Preference for one in a duo

[ncc1701d]

Seeking collective wisdom here...just finished a fantastic session with a duo (if there is a review site here I would write one)...one of the pair is definitely more my type, albeit both were great and both are available individually. Thoughts on me hiring the preferred guy (for more than a quick romp) and whether that would affect our great chemistry the next time I engaged the duo together again?? How do I even set up with the preferred one...can't exactly say "i think you are the hotter of the 2" since they are a BF group and seems to be really into each other as well.....

 

[+ purplekow]

In the past, I was in this position with two guys who could be hired individually or together.  I started hiring them together and then found it awkward to hire one without the other. So I attempted a solution wherein I would hire one to start the session, then have the other join us and then have the original guy leave and be alone with the second one.  They did not buy into that, so I just stopped hiring them at all.  The reason I wanted to hire them separately is that one was great at oral and the other was more of a general turn on and he had just started bottoming for bucks and I enjoyed the fresh, tight ass but when we were three, he would be more reluctant to bottom.  So goal was, warm up with the oral master, then keep the fires going with both and then come with the newly professional bottom.  As it turns out, hiring them that way for a three hour session would have only been $100 more than our usual two hour session.  I think their refusal had to do with money more than anything else.    

May an hour with one and then an hour with both would work for you and perhaps they would be a bit more accommodating than my pair of guys. 

[LookingAround]

You guys are over thinking it. I’ve been in exactly this situation. Just say due to economics you can only hire one and this particular time you’d like to hire so and so. Nobody will care. 

[ChasingGirth]

50 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

You guys are over thinking it. I’ve been in exactly this situation. Just say due to economics you can only hire one and this particular time you’d like to hire so and so. Nobody will care. 

Usually duos will charge you the same price as if it was 1 person because they enjoy staying together. It’s usually a good deal if you like groups. 

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, ChasingGirth said:

Usually duos will charge you the same price as if it was 1 person because they enjoy staying together. It’s usually a good deal if you like groups. 

Thst has not been my experience with most threesomes. Each charges the same so you are paying double each hour you are with them. 

[ncc1701d]

Luv2Play is correct...my experience has been it's rate for each, rarely a discount for duo (i.e 300 each, 600 both).

@Lookingaround:  what about when i want to go back to the duo....no sure the $ excuse will work well....

[ChasingGirth]

If they are a couple most won’t charge twice. 

[+ purplekow]

My experience is the duo charged more than a single but less than both together.  Your mileage may differ.  250 each and 400 for two.  

[+ Charlie]

It depends on whether the duo is a couple or only two guys who will work together.  If it is the latter, trying to hire only the preferred one is usually no problem. If you are trying to separate a pair who think of themselves as a working unit, you are navigating a much trickier situation. If possible, you should contact the one you are more interested in and and inquire how they feel about working separately, and hope he gives you an honest answer. The dynamics of one couple can be very different from those of another.

[harlow]

I just stay away from any profile that says they have a partner they can work with or in the case of a massage 4 hands available. I’m my experience it’s just been too much of a headache and I never leave the session completely satisfied. I prefer the lone wolfs lol 😂 

[Luv2play]

20 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

If they are a couple most won’t charge twice. 

Can you cite an example. Here in Canada we have one couple Adrian and Anthony Cruz on RM who travel a lot between Montreal,  Ottawa and Toronto. Their rates are $300 each, separate or $600 together. That is typical of couples. I could cite others.

[pubic_assistance]

23 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

Usually duos will charge you the same price as if it was 1 person because they enjoy staying together. It’s usually a good deal if you like groups. 

I do love a good threeway, but I've NEVER hired anyone for it, specifically because of the cost.

Maybe I am missing something, but I have never seen a single profile list a duo at a price that wasn't equal to DOUBLE what the individual would have charged.

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

Edited May 22, 2023 by pubic_assistance
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[Whatsupandstuff]

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

I do love a good threeway, but I've NEVER hired anyone specifically because of the cost.

Maybe I am missing something, but I have never seen a single profile list a duo at a price that wasn't equal to DOUBLE what the individual would have charged.

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

you are dropping knowledge and wisdom 

[Luv2play]

Just now, pubic_assistance said:

I do love a good threeway, but I've NEVER hired anyone specifically because of the cost.

Maybe I am missing something, but I have never seen a single profile list a duo at a price that wasn't equal to DOUBLE what the individual would have charged.

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

Looked at from a bottom's perspective, two tops both cumming make a duo an attractive proposition.

[pubic_assistance]

3 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Looked at from a bottom's perspective, two tops both cumming make a duo an attractive proposition.

Agreed.

I bottomed more often when I was a young. I really enjoyed that sense of "letting go" and having two men have at me from both ends.

I think about repeating the experience sometimes.

But I guess I'm just cheap. I can't bring myself to pay that much for ONE ejaculation. 🍆💦

Edited May 22, 2023 by pubic_assistance
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[Luv2play]

I actually had a duo scheduled today at my house but had to cancel a couple of days ago as I caught a cold and am coughing too much to enjoy sex rignt now. They were going to charge $300 each. 

[pubic_assistance]

2 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I actually had a duo scheduled today at my house but had to cancel a couple of days ago

Sorry you're feeling under the weather.

I hope your duo is still available when you're ship-shape again.

 

[Luv2play]

It will take a little arranging. They were on their way to Toronto from Montreal and I was going to be their pit stop. A change of oil you might say.

[ChasingGirth]

6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I do love a good threeway, but I've NEVER hired anyone for it, specifically because of the cost.

Maybe I am missing something, but I have never seen a single profile list a duo at a price that wasn't equal to DOUBLE what the individual would have charged.

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

Hung_Couple’s rate was 500 when they were advertising together. 

[NYXboy]

On 5/21/2023 at 6:07 PM, ChasingGirth said:

Usually duos will charge you the same price as if it was 1 person because they enjoy staying together. It’s usually a good deal if you like groups. 

that's interesting - that has not been my experience.  What duo was charging the same rate for individual bookings and double bookings? 

[Simon Suraci]

Sometimes it’s slightly less to hire as a couple vs both individually. Depends on the duo.

I would ask the one you like better directly if you can hire him solo. The worst he will say is no. In that case you can still hire them as a couple or leave it at that and move on. No big deal.

[BuffaloKyle]

Usually it'll say as well right on the ad if a duo only work together. If it doesn't it should be ok to ask for just one.

[MscleLovr]

13 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

Splendidly put. I wonder if I can get a stonemason to inscribe that on my headstone…

I had the OP’s problem with 2 Italian-Brazilian men who shared an apartment. They advertised as working singly and as a duo. Both were very attractive physically so I hired each singly. I found I preferred one (Vincenzo) much more than the other (Ricardo). I topped both using condoms.
 

Chatting with each in post-coital bliss, I found their views of their relationship varied. Vincenzo told me Ricardo was NOT his boyfriend; Ricardo said he was. I was discreet as Vincenzo told me Ricardo was a little jealous, and Vincenzo did with me certain acts that Ricardo said they didn’t do. For example, Vincenzo was very happy to suck me off to completion and he readily swallowed my load; Vincenzo also rimmed me, whereas Ricardo said they never rimmed.  
 

For the OP, my 2 cents are Hire the man you prefer as often as you like. Maybe hire both when you want a 3some, but first discuss with your preferred guy how it may go with the two of them. Or hire another guy when you want to play with the preferred man in a 3some. 

[Simon Suraci]

15 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I remember many hot threeways in my younger years, but I don't cum twice as much that it would make paying twice as much worthwhile.

Devil’s advocate here. So… if a single provider makes you cum twice or more in one session, should you be paying that one provider more? 😜

Hint: tip your top performing boys.

The way I view it is you’re paying for a unique and worthwhile experience regardless of the number of times you cum, or even if you cum at all! Also, any given orgasm can be rushed, lackluster, or given in a suboptimal way. Arguably the provider (if you’re paying for sex work) should get you off, but really you’re technically not paying for orgasms or a quantity thereof, rather the experience overall of being with one or more men for a certain period of time.

Some of my erotic massage clients get a mind blowing happy middle and a happy ending. Yet, they’re paying me half as much per hour or less than I should be charging for escort work. If we’re talking orgasms as a measure of value, I’m way underpaid. But I don’t see it that way.

All this to say that quantity of orgasms is not a good or fair way to charge, or to pay, or to set expectations, for your hired men services. This applies regardless of the number of men you hire for a given session. It’s all about the experience and what value you find in having it, and also what is equitable for the men who are spending their valuable time giving you a premium service.

If you can’t afford multiple, I get it, don’t hire multiple. If you find value in the experience of hiring multiple and you can afford it, then hire multiple. If you don’t find a commensurate value in hiring multiple, I get that too, and in that case only hire solo.

For some men, the one orgasm while having a really special experience with multiple hires is well worth two or more solo hires. It’s all in how you value the experience, and if that value matches up to paying equitable rates for each hired man. When those match, why not go for it?

[pubic_assistance]

1 minute ago, Simon Suraci said:

if a single provider makes you cum twice or more in one session, should you be paying that one provider more?

Absolutely.