprising what escorts aren’t into. Example: I was filming a porn scene with a well known escort (for our respective fans sites). We’d discussed beforehand broadly what would happen (or more to the point…what wouldn’t happen) so that was all good. Near the end of the filming I shot on his chest and he freaked out. We stopped and cleaned it up. Then we started filming again to finish him off. I was totally surprised by his dislike of cum on him, which seemed unusual for an escort. So I’d say he might be really into some specialist things but don’t assume that means he’s into everything.

Yeah I guess in some places guys have to be a bit discreet in their ads, for legal reasons. Must be really annoying.

He must have been in high demand! When demand exceeds supply, you put the price up.

No excuse for being rude, but not engaging fully with some enquiries is a way of weeding out the time wasters, window shoppers and those who expect a ‘deal’.

Most of the basic questions that get asked are already answered in the advert or website. It gets quite tiring to answer the same questions by text. I get “hi what’s your rate?”….”when are you available?”. I get a lot of messages like that. So sometimes the answer “please see my website” might seem curt, but it’s really just to avoid lengthy exchanges by text. Also, if the first question is “what’s your rate” the likelihood is it’s too expensive for him. You learn to avoid wasting too much time on that kind of thing.

My Justforfans features me…obviously 😂 (and I’m definitely not 19 any more!). I film with all ages from 20 year olds to mature daddies of many years vintage. https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim

I’ve done couples massage. Either as a 4 hands where I guide one of the couple in giving a massage to their partner, or where I give the massage alone while the partner watches. Then they swap over. Being watched receiving a massage by your partner can be really exciting. I’m based in London though!

Hmmm… I liked one of my postmen, who would sometimes deliver more than letters. He always wore shorts, even when it was freezing…best calves I’ve ever seen. His cum tasted sweet, he was intact and was top. The Royal Mail was exemplary in those days.

Me too. You’ll find me in the kitchen at large parties chatting to one or two people. Unless of course it’s a sex party, then I’m happy to be in the middle of the action and with an audience! I still don’t understand why that is but I’m happy to keep exploring it to understand it better 😂

I agree with you except for the extrovert bit. I’m not extrovert (far from it!!) and most of my sex worker friends I wouldn’t call extrovert. I know that’s not a scientific sample but anecdotally it seems to me to be valid in my experience. But I do think all are interested in people and in particular how they connect sexually.

Yes, it’s not easy. Which is why many beginners start out thinking ‘Great! Easy money, I’ll have sex and get paid’…..and then they realise it’s not like that atall, so they go off and do something else.

Yes agree, although I’d kind of hope someone doing sex work does realise that the brain is the biggest sex organ. When I see female clients you’re not getting much response if you don’t think about what’s going on in her head and manage that through the session. With guys it’s simpler but still important to think about his emotional state if you want to provide a great service. I love the reference to emotional connection as a ‘menu item’! …. Client : “I’d like my cock sucked and to cum in your mouth and I’d like an emotional connection please” Provider “yes ok, there’s an extra charge for the cum in mouth option. Would you like ‘emotional connection plus’ or is the standard level of connection ok? Client “what’s the plus version?” Provider “I add extra sincerity, it’s an extra £50 for the plus option.” Client “ok I’ll take the standard level of emotional connection thanks”….

A good provider wouldn’t let it be apparent though. The ones who are adept at this work will be able to find a bond very quickly. It’s a very tough job if you can’t do that!