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    NJF got a reaction from + Pensant in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I knew several providers who claimed as bi but never had intimacy with a girl 😂 
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in HPV   
    You know how I keep it so tight?
    I squeeze lemon juice on it every morning.
    Puckers right up.
     
    ... Are we still talking about my phrasing?
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    NJF got a reaction from + APPLE1 in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I knew several providers who claimed as bi but never had intimacy with a girl 😂 
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    NJF got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I knew several providers who claimed as bi but never had intimacy with a girl 😂 
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    NJF reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Keeping the name of the provider private because it went TOO well.   
    Apparently he is here for "viewing only" and not to contribute 😜
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    NJF got a reaction from muscmtl in Where scammer is bad at math   
    Can’t find a more famous black gay sex worker to catfish 😂. This guy needs to be in a mental hospital 
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    NJF got a reaction from Lotus-eater in USA plans to reclassify marijuana as lower-risk drug   
    From Schedule I to III. It remains controlled substances. The only difference is researchers can access cannabinoids more easily, which is a good thing. It is so much a hassle to deal with Schedule I drugs.
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    NJF reacted to + nycman in A cautionary tale   
    As my father once said to me when I asked for a loan, "Son, if the bank doesn’t think you’re a good risk, why the fuck should I?"
    He had a point and I learned a lesson.
    Whenever someone asks me for a loan, I either say "no" or I give them the money and never expect it back. I will not ask nor hint to be repaid. I will however, never make another "loan" until the first one is repaid. 
    So far that has worked for me. I’m not an ass about helping others. But I’m also not a sucker. And in general our friendships have remained intact. Whether or not they repaid me.
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    NJF reacted to Rick M in A cautionary tale   
    Lawyer? Hell no, the money isn't the important thing. And parsing out $ wouldn't have worked, he was too far in the red.
     When I die, my executor (a real moneygrubber) can try to recapture it. 
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    NJF reacted to BuffaloKyle in A cautionary tale   
    The best advice I have heard on lending money is only lend an amount of money you would not be upset to never get back. It's crazy how many people lend money and put themselves into debt to do it or financial difficulty. Obviously that wasn't you @Rick M but just my input.
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    NJF got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Providers not responding to inquiries   
    Take the cue and move on 😂 
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    NJF reacted to + nycman in HSV-1 recurrence   
    Could it be?….yes.
    Is it?….no clue.
    Go see a doctor.
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    NJF reacted to LookingAround in 4 words that change the dynamic of a session   
    You’re hiring; you’re in charge. Take charge. “Woa! I cum very easily. Let’s slow down. I don’t wanna cum too soon.”
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    NJF got a reaction from Archangel in Providers not responding to inquiries   
    Take the cue and move on 😂 
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    NJF got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Providers not responding to inquiries   
    Take the cue and move on 😂 
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    NJF got a reaction from Yukon21 in Douche problem   
    It really depends on what you are prepping for. A large one needs deeper douching.
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    NJF got a reaction from Jamie21 in Douche problem   
    It really depends on what you are prepping for. A large one needs deeper douching.
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Definition of a regular client   
    If I see you for extended visits- weekends or longer- for years, then you're a regular.
    It's not just about the time or money spent, for me it's do we know each other?
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    NJF reacted to tenderloin in Where scammer is bad at math   
    It's the only blessing of the US not being on the metric system - these scammers have no idea what they are doing when they put stats into fake profiles. The other day I was hit on by someone alleged to be 6'5", 135 lbs, with a 42-inch waist. Hot! 
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Providers: what makes you not watch the clock?   
    'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'
    I'm sure the replies will be incredibly meaningful, insightful and inspirational.
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    NJF reacted to Jamie21 in Providers that aren't into kissing nor giving oral   
    It’s mixed. I’d say most of my clients don’t want kissing (but they want to be rimmed lol…). Kissing is very intimate and for guys who aren’t ready or able to describe themselves as gay, or for those who are in relationships etc then kissing is a step too far. Others most definitely want to kiss. You can rarely tell and it’s not something that I’d ask before the session. However during the session I’ll perhaps kiss his neck, near his ear or somewhere and see what he does. If he turns his head away then I know kissing is probably not his thing but if he turns towards me then it’s a sign he might want to kiss. Occasionally I’ll ask by whispering in his ear “would you like to kiss” and that’s enough for him to take the opportunity or not depending on his preference. 
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    NJF reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Texting Providers vs Giving a Cell Phone Call?   
    I would not mention anything sexual in the first text massage, in case you have the wrong number.  You can mention that you are Okay with telephone calls.
    Example:
    You (1st message):  "Hello.  I'm John.  I saw your ad in XXX City.   Are you available for a 1 hour session this Friday evening?  I can travel or host in XXX neighborhood.  If available, what is the rate you charge?   I am willing to discuss more by phone call if you prefer"
    Him:  "Yes, I am available on Friday.  I charge XXX for outcalls. Etc..."
    You (2nd message):  "Great!  That rate works for me.  How's 8pm?  I see you are into kissing and water sports, which is what I'm looking for.  Your ad says "Ask Me" about safe sex; so are you okay if I use a condom when I top?  Feel free to call if you prefer to discuss in person"
     
    In summary, keep it short and sweet.  Don't specifically mention paying for a sex act when hiring in the United States.  Mention dates and city in the first message (in case he's traveling), but be careful about any more information in case you have the wrong number.  Try to ask your important questions in the 2nd text messages, and keep them simple so he can respond with "Yes, I'm fine with those activities" .  Don't waste his time with open ended questions such as "What do you enjoy to do in bed?" that require too much of his time to answer and may not answer what you really wanted to know.
    Happy hiring!
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    NJF reacted to BaronArtz in What's the standard price in New York for two hours right now?   
    I live and hire in NYC. 
    My sweet spot is 90 minutes for an erotic massage/interactive playtime combo.  For that reason, I prefer working with guys who have both a masseur and an escort ad.  For that, I am quoted rates between 240 and 300.  I do tip well for good performance.  After tip, a 90 minute session ends up being $300 - $400, which I find very reasonable.  The guys seem happy with that and I have no problems getting repeat appointments.
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    NJF reacted to + nycman in Overnight Rate   
    $800. 
    It’s the main reason I only do overnights in Europe.
    The rates are MUCH more reasonable than in the US.
    At $500 for an overnight, it’s totally cool if you sleep next to me all night long.
    At $2,000? We better be fucking like teenagers for 12 hours straight.
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