PhileasFogg

We are assuming he’s an actual cop and not a friend of a cop though…but either way, someone is taking a big risk

I think that anyone would point out that they have to have a handful of regulars who cover the fixed bills, then everything else is profit

@Evin Alexsander, there are two kinds of guys here - those you’ll appeal to and those you won’t. i suspect you have more of the former than the latter, but while the latter should probably keep their opinions to themselves, just focus on the former

I think it’s attainable with travel, but you have to factor expenses into it. One guy I was regular with asserted he made 200k/yr (I was 1/4 of that) but it became obvious over time that expenses consumed 1/2 to 2/3 of that and that I was his only regular source of consistent income.

I suppose if you’re a visiting provider in a big tourist town, you’re looking for the convergence of good client opportunities in the little slice of time you’re there. Locals have regulars and finding that convergence with visitors is a crap shoot. Smaller markets have quality clients planted firmly who are looking for quality talent

I think you should go for it

I have a lovely regular meeting with a guy I met online. He’s 20. He said up front that he’d never accept anything from me. I made him accept a birthday gift a few months ago though - a camera he wanted. It’s just the mutuality of the situation.

It depends. I have better experience with guys who are sober, intelligent, and mature. I don’t think a “look at me” narcissist who is drawn to the drug/club scene will be happy or drawn to someone much older unless there’s an “arrangement” involved.

I’m not sure what you mean, But if younger guys can’t keep up with me, they can tap out 😅😉🤣

I took three to St John a couple weeks ago. Their combined age was 5 yrs more than my 63 yrs I’m with youngest one of those guys right now in Santa Monica and I’m more that 3x his age. Age is a number. So many other factors weigh into the chemistry and vibe. I am healthy, in good shape, energetic…and I treat them as partners in our travels and not chattel

Kinda off topic, but Yes you can

After 40 yrs as husband and provider (two ex-wives, two kids, one ex live in girlfriend), it gave me a chance to focus on pleasure without commitment It allowed me to ease into and explore this side of my sexuality at a measured pace to places I’d never have imagined without commitment or creepy possessiveness It built my confidence (since I was completely new to it) to make connections outside the hired space it offers the opportunity to have high quality companions for my frequent travels without having to worry if they can “get off work,” afford the type of travel I do, or match my healthy/energetic pace.

Carpeting or rugs was already mentioned. Enforcement of lease terms perhaps. If there are gaps at pipes/conduits that go from floor to floor, they can be caulked. In my experience, upstairs is less of an issue than downstairs. Particularly if you don’t have a problem at the moment. I live in the middle of the French Quarter. Babies are the least of my noise worries

The list goes on: - lugging a table (if they bring one) - parking if they drive

I understand your point - perhaps it is less relevant perhaps to me as a top. For me, maturity, sobriety, and intellect are of primary importance. I’d rather have a 30 something suggesting he’s younger but possessing those characteristics. Case in point - there’s one provider who’s been roasted for age shaving here. Last year we traveled together multiple times. He looks CONSIDERABLY younger than he is. He always got carded when we were out. But he also lacked maturity and intellect. Not a good time for me regardless of his age persona.

That clearly made a statement. My first item to note was “open to short term meet and real networking opportunities.” To me that meant “no travel” which disqualifies him for me. I personally found it attractive that he avoids big bold tattoos.

Something only an elected official with no kids would consider doing 🫣

One baby will not be that bad at first if construction is good. If that changes, steps can be taken to mitigate.

Rule #7 addresses that No need to post pictures when the link can be posted. But identity data, and private info/private communication on this forum is verboten https://www.companyofmen.org/guidelines/

Many of us have lives and schedules that are packed. I was raised in the character of “if you’re not early, you’re late!” The greatest respect that can be offered a busy person is honoring the value of their time. Especially if they’ve honored yours by being on time themselves. I had a regular in another city that just couldn’t get that. Whether traveling, or just something simple, he just couldn’t get it. I like him, but the liability to my schedule became too much. Ironically, I tested the waters twice with him later. He even said “I know it’s important to you…I’ll be on time”…and he was horribly late. There won’t be a third time testing the waters.

I still don’t care about the stated age. I buy the picture and the persona and not a number

He was what lacks in NOLA - sobriety, intelligence and maturity. We struck instant rapport and he’s very soft to cuddle with and talk to

I finally met Luke and we are having a great time. I’m glad I finally have someone in NOLA to refer guys to when they’re traveling here

A 40 yr old man and a 14 year old boy is not right and doesn’t need statutory definition to make it wrong

Anyone with experience here? https://www.pinatapv.com/ or are there other recommendations - preferably with clothing optional pool