NJF

The “gut” is usually right. 
it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
“I knew better.” 

I carry my lube (and other accessories)  in Ziploc bags when I travel. Sometimes doubled, i.e. lube in small bag, massage lotions in small bag, both into a big 1 gallon Ziploc.
Still messy *inside* the bag if an accident happens but my luggage/stuff stays out of it.

This may be a new popular scam. I experienced a similar situation. The provider asked for a deposit before providing the room number when I was in the hotel lobby. I promptly left.

This may be a new popular scam. I experienced a similar situation. The provider asked for a deposit before providing the room number when I was in the hotel lobby. I promptly left.

The game is the disappearing act lol. After making you traveling all the way to the hotel, the scammer thinks that he has the leverage to extract a deposit and then ghost. 

Report him to the BBB (Better Booty Bureau).

This may be a new popular scam. I experienced a similar situation. The provider asked for a deposit before providing the room number when I was in the hotel lobby. I promptly left.

Consider this a nominal fee you paid to learn two valuable lessons:
1.) Don’t give deposits
2.) When people have long stories, explanations or exchanges, filled with “complex” matters and circumstances… it’s usually bullshit. 
 

This may be a new popular scam. I experienced a similar situation. The provider asked for a deposit before providing the room number when I was in the hotel lobby. I promptly left.

The game is the disappearing act lol. After making you traveling all the way to the hotel, the scammer thinks that he has the leverage to extract a deposit and then ghost. 

This may be a new popular scam. I experienced a similar situation. The provider asked for a deposit before providing the room number when I was in the hotel lobby. I promptly left.

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Wow and I believed them all when they said they were virgins. 

When I travel, I would make the initial contact approximately the week before and finalize the appointment 1-2 days ahead of time.

When I travel, I would make the initial contact approximately the week before and finalize the appointment 1-2 days ahead of time.

When I travel, I would make the initial contact approximately the week before and finalize the appointment 1-2 days ahead of time.

When I travel, I would make the initial contact approximately the week before and finalize the appointment 1-2 days ahead of time.

When I travel, I would make the initial contact approximately the week before and finalize the appointment 1-2 days ahead of time.

If your life is such that you can’t be seen out with a hooker….. don’t go out with a hooker.
No judgment. No shade. Just fact.
If you choose to go out with a hooker, you will be seen, you will be judged, and there will be shade….the question is, do you care?

You need to write a book. 

I've never been stiffed on my rate for time, but was once taken for a rather large hotel bill.
Client was a solid guy for 15+ years.  He was visiting NYC.  Suite at the Carlyle.  His card was giving him issues, so I graciously put down a cc and he agreed to make sure I was paid back.  I didn't think there'd be an issue.
There was an issue.  A $24k issue.
Moral of story:  Don't confuse being gracious and being stupid. 
I ended up getting my money back. 
From what I was told, he eventually ended up dead, pulling this same bullshit on people who weren't so understanding of his con.

If the provider is relatively new, I don’t really care about the number of reviews. However, I would stay away from an established provider who started advertising several year’s ago but had only a few reviews. 

If the provider is relatively new, I don’t really care about the number of reviews. However, I would stay away from an established provider who started advertising several year’s ago but had only a few reviews. 

If the provider is relatively new, I don’t really care about the number of reviews. However, I would stay away from an established provider who started advertising several year’s ago but had only a few reviews. 

If the provider is relatively new, I don’t really care about the number of reviews. However, I would stay away from an established provider who started advertising several year’s ago but had only a few reviews.