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Would start with NExxon alone first.....he's all that you will need and adding a 3rd IMHO would be a distraction to enjoying a perfect session. He's a gem

This was a red flag I missed before. I paid for it.

i make it clear up front that we are firm for an hour, but if things click extend to 2, and whether that is an ok set up with escort. Have yet to get push back on it as the good ones know that individual chemistry is hard to predict up front no matter how hot the pics are ,how many reviews, and how good the communication has been....we are just all wired differently!

i make it clear up front that we are firm for an hour, but if things click extend to 2, and whether that is an ok set up with escort. Have yet to get push back on it as the good ones know that individual chemistry is hard to predict up front no matter how hot the pics are ,how many reviews, and how good the communication has been....we are just all wired differently!

i make it clear up front that we are firm for an hour, but if things click extend to 2, and whether that is an ok set up with escort. Have yet to get push back on it as the good ones know that individual chemistry is hard to predict up front no matter how hot the pics are ,how many reviews, and how good the communication has been....we are just all wired differently!

i make it clear up front that we are firm for an hour, but if things click extend to 2, and whether that is an ok set up with escort. Have yet to get push back on it as the good ones know that individual chemistry is hard to predict up front no matter how hot the pics are ,how many reviews, and how good the communication has been....we are just all wired differently!

He's been discretely available for hire for years.  He is a naturally eager bottom.

had that happened many years ago with one of the "famous" ones from here. HOt session and he stayed, and next thing I know we were done with round 2 and 4 hrs into a 1 hr call. It was late so I fed him some food before he left. In hindsight it may be his way to entice more business (which it worked!!)

had that happened many years ago with one of the "famous" ones from here. HOt session and he stayed, and next thing I know we were done with round 2 and 4 hrs into a 1 hr call. It was late so I fed him some food before he left. In hindsight it may be his way to entice more business (which it worked!!)

had that happened many years ago with one of the "famous" ones from here. HOt session and he stayed, and next thing I know we were done with round 2 and 4 hrs into a 1 hr call. It was late so I fed him some food before he left. In hindsight it may be his way to entice more business (which it worked!!)

I've never HAD a three-way where I didn't think one or the other was better.
Some couples will NOT hook up without each other, and some will. Those who ARE open to independent meets generally don't seem to be offended by preferences one way or the other.  (At least not in MY experience). I think every sexually active person learns that there is someone for everyone, and not everyone is your favorite.

There is a married couple that I often see. I used to think that one partner was hotter in a 3 way. Due to availability I’ve had occasions where I’ve also seen each of them separately. Once I started doing that I found that I had a better appreciation for both of them

Luv2Play is correct...my experience has been it's rate for each, rarely a discount for duo (i.e 300 each, 600 both).
@Lookingaround:  what about when i want to go back to the duo....no sure the $ excuse will work well....

Seeking collective wisdom here...just finished a fantastic session with a duo (if there is a review site here I would write one)...one of the pair is definitely more my type, albeit both were great and both are available individually. Thoughts on me hiring the preferred guy (for more than a quick romp) and whether that would affect our great chemistry the next time I engaged the duo together again?? How do I even set up with the preferred one...can't exactly say "i think you are the hotter of the 2" since they are a BF group and seems to be really into each other as well.....
 

Luv2Play is correct...my experience has been it's rate for each, rarely a discount for duo (i.e 300 each, 600 both).
@Lookingaround:  what about when i want to go back to the duo....no sure the $ excuse will work well....

Agree..I typically plan ahead, and in fact pass if they respond with "text me the same day and I 'll see if i'm available"....
Other red flags (From a client's perspective):  ask for pics; after confirming everything a week ahead, then when reconfirming the day before ask you all the same questions again; don't promise they kiss or cum or something, and yes, short 1 word answer to typical set up questions, after a day of no response.

I was in Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena etc in 2019.  Travelling solo and minimum Spanish so spent a great deal of time in planning and understanding where I was going, and stuck to uBer, tourist spots daytime, hired guides, and less wandering, and a cheap phone and cheap watch. Was also very aware of my surroundings. IT was a great trip without a hitch (thank goodness). Did spend time on Chartubate and found a Bogota one that ended up visiting me in hotel.   Nice guy but not experienced. Had a decent time in Medellin with Grindr guy. So can be done with lots of planning and low amount of risk taking.

I was in Bogota, Medellin, Cartagena etc in 2019.  Travelling solo and minimum Spanish so spent a great deal of time in planning and understanding where I was going, and stuck to uBer, tourist spots daytime, hired guides, and less wandering, and a cheap phone and cheap watch. Was also very aware of my surroundings. IT was a great trip without a hitch (thank goodness). Did spend time on Chartubate and found a Bogota one that ended up visiting me in hotel.   Nice guy but not experienced. Had a decent time in Medellin with Grindr guy. So can be done with lots of planning and low amount of risk taking.

This.
No manners, no empathy post-pandemic.

went to Egypt in 2008 with a gay tour group....in Luxor we had some free time and walked to the local market with other group members. Already had some stares given 5-6 men together. then when one couple in the group was stupid enough to start some PDA, things went downhill real fast. Groups of locals starting following us and I couldn't run back to the boat fast enough. Needless to say was not happy camper to the couple 

I made a 2 hour appointment with a news provider.  I knocked on the door and he didn't answer.  I should have taken that as my cue to leave but I was horny.
I waited around for 20 minutes calling him (I'm aware that was a mistake).  He finally answered and he had overslept.  He had a quick shower and let me in.
He rented a room in a house so I was a bit uncomfortable.  Yes, another red flag.  He then proceeded to tell me that we couldn't use the bed as it would collapse. 
We blew each other and I rimmed him.  It was over in 40 minutes.  I paid for one hour and not two with no argument from him.
Moral of the story, it shouldn't matter how horny you are, if the red flags start to fly you leave.
He did look like his pics and was muscular and handsome.  I noticed his ad is gone now.

On a variation of this, I once refused to charge a client. Looking back on it I can see the funny side now but at the time I was really annoyed. 
He was a French guy visiting London. Had booked me for an hour sensual massage. Everything went wrong. He was a little late because he couldn’t find my place (I guess that’s down to him) but it started the session off a bit stressed. Then after 10 minutes the masseur using the other room phoned my room to ask me if I could see his card reader anywhere. This interrupted my client’s massage, just as I’d got him to relax. I couldn’t see the card reader so in the end I had to let the other masseur in to find it (which he couldn’t do). 
I apologised to my client and carried on, trying to re-establish the right atmosphere. Then, 10 minutes later an alarm clock which had sat on the shelf quietly for years suddenly decided to go off….and I couldn’t turn it off. Eventually I managed to silence it. 
By now the massage was 40 minutes in and should have been at a more erotic stage but there was no chance of that. So I just told the client that in view of all the calamities I’d not charge him anything. I finished him off and he got an hour but it wasn’t very relaxing or erotic. 
 


 

went to Egypt in 2008 with a gay tour group....in Luxor we had some free time and walked to the local market with other group members. Already had some stares given 5-6 men together. then when one couple in the group was stupid enough to start some PDA, things went downhill real fast. Groups of locals starting following us and I couldn't run back to the boat fast enough. Needless to say was not happy camper to the couple 

went to Egypt in 2008 with a gay tour group....in Luxor we had some free time and walked to the local market with other group members. Already had some stares given 5-6 men together. then when one couple in the group was stupid enough to start some PDA, things went downhill real fast. Groups of locals starting following us and I couldn't run back to the boat fast enough. Needless to say was not happy camper to the couple 

I opted not to go.  
there was a group text with everyoneeeeee and it just went in a direction that made it clear that this wasn’t the right space for me.  
 
It was exciting until it wasn’t.