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Yeah, I happened to be in Memphis when that news broke. The way things are there right now, both the haves and the have nots need to find a way to work things out creating jobs and not be suing one another.

I flew Puka (our first meeting) into New Orleans for the weekend and Chase (a regular) joined us one evening! Two super sweet guys. Outstanding at communication in planning. Fine young men who are super sweet, and considerate. Individually and together they make the humidity of New Orleans seem cool by comparison We already have our next trips planned and booked! Here we are later grabbing drinks in a lovely courtyard at The Will & The Way in The French Quarter Pukashelldudez - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Oklahoma City, OK | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Oklahoma City, OK - Pukashelldudez: THE PUKA DUDE FROM TWITTER CUM TASTE THE SHELLS ChaseTheDreamXx - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - ChaseTheDreamXx: 🛫In NY for the weekend🛬Book while available!

I understand that this is a convergence of many things…that may trump my experience, but when I went dairy free in my 50’s, my life long “backne “ cleared up immediately. When I quit gluten, my chronic dermatagia herpetiformus cleared up as well

Preferring younger men - I’m in my 60’s -I admit seeing so many who have such awesome potential if they can just channel these early, high earning years into productive investment and not consumption. I took the typical “corporate track” where I earned more in my last 5 years than the previous 35 years combined. BUT, I still saved 1/3 of my income when I was young and show the benefits of that today. Yes, ALL these young men are worthy of respect. Yes, SOME of these young men will grab this opportunity and spin it into gold. No, not all of these men will break a cycle of poor behavior passed from their circumstance or upbringing. But those same guys will simply not have a base of repeat customers that made the “base” that some of the guys named earlier built their security and stability on.

A sentiment many of us - being honest - would share 😉 you’re going to be F I N E

As a bi-sexual male: - you are overthinking it, but that's not unexpected - be comfortable first and foremost - a little make-up is nice, but don't try too hard to be something you're not. - if you're concerned about being found attractive or not, you should hear the stories from some of the providers about the clients they've seen. Be clean, be confident, and you'll be just fine. - on hygiene, remember, as a woman, it's not just about "above the shoulders" nor is it just about "shaved" or not. If it's been a while, consider the obvious area it seems you may want a guy to focus on if he's exploring below the equator. It's a little awkward when things smell jungle-like before the equator and many women aren't aware of it. - it's not a fashion show...you both may want to put clothes on the floor as soon as possible. consider no underwear - or at least no panties

I did choose the third link. Everyone was referred to as a "pornstar performer" and the heading said it too. Do you know for certain there are some clients among the list?

Well, I did that for Ann Arbor and all the profiles seems to be providers and not clients. I'm not a provider. When I did it for Nashville (my former home), nothing like that came up

Maybe…so much for discretion though.

Yesterday, I got a text message from an RM guy - that I've never met - announcing that he was going to be visiting the city I used to live in - Nashville. Needless to say I was surprised. I don't subscribe to RM (although I do have a user name that I occasionally use) I'm honest and transparent with guys I meet about who I am and I don't use a burner phone. I also don't delete texts, so if I'd communicated with him, I'd have a record. But this guy simply isn't my type. I looked the text message number on MrNumber and he has two entries: "Sketchy escort who claims to be on prep and negative? Be Careful" and "Brunnofit charges too much for service that was slightly below mediocre I mean come on really..." His RM ad uses a different number and has 5 MrNumber reports with 3 of 5 less than flattering. Sooooo, I've blocked his number - BUT the question - how did he get my number? Brunnofit - Male Escort, Gay massage - Nashville | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Brunnofit Gay Escort in Nashville, Tennessee, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

I stick to connection. Usually judge by initial correspondence and what follows. Can you share who your experience was with so we don’t make a mistake?

Yes. And I’m still the real preppy

I agree about him being great. I’ll share my thoughts - many his age are narcissists, unable to communicate coherently, and distant. He’s kind, well spoken, and with a sincerely warm disposition. We all have personal preferences on what we look for (or at), but it’s these things that make @chasethedreamxx stand out. And in my opinion, they are rare in this age group. And, since I’ve purchased plane tickets for him, I’m certain of his age 😉. And I’m certain he will excel at everything he puts his mind to

Tardiness and lack of communication.

Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince. keep the search going. You have nothing to lose in the search

I personally think that his challenge is traveling right now and not staying in OKC…but that’s a guess. I wouldn’t discourage that as long as long as you kept your options open.

I have just moved. My last PCP sent out a questionnaire asking this and my new one did as well. frankly, to note my bisexuality in by writing is welcomed manner to me since I’d probably not have reason to discuss otherwise except for requesting my prep and regular STD testing.

Well, it’s finally happened: I hit an 850 credit score across all three reporting agencies. I’ve hovered in the 750–840 range for years, but never quite made it. Interestingly, the biggest difference-maker — beyond the standard responsible habits — was paying off my credit card balances weekly. It’s essentially my modern twist on the old envelope system, helping me stay intentional with spending. Honestly, I’ve followed my credit score more out of curiosity than necessity. “Good enough” has always been good enough. But I couldn’t help noticing something strange — my score seemed to increase when I felt financially stretched, and dip when I was feeling cash-rich. And here’s the kicker: I just paid off the last of my debt last month, but the update hasn’t hit the bureaus yet. Still, the score hit its peak. Bottom line? My financial habits haven’t radically changed through the score’s ups and downs. It’s a reminder that while credit scores attempt to measure financial health, they often lag behind reality — and sometimes tell the wrong story altogether. Yet we still treat them like gatekeepers. Curious to hear if others have noticed similar quirks.

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I’ve found that extended engagements (overnight or travel) are best planned with an introductory video call rather than texting. Maybe, while promising to keep it to 10 mins or less, this would be a good strategy to assess mutual willingness in achieving your goals? A pro would likely say “sure.”

I agree. It’s one thing to share a factually bad outcome. It’s quite another thing (and potentially libelous) to accuse someone of being a scammer. as @BeefyDude says, it takes two to make a scam work - so shame on me too. I’ll simply share my actual experience factually and let the listener decide. They will get their justice in due time scamming someone not nearly as kind as me.

I’ve been blessed to find a small number of good guys. He’s definitely one of them!

Any word yet?

@Sboyyyand I have been discussing how RM makes location determination very difficult. Of course, then add the guys who use RM locations to simply direct subscribers to their other platforms and it’s really tough

Me too. I’m not engaging a man servant. I’m engaging a companion whom I want to feel like is getting something they want out of the trip too. But that also means I have to choose someone who knows how to act in these kinds of places