Providers: what makes you not watch the clock?

[DaltonJ]

Hi, Providers - what makes you (1) not watch the clock and (2) stay past the agreed upon time without charging? 

Is it: chemistry, having a good time, client is nice, or … (insert anything else you’d like to share).

Thanks! 😊 

[Rudynate]

You really think you'll get any responses?  No one would want to admit to being a clockwatcher, but they also wouldn't want to raise a possible client's expectations.

[NYXboy]

I have seen some providers who set an alarm timer for when you arrive/go.   I have no problem with this. 

In my experience though - most providers just give gentle subtle clues about when time is up, if you can read social cues you should have no problem. I have stayed longer and chatted or just generally hung out, but I think it is kind of rude to go out of your way to try and stay over time and not pay - which is what you are essentially asking.  

Overstaying your welcome in any scenario is not cool - I think a good motto and social etiquette is "Go before you are asked. Don't wait to be asked to leave."  

The best way to get extra time is to book and pay for it. 

 

[Jamie21]

It’s usually if the client is a regular that the timing becomes fluid. If they booked an in call then I stick to the time agreed. I never go under but don’t go more than 5 minutes over either. They might have commitments afterwards and usually so do I therefore we finish on time for in calls.

For out calls I’m more relaxed on time if I don’t have commitments afterwards (and I always leave time after an out call to my next thing because of the risk that an out call over runs or starts late) and nor do they. 

Recently I saw a regular client at his hotel. We hadn’t agreed a duration but his usual sessions are about 90 mins to 2 hours. This time he had a couple of travelling companions with him (he told me beforehand) so I expected the session might last longer. Therefore I made sure I had no commitments for a few hours.

As it turned out I started the session with the client and then part way through his travelling companions joined us. After about 90m my client went off into the lounge area with one of his companions (it was a hotel suite with 2 separate rooms) and I was chatting on the bed with the other one. She told me they were going for dinner later so I knew they had plans. 

My client came back in with his travelling companion and there was a bit more play but I sensed things were coming to a natural end. I asked my client what their plans were and he said they had a dinner reservation. At this point one of his companions said she needed to wash her hair for the dinner because there was cum in it (that was me 😂). My client said she’d take ages in the shower so why didn’t I go first?…so I knew that was my cue that the session was over. As almost an afterthought he then invited me to join them at dinner but that would have been too late so I politely declined. As it happened after I was dressed we all got chatting for half an hour about their theatre and concert trips. 

 

 

[+ APPLE1]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

if the client is a regular that the timing becomes fluid

As a client, that's the experience I have found to hold true most often.

[DaltonJ]

5 hours ago, Rudynate said:

You really think you'll get any responses?  No one would want to admit to being a clockwatcher, but they also wouldn't want to raise a possible client's expectations.

Probably not. I’d knew I get your kind of response. If they care to answer, great. If not, no big deal. I’m far more interested in having a meaningful or insightful conversation than reading about fart fetishes. 

[Thelatin]

You will probably have more luck in that area if you are a regular client.  On top of that be clean, be in decent shape, be kind, stay in a nice hotel, maybe offer food and drink, bring a gift.  I guess treat it like a date.  I understand that it's not a date, and yes it's all "fake" and transactional.  But everyone likes to be treated kindly. 

[Rudynate]

3 hours ago, DaltonJ said:

Probably not. I’d knew I get your kind of response. If they care to answer, great. If not, no big deal. I’m far more interested in having a meaningful or insightful conversation than reading about fart fetishes. 

Unfortunate you experienced my response as "tart."  What I was going for was to point out the tough spot you are putting would-be responders in.

Edited April 23 by Rudynate
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[+ BenjaminNicholas]

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'

I'm sure the replies will be incredibly meaningful, insightful and inspirational.

[DaltonJ]

27 minutes ago, Rudynate said:

Unfortunate you experienced my response as "tart."  What I was going for was to point out the tough spot you are putting would-be responders in.

Hey Rudy - I didn’t actually. It’s hard to read tone in a text. I get what you’re saying.  Simply, if a provider wants to share, great and if not, they don’t answer and move on.  And if they do share, it’s interesting to hear something different or where they’re coming from. There could be providers on here that have a different handle and remain completely anonymous. 

[DaltonJ]

1 minute ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'

I'm sure the replies will be incredibly meaningful, insightful and inspirational.

Now that’s “tart.”

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Just now, DaltonJ said:

Now that’s “tart.”

Puckered, actually.

[DaltonJ]

48 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'

I'm sure the replies will be incredibly meaningful, insightful and inspirational.

Thanks. Your reply was insightful. Tells me you’re a clockwatcher. Among other things.

[MikeBiDude]

Moderator warning: Let’s get back on topic to the OP’s original questions.

[ShortCutie7]

I think a question that aligns more with OP’s intent would be “what can I as a client do [non-financially] to get the best service possible?”

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

39 minutes ago, ShortCutie7 said:

I think a question that aligns more with OP’s intent would be “what can I as a client do [non-financially] to get the best service possible?”

But that wasn't the intent of the original question.

He was clearly asking how he'd be able to get a service for free when he knows he's supposed to be paying for it.

And I quote:  'Not watch the clock' and 'stay past (agreed) time without charging.' 

Pretty straightforward to me.

It's like people who want to sit in first class but aren't willing to pay for it.

Edited April 23 by BenjaminNicholas

[Rudynate]

11 hours ago, NYXboy said:

I have seen some providers who set an alarm timer for when you arrive/go.   I have no problem with this. 

In my experience though - most providers just give gentle subtle clues about when time is up, if you can read social cues you should have no problem. I have stayed longer and chatted or just generally hung out, but I think it is kind of rude to go out of your way to try and stay over time and not pay - which is what you are essentially asking.  

Overstaying your welcome in any scenario is not cool - I think a good motto and social etiquette is "Go before you are asked. Don't wait to be asked to leave."  

The best way to get extra time is to book and pay for it. 

 

I have a good sense of time - I usually know, within 5 or 10 minutes or so,  what time it is.  I just know when I have about 15 minutes left on the clock - time enough to dress after a quick shower.  So. I'm the clockwatcher.

[DaltonJ]

22 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

But that wasn't the intent of the original question.

He was clearly asking how he'd be able to get a service for free when he knows he's supposed to be paying for it.

And I quote:  'Not watch the clock' and 'stay past (agreed) time without charging.' 

Pretty straightforward to me.

It's like people who want to sit in first class but aren't willing to pay for it.

I see they took away where you called me a bitch. 

Watch your mouth, Ben! You don’t know anything about me.

I’ve read countless comments from members here talking about how this provider doesn’t watch the clock, this provider is not a clock watcher, and so on. So that simply made me pose the question to providers: what makes you not watch the clock?

If you didn’t like the question, don’t be a “little bitch” or dick about it. Be a man, and fucking move on!! Pretty straightforward to me!!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

13 minutes ago, DaltonJ said:

I see they took away where you called me a bitch. 

Watch your mouth, Ben! You don’t know anything about me.

I’ve read countless comments from members here talking about how this provider doesn’t watch the clock, this provider is not a clock watcher, and so on. So that simply made me pose the question to providers: what makes you not watch the clock?

If you didn’t like the question, don’t be a “little bitch” or dick about it. Be a man, and fucking move on!! Pretty straightforward to me!!

They didn't.  I did. 

But for the record, I still think what you're suggesting is a little bitch move.

You're trying to wiggle out of what you were originally asking.  You didn't just ask about clockwatching.

Stop the bullshit.

[Thelatin]

2 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'

Hey provider, what can you do to get repeat business if you would rather see client A instead of client B?

I get repeat customers everyday in my business as I’m easy to work with.  My repeat customers get more attention and better pricing.  

That’s how I look at this process as well.  I try to make myself a valued client.  It has typically worked out well for me. 
 

[DaltonJ]

1 minute ago, Thelatin said:

Hey provider, what can you do to get repeat business if you would rather see client A instead of client B?

I get repeat customers everyday in my business as I’m easy to work with.  My repeat customers get more attention and better pricing.  

That’s how I look at this process as well.  I try to make myself a valued client.  It has typically worked out well for me. 
 

Maybe @BenjaminNicholas should READ this carefully. If he were easy to work with, he’d probably wouldn’t be on here so much trying to make shit out of nothing.

[MikeBiDude]

OK, thanks for all the posts.