PhileasFogg

I feel your age but I’m old enough for you to call me “Mister Fogg”

good chemistry is mind blowing when they happen!

A true BFE with regulars is inherently prone to escalating transparency which is different treatment. A standing 1 hour scheduled appointment, perhaps not so much. I do recall a recent experience when a provider seemed to develop an unhealthy fixation on me, who I was with, and what I was doing. It become very uncomfortable very quickly and came to a dramatic end when his paranoia about something created an uncomfortable dynamic. That was being treated differently in an unhealthy way.

Funny you should ask I just got such a request this evening. My username is similar on RM. So I’m instantly suspicious of someone who contacts me there rather than here. In this case, the client profile had 61 reviews (all on 1/15/26), 61,000+ profile reviews over 10+ yrs, and a profile age of 28 So, I’m suspicious and I contacted the provider to let him know before I respond. Like you, I’d never discuss rates but I’d also not discuss other details either since different chemistries lead to different experiences I did have someone contact me a couple months ago Asked for info on a provider I’d reviewed in Chicago. Was way too forthcoming with personal info and even shared his cell #…I looked him up on MrNumber and saw a number of red flags and then warned all the providers he’d asked about

As Mike Stivic, Rob Reiner could have been a double for the hairy dude in the first Joys of Sex guide

Sooo, wanna have fun? send him back a response that says “ I don’t appreciate your fraudulent attempt to get $815 from me. I know you used AI to manipulate the notice to look real, but it didn’t work since I don’t use PayPal. I’ve printed all the documentation and filed a report with the FBI Cyber Crime unit since I’m sure they’ll find this case easy to prosecute.” let’s see him squirm…post his response for us to see And yes, FBI Cybrr Crime complaints can be filed online

Compliments of ChatGPT…took 90 seconds

BTW @Pierofj, AI can manipulate screen shots with ease. What you got was fraudulent - obvious since you didn’t use PayPal

Guys, reread - the provider TEXTED him

It depends 😉 your question is highly complex and the answer depends on so many things - the provider, certain anatomical characteristics, the direction of the wind, the flow of his hair, the angle of lights 😅🤣

The response they sent reeks of AI and geared toward intimidation. But it’s a paper tiger. If you paid in cash tell him to cease and desist on the harassment or you’ll be sure that “formal channels based on the evidence you provide”. Even better, mail the response to his address with the door cam

I believe I saw a forum rule stating that “Golden Girls” quotes are the exclusive domain of @samhexum 🤣🤣😅

Even if they're not doing a weekend, I've seen with guys who get 50-75 messages/day - triage rules their responses. The last guy I saw in New Orleans was visiting and - because quality providers in NOLA are scarce - he averaged two clients/day for a month. Between prep time, appointment time, and recovery time, that's a long day by itself...and then there's little things like eating and sleeping...triage.

If you had a good experience, I think you should see him. My encouragement is to not see only him

I wouldn’t do it… We don’t know who owns it. I can’t think of a compelling reason like patriot act compliance or 1099 reporting….unusual

I find the conversations I have with myself are the most intelligent ones I have all day And I don’t just think the sentence, I say it! see ya in a couple weeks! We can tell ask my young guests if it makes us more or less sexy 🤣

I named a couple and I left a couple unnamed. The ones I named were costly AND bad

Mine are only turned on for select people. My view for the escorts is that they get a lot of texts. What if they open one, don’t have time to reply…then you’re wondering why they’re not replying when in may simply be they have other pressing matters. if we are in the middle of a trip where logistics matter, I may simply ask that they turn it on, or even in some cases, that they share location while we are traveling.

About a year ago, I bought a small place in the French Quarter to have an escape from rural Mississippi where I relocated to be close to my family. The economics were easy - monthly costs of ownership (including flood insurance!) are less than a single weekend at my favorite hotel a couple blocks away - where I usually get one of their suites for entertaining frequent visitors that fly in. Renovation should be complete in 30 days and I’ll start using it for weekend entertaining. I think it’s anything but a money pit since the savings vs hotels will be 2-4k/month. Ask me how I feel about it after a hurricane though 😏 Both @BeamerBikes and @jusmeinbr have seen it and can probably attest that it’s perfect for my purpose Ironically, my family is now chasing a job and relocating to New Orleans. So this will become a transitional home while I look for something permanent there. I will keep this little place as a getaway since it’s easy to entertain friends in the middle of the French Quarter (where Airbnb/VRBO is forbidden) and I can walk to everything (including groceries, pharmacy, bars, restaurants, theaters, etc) To me, a house in the country sounds overwhelming. Too many things to maintain from afar and too many things to go wrong. Since this isn’t a market where real estate ownership is rewarded with assured appreciation in value, I look at every expenditure like this as needing to either make me cash flow equal to my securities or reduce my expenses.

I don't know...I suspect the rules have changed. For instance, what I inherited was grandfathered and not subject to RMD - which wouldn't have mattered if the balances had been taxed, right? Beyond that outdated experience I had, I'm certain you are better versed in current requirements than me.

I’m shocked at how much demand there is for my profile on hookup apps. In addition to certain anatomical characteristics, my communication is polite, articulate, respectful - so young professionals respond well and float to the top

Not just real estate. Retirement accounts get stepped up basis too. Saved me a fortune when my mom died

I’m considerably more selective and more focused on making reliable, drama free, sober regulars

I just met him for the first time and found him charming. Although I usually do weekends, my schedule only allowed a couple hours. Definitely will repeat for a weekend. I’m going to have to learn Spanish to know what he was moaning during the “action” 😅🤭

Some guys can handle their addiction. It’s when it becomes a problem to their reliability and presence that it matters. At that point, cut bait and move on