marylander1940 Posted May 23, 2023 Share Posted May 23, 2023 1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said: Devil’s advocate here. So… if a single provider makes you cum twice or more in one session, should you be paying that one provider more? 😜 Hint: tip your top performing boys. The way I view it is you’re paying for a unique and worthwhile experience regardless of the number of times you cum, or even if you cum at all! Also, any given orgasm can be rushed, lackluster, or given in a suboptimal way. Arguably the provider (if you’re paying for sex work) should get you off, but really you’re technically not paying for orgasms or a quantity thereof, rather the experience overall of being with one or more men for a certain period of time. Some of my erotic massage clients get a mind blowing happy middle and a happy ending. Yet, they’re paying me half as much per hour or less than I should be charging for escort work. If we’re talking orgasms as a measure of value, I’m way underpaid. But I don’t see it that way. All this to say that quantity of orgasms is not a good or fair way to charge, or to pay, or to set expectations, for your hired men services. This applies regardless of the number of men you hire for a given session. It’s all about the experience and what value you find in having it, and also what is equitable for the men who are spending their valuable time giving you a premium service. If you can’t afford multiple, I get it, don’t hire multiple. If you find value in the experience of hiring multiple and you can afford it, then hire multiple. If you don’t find a commensurate value in hiring multiple, I get that too, and in that case only hire solo. For some men, the one orgasm while having a really special experience with multiple hires is well worth two or more solo hires. It’s all in how you value the experience, and if that value matches up to paying equitable rates for each hired man. When those match, why not go for it? You can always tip one and not the other guy in the 3some. That's the reason why I know escorts who simply say "I'm not a masseur, I'm an escort". Massage is a lot of work and half the pay or sometimes even less. Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncc1701d Posted May 23, 2023 Author Share Posted May 23, 2023 6 hours ago, marylander1940 said: You can always tip one and not the other guy in the 3some. HOw does go about doing that without generating awkwardness, especially after a duo session and both are physically present?..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted May 23, 2023 Share Posted May 23, 2023 3 minutes ago, ncc1701d said: HOw does go about doing that without generating awkwardness, especially after a duo session and both are physically present?..... Do you count money in front of an escort and that he stare at you when you do it? You can always add another bill when you give money to one of them. You can always do it discreetly or send something extra by Venmo later.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncc1701d Posted May 23, 2023 Author Share Posted May 23, 2023 ok..interesting ...last time with the duo i just paid one of them the total cost and not separate it as they were a couple. Good to hear of other perspectives and methods Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted May 23, 2023 Share Posted May 23, 2023 19 minutes ago, ncc1701d said: HOw does go about doing that without generating awkwardness, especially after a duo session and both are physically present?..... I always pay at the end of the session and put cash in envelopes for each escort. Whether its one or two they never open them up in my presence. What happens later is not my business. Its not always the same anount but that's because sometimes they charge different amounts( not couples but two I put together) and sometimes one stays longer than the other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted May 24, 2023 Share Posted May 24, 2023 There is a married couple that I often see. I used to think that one partner was hotter in a 3 way. Due to availability I’ve had occasions where I’ve also seen each of them separately. Once I started doing that I found that I had a better appreciation for both of them ncc1701d 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted May 25, 2023 Share Posted May 25, 2023 (edited) I've never HAD a three-way where I didn't think one or the other was better. Some couples will NOT hook up without each other, and some will. Those who ARE open to independent meets generally don't seem to be offended by preferences one way or the other. (At least not in MY experience). I think every sexually active person learns that there is someone for everyone, and not everyone is your favorite. Edited May 25, 2023 by pubic_assistance Grammar liubit, sjmuktop and ncc1701d 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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