PhileasFogg

How do you differentiate between “Escorting” and “BF Experience”. The latter implies intimacy to me and the former implies merely time

ShenZhen

I have a friend who visited a very large city of 18 million few of us would have ever heard of. Cameras everywhere! No crime, no speeding, etc. Apparently, when crimes occur, time to apprehension is measured in minutes/hours rather than days/weeks. I have mixed emotions because I see the benefit, but I also know such coverage offers opportunity for abuse.

I search every number on MrNumber and the internet. Rarely get a hit, but when I do, I know it’s likely real.

I buy small silicone travel bottles from Amazon and fill them with melted coconut oil that then hardens when it cools

I guess I’m going to have to remove the Dr Seuss giglee’s from my grandkids’ room 🫣

I think he needs to be consuming more protein!

No, I thought back then it was called The Village Voice

John’s Boys Male Chorus is a perfect example of human chemistry creating tones that touch the soul Now, back to the litigious brand stealing name debate!

Well ain’t that the Wild Wild West…

Eat well, exercise, and spend time with young energetic men

If someone asked the direct question, I’d answer it honestly. Otherwise, I don’t have to advertise any details I don’t want to. I’d add, I probably wouldn’t write him off over his initial curiosity. Some people are just curious and inquisitive

Nice body but the tattoo ruins it for me. What’s it say?

I just heard from the guy and he’d set it to not be available in searches except when he’s traveling . mystery solved

A provider contacted me through RM Messenger after seeing a review I recently left for another guy. My spidey sense automatically goes up when someone contacts me directly. Note I still call it “spidey sense” rather than the evolved phrase “Peter tingle” lest you get the wrong idea on what was going up 😂 If I search his name, he doesn’t come up anywhere. In other words, the only way I can see his ad is through the message he sent me Why might this be?

I really am asking for a friend (really, I am) who wants some advice This guy is on radar for him - but there are caution flags and he may have changed his name. DANNYXCALIFORNIA - Male Escort, Gay massage - Chicago | Rent.Men RENT.MEN DANNYXCALIFORNIA Gay Escort in Chicago, Illinois, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. |... Caution flags: Number reported as spam on MrNumber but without a comment - so I don't know if that's an issue or a recycled # a lot of 5 star reviews, but the last is 2022 a combo of both current and three yr old pics for reasons I don't completely understand, he blocked the other guy on RM after he sent me a PM asking for help. Hmmm??? Anyone know him by this name or a different one? My friend is super cautious and can't afford to take any chances with a marginal guy.

It's a crap shoot - but I've been known to do it for guys that I've worked with before. But, it's getting more rare because I'm not the Fogg National Bank.

Clearly we are looking for different things in such a place. But you be you 😉

What can I say - maybe the in home training is paying off 😂

After 12 hours of traveling, I'll offer a couple of thoughts: 1) Good discussion and glad to see various perspectives offered 2) I'm sorry to see that some of you have responded to what you think I said happened and not what I actually described. 3) I'm fine if someone wants to say "hey, I think I personally might have enjoyed it." BUT, you are NOT entitled to say the same for me. @topunderachiever, you don't know me. Do not presume to have any basis to insult me with your prude/pearls comment....whether that was directed to me or @BSR, if you think it's right, then bless your sweet little heart. You can just go ahead an block me right now. 4) As many have noted - times have changed. As many of the older folks on this forum are critical of the younger ones for less safe sex practices "these days," many of the younger folks see consent and respect differently. Views on public nudity and consent are much more refined these days. And to the older folks, shame on you for teaching and/or modeling to the younger folks that this is OK. I'm over 60 and have NEVER been in an environment where this type of behavior is acceptable. 5) Some of you seem to bristle when I quote the law in what some suggested was a narrow sense. Actually, I simply quoted the law without personal bias. It's you choosing to interpret it loosely (based on your wishes), but those wishes carry zero weight in court. I will note that a number of public personalities have been "cancelled" and/or prosecuted both criminally and civilly over mere allegations of crossing these lines of propriety. Here are facts: I went to clothing optional resorts to get a tan not to get groped. I did NOT participate in IH's hot tub, red room, or sauna scenes (notwithstanding the fact that what happened two nights ago was at a bar on Duval St and NOT at IH) One guy, last night over drinks, even said that my (very fine looking) companion and I had intimidated them and were deemed unappoachable because we were clearly together - with each other - and not playing the field. Said guy was telling us this while his husband was in their room with another guest - to which I say - live and let live even if it ain't for me. I will note that earlier this year at Boy Beach in PTown, not a single person came up to grope either me or my very good looking travel companions. Each of you with differing views is entitled to your view, responsible for your actions, and man enough to own the repercussions of your actions. My suggestion - not everyone shares your view and, if pressed, the law is not very accommodating to your actions. Now, after 700 miles by plane and 400 miles by car, I'm going to bed. Good night

I don’t know if you’ve stayed at IH recently, but walking barefoot on the room floor turned my brand new white socks nearly black in less than an hour. I can send you a picture if you’d like. The glass sliding door above the pool was cloudy and could barely be called transparent. It took 14 hours to get the room cool and then we had to keep the thermostat on 60° to keep it close to comfortable, and the bathroom smelled like mold. This room was a PDK. I’ve only stayed at a Motel 6 once and it was much nicer. 😉 l’ve stayed at both Hacienda and regularly at 4 Seasons/Ritz Carlton and at Hacienda, they fall over themselves with service and the suite I had was bigger than my first apartment with every accessory I could need.

Tell me why this is right and proper behavior and I’ll concede that point. But so far, all I’m hearing is justification for why it’s acceptable bad behavior. And if you don’t see the difference, then I hope you don’t try it with the wrong young man or you might find yourself in cuffs of the involuntary kind 😉

Maybe that’s the problem…they weren’t cute 😂😂🤠. But seriously, if it were a cute guy, I’m sure the signals would have been there

As I said, I’m not trying to blow my personal experience out of proportion BUT, yes, lack of consent constitutes assault in most places according to my research. Maybe it’s a surprise to some - but times have changed. If you haven’t heard, “Baby It’s Cold Outside” was blacklisted by #MeToo for glamorizing date rape. And I will say that the two advances I’ve described were completely unsolicited and unwelcomed and, given their degree of intimacy, would have met the standard to constitute a crime. so, pray tell, how is anything I’ve described different from this: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45958023.amp

Is that the evasive way of saying “facts don’t matter?” If you think you have something to add, please pay attention Notwithstanding your weak deflection, do you have something to offer of substance other than your suggestion that assault is not assault if it’s gay on gay or in a gang hangout? Back to my scenario, I’m guessing if I did what I described to a woman in a bar, you’d be one of the first people to call me a “pussy grabber” So tell me again how am I overreacting?