Jamie21

First time I got paid for sex was when a guy asked me in a chat room how much I charged. I’d sent him some pics and clearly he assumed I was for hire (maybe I encouraged that 😂). I asked what he wanted, which seemed easy for me, and then gave him a rate. He agreed, sent me his street and house number and asked me to text him when I was near and definitely not to knock on the door but to stand on the street corner and wait, which seemed strange but I didn’t question it. So I dressed as provocatively as possible without turning up in just a jock, and arrived outside his place, sending him a text to let him know. I guess he was watching as I stood there, to make sure I looked ok. I must have looked suitably attractive because he then texts me to knock at a different door number. Obviously if I was not to his liking I’d never have found out his real door number…might still be standing there now! Once inside he invites me up to the bedroom, telling me his wife is out and she won’t be back for a few hours. In my naivety that surprised me…id expected him to be single (I was so inexperienced!). He was kind of indistinguishable from any guy you’d pass in the street without noticing them, around 60 and had the air of someone who’d hired before. He told me to undress, and left me in the bedroom while he went off to do something. So I stripped off and lay on the bed, imagining him and his wife sleeping there later, and as I lay there waiting I realised I’d forgotten to bring condoms or lube… He knew I was inexperienced (despite my attempts to come across otherwise) so he took charge which was fortunate. I had no problem with not being attracted to him, it was the situation that was a turn on for me. Probably the risk, the situation and of course his interest in me. After the session he gave me the money, and ushered me out quickly (I think his wife was due back). Counting the money as I walked back to my car I felt elated. There I learned I had the ability to do the work.

Although I’d imagine it helps to relieve the monotony?

I’ve had a few clients ask me to lay on the table during the session so they can work on me. It’s fine by me. Quite unusual though. Then there’s the ones who ask me to bend over the table 😂…

Those masseurs don’t understand sensual massage. They separate the massage and the intimacy/sex part. It’s usually because they were trained as therapeutic masseurs where the intention is definitely not to arouse and you don’t go anywhere intimate with touch. These masseurs then take up the ‘happy ending’ style massage and what you get is 80% therapeutic massage and 20% jerk off. The worst ones do a perfunctory massage, then grope a bit at your genitalia in the last 5 minutes and then flip you over to finish with a hand job: no body contact, no kissing, no tender touch no build up, no holding hands, no cuddling….no connection. That’s not a sensual massage. There are proper sensual masseurs out there who understand that sensual massage is a treatment of the mind as well as the body. Ask a few questions of your masseur and find out whether they have this approach or the massage and sex approach. Or book me next time you’re in London 😉.

I think the OP was referring to one provider being hired by a group of clients. This feels like something the client should set up with other clients who want that kind of thing. It’s like setting up a sex party: find your location, invite guys who are interested in joining, vet them if you want to (to get a mix of tops /bottoms etc or to get a certain ‘type’ if that’s your preference) then hire a professional who’s ok to attend such an event and agree his fee.

It’s the most beautiful thing. Looking into his eyes as the scent and feel of warm sticky cum is shared between us. Something to be treasured.

Tastes good (usually). I like kissing with a mouthful. I recall a recent client who’d enjoyed kissing (which is good because I do too!) during the session. I was sucking him off and he shot his load in my mouth so I held it there and moved up to kiss him to share his load but he turned away so I had to swallow it. I asked him ‘not into kissing and sharing?’ and he said “no it grosses me out!”.

If he absolutely promised to top you, but didn’t then if he’s honourable he’d offer you a discount, especially so if the failure was down to him being high. That’s him being cavalier towards you and it deserves to be called out by you if he doesn’t offer the discount. No excuse for being high. If he didn’t feel 100% ok to see you he should have asked you to postpone. If my clients ask me to top them (I do sensual massage but often clients want that to include sex, either as top or bottom) then I say there’s no guarantees or promises about it (nor extra charge for it). I think it has to feel right for both of us at the time, and the main activity is sensual massage. If they insist it has to happen then I’ll add an extra charge and I’ll make sure it happens or discount if it doesn’t.

Mine seem to be aware. I get asked ‘can I see you when you’re fresh?’. I’m like a baguette at the bakery, best in the morning whilst still warm.

I’ve filmed a couple of porn films with a lovely FTM guy called Eddy. He’s available for hire. Really great guy. Obviously he’s based in London (like me). I’d recommend anyone interested in hiring a trans guy to try him.

It’s tipping … I reckon it has another 8 pages to go.

Hats off to you for replying in that vein. I bet you’re a lovely client to see. The reason most guys charge more for an out call is because it takes up travel time. You may only book an hour for the out call but your masseur or escort has to travel to your place or hotel. The extra cost is to reflect that extra time. In 3 hours at my place I could see 2 one hour clients but only 1 out call in a 3 hour window.

Lots of common misunderstandings here. 3 clients a day 6 days a week is quite some going…. not really sustainable. Also, for each client actually booked there’s around 4 who take up time with enquiries that don’t go anywhere. That needs to be factored in. Then there’s the cost of facilities (whether you rent space or use your home which still has a cost), advertising, regular training, travel costs etc. It’s definitely not zero overhead. Plus taxes of course plus cost of benefits that one has to buy which you’d often get via an employer. There’s no way I get 100% profit off what I charge. And I’d invite anyone who thinks they can get rich quick to try the job for a few months and see how they get on. I assume they’ll be happy to make themselves available at all sorts of times, often at short notice, be ok with possibly not earning anything next week, dealing with time wasters and clients who treat them like dirt, sort out their own insurance, pension etc. 😉

Yes I definitely agree with that. I’ve joined the end of a few long queues at sex parties to fuck a hole that’s been loaded up. It’s very satisfying. My issue with some bottom guys is that it’s like fucking a sack of potatoes (which I have never done…I’m talking figuratively before anyone asks 🤪). Guys, maybe you’re inexperienced, that’s fine, but arch your back a little and offer it up, don’t be passive. I’m very flexible and hung so I can get in great positions but you do need to do your bit. If I’m bottoming I always try to make it easier for the top to work in a good position, especially if he’s not so hung.

I’m of a Goldilocks view where there’s a sweet spot when it slips in nicely but you can still feel the sides 😉

There’s no indication or comment that it was anything connected with his work or lifestyle. I guess we shall find out in due course but it feels improper to speculate on what the cause was. Best to just pass on sympathy to his family and loved ones and thanks for his life. I know people who worked with him (I’ve worked with them) and none had a bad word for him. Sometimes you hear on the grapevine that certain people are difficult but it wasn’t the case for him. People tend to think doing this kind of work is easy, it’s not even work. At first it is like that but very quickly it becomes different. If you’re going to sustain yourself doing porn and sex work you soon realise you need great discipline, conscious effort and a great degree of professionalism that exceeds that for many conventional jobs. There’s all sorts of diversions, risks, shady characters and temptations that young and impressionable minds can be subjected to. Those strong enough to recognise the risks, manage them and keep a sense of perspective can be successful on a long term basis. The others get eaten up or burn out quickly and leave.

If you mention collaboration you’d likely need an Onlyfans profile. Collab is the term used by guys who want to make content with other Onlyfans models. I get requests from guys to collaborate, the first thing I do is look to see if they have an Onlyfans profile and how many followers they have. If they have no profile then I ignore it or decline. Sometimes models have (on their IG or X page) a link to their agent or contact for enquiries or their social media links which may link to their website. I’d guess that if he’s difficult to contact then he probably doesn’t escort. Someone open to the proposition would have some way of being able to receive discrete enquiries.

Yes, anything that shows off my physique and accentuates my pecs (and minimises belly). Plain colours are preferable, no logo. 😉

It didn’t seem to care much in the past, and before Brexit many of those Brazilians had Portuguese passports so they were ok to stay anyway. Things have changed more recently and the government is doing more to find those who are here illegally.

[Text redacted] I’ve no problem with being called a hooker or whatever. Prefer to be called a sex worker, but what’s in a name? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. Also doing sex work can be approached casually (many do), or professionally (as in by having certain standards and by being reliable and honest etc). I argue that by being professional one can be more successful and have an investment portfolio 😉. I’ve found that those who denigrate the work do so because either they have prejudices or insecurities or they’re jealous. They deny it of course because it’s better for their ego for others to have a problem but the inescapable reality is that it’s their thinking and their problem. There’s nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

Well you certainly made it clear to everyone about who you are didn’t you.

Exactly this. He’s not professional. He should offer you some alternative, 50% discounted next booking (if you want to take that risk). Sounds like he just said ‘sorry I can’t come’ and made it sound like he was doing you a favour. Very poor form. Move on from him.

Accents can change within a few miles, London has at least 5 (cockney, saaath London, norf London, estuary, RP). There’s loads of different ones across the whole country.

I can do working class, no problem. Although someone who isn’t from the UK couldn’t tell one’s class from one’s accent, language or demeanour. But to a British person it’s immediately evident and cannot be hidden.

Cream first then jam. Always. I had some yesterday. Delicious.