PhileasFogg

Indeed you do! What’s are you doing on…. 😉 Recently, I’m corresponding with a young man in South America that I’m meeting next month and he didn’t know that US ip addresses couldn’t see the comments. He was about as shocked as you are now learning of their existence

At my age, some things are best left untouched - at least by the surgeon’s scalpel!

He’s used the latex suit in his ad before. I’m not into kink But I have heard mixed verbal reviews on him

For overnights I always arrange a video call in advance to assure we sync

This name has been suggested as an addition to weekend plans I have with another Atlanta twink later this month. . Anyone have info or experience to share? https://rentmen.eu/AshtenSky

He advertises himself as a “thug”. To me, that does connote a certain reservation as to what one should expect as he plays his role….don't know if that contributed to the resulting experience.

We are texting while he’s traveling home. Everything so far seems very straightforward and he seems sweet.

A pimp would be a hard stop for me. It makes me doubt whether or not the escort is working under compulsion and not as a consenting adult.

It’s always hard to reconcile conflicting experiences, but when it comes to disagreements that might be rooted in lack of clarity in communication vs tangible one on one experience as you’ve described, I’m inclined to give the guy a chance. I’ve reached out to him and will let you know how that goes.

BTW…did you notice one of the posted pictures is dated in 2017??

Intuitively, you’re right. And since I hire for overnights and weekends, I always do a call as well. But my experience with RM guys is consistently better than guys on MB In fact, if I see a guy who advertises on both, it kinda signals to me that they’re past their RM prime and trying to take the shot gun approach for exposure

I’ve just arranged to fly him to New Orleans for a weekend! just kidding 😉🤪😅🤣

This is true. There is one relevant shade of gray in this particular situation that, in my opinion, matters most - the OP seems genuinely traumatized for the experience. Sure, in any interaction between two people, the potential for misunderstanding, insult, and injury exists. In this case, for whatever reason, the provider took the knife of trauma, twisted it a couple times, and then came back the next day with a different weapon. While we must acknowledge fairly that the OP may have been contributory to the provider's reaction, it seems that the provider's reaction was beyond any measure of insult that might have been directed toward him. Aftre all, if he's a "pro," he's seen it all and should have risen above the fray of the moment. Otherwise, I'd have to question his constitution for this type of work.

I’m really sorry you had such a difficult experience. No one should walk away from an encounter feeling unsafe or unsettled. At the same time, threads like this often reveal that both sides made decisions under stress or uncertainty. That doesn’t minimize what happened to you — it just means that now, with some space and hindsight, you can take steps that give you more control and peace of mind going forward. Here are a few thoughts that might help next time: - Since anxiety is part of this for you, you may want to choose the location — whether it’s your home or a hotel where you feel comfortable and there aren’t distractions. - You’re buying time, not a guaranteed emotional outcome. When nerves kick in, sticking to what was agreed upon can help keep everything grounded. - For the next few encounters, consider seeing only well-reviewed, established providers until you feel steadier. It can make a huge difference in easing the anxiety you described. What happened to you clearly shook you. I hope your next experiences are much smoother and actually enjoyable — they absolutely can be with the right structure around them.

I changed from ExpressVPN to NordVPN. Very satisfied

What do you mean? Wouldn’t you always be a “day ahead” proactively managing the plan???

First, I acknowledge your point about the framing of the question. 😉 And, you’re absolutely right about the cleaner. But, I pay for a clean room. Imagine the Yelp Review if the room wasn’t clean! Again, that’s what I paid for and that’s what they are paid to do. Right?

Well, I’m sure they are appreciated, but tipping is not intended for the free agents. It’s intended for person who has to share part of the price “with the house.” If someone knocks my socks off but had a low price, then I’d probably give them more (as I noted above). But if someone charges an above market price, then I’m going to have already high expectations. I stayed at a Hampton Inn a few weeks ago. I used automated checkin, I arrived late and never say a human, I left in the morning. STILL, there was a placard on the desk with a QR code soliciting tips??

May I suggest contacting PinkIceland to see if they know one? The two greatest groups of tourist to Iceland are US and UK

I spent several days in Iceland recently. I’ve never hired a travel agent but these plans overwhelmed me so I did. I highly recommend PinkIceland I gave them a goal and a budget and they did not disappoint. The online itinerary made details idiot proof for me and I knew exactly when to check out, when to get in the car to drive somewhere, and where I should eat.

While I deviate from topic, one of the owners of my travel agency - PinkIceland - gave us a walking tour of Reykjavik last week. He spoke of the history of the queer movement in Iceland, rooted in sympathy for AIDS victims, and evolving to 1/3 of the country turning out for their annual Pride Events. He said that the first pride parade had about 400 in attendance, the next year 12,000 (~2012??), and then 100,000 the following year. The country only has about 320,000 residents.

Iceland has a lesbian prime minister. Apparently, it wasn’t until after the election that they realized they’d elected the first lesbian. It was just no big deal and no one even thought about that as an “issue” for discussion.

Mint boys is a low rent lower quality version of RM

Well, then you might want to check your number on Mr Number? It’s a choice each of us has to make, but personally, I’d prefer to be criticized first for being kind rather than a jerk. BUT, be sure that, if someone hustles me and refuses to make it right, then I’m capable of responding in kind if I choose. Maybe there are some therapists among us, but might not the concept of “Projective Identification” apply in the response @FaustOust might exoect to receive?

Oak Grove is a very rural area in the edge of Fort Campbell (101st Airborne). Strikes me as an odd place for such drama.