PhileasFogg

I appreciate the efforts of the admins and the results they achieve. I’ve also noted a few things: 1) there are some people here who have nothing good to say about anyone. As I note this, I instantly disregard their comments. They’ve cornered themselves into irrelevance. 2) there are some VERY long term members of this group and, inevitably, some interpersonal conflicts have festered and become evident to new users without an obvious sense of history. It is what it is

I hear RM is anything but user friendly.

Prompted by this reminder, it’s probably appropriate to point out that everyone has a bad day every now and then. As to JesTwink’s response to the situation, I’d note that it’s embedded in immaturity (in the same way I might have done decades ago), youthful exuberance, and delusions of invincibility. Immaturity is not something uncommon to someone billing themselves as a twink. While he’s received quite the public flogging here and should feel embarrassed by his behavior, maybe it’s time for us to be the greater men and let this one fade into oblivion? As @Alchemy notes, there are those who found no fault with this guy. I know I’ve doubled down on bad mistakes in my youth, I’ve learned from them, and adjusted my future behavior accordingly. I'm glad the internet didn’t exist when I was young. ( My first professional performance review said “Phileas needs to understand that sugar attracts more flies than vinegar”…criticism I learned from and took seriously for the next four decades) Therefore, if it were a vote (and I deferentially note it’s NOT a vote), I’d favor letting this guy go from this endless loop of pinned criticism. There, I clear my throat, look down at the podium, turn a little red as I swallow hard - and get off my soapbox. 🙃

Maybe? Maybe Not? Sometimes the experience means more than the view.

He’s an odd dude, but gives a good massage. He’s straight.

I’m with @sniper But I will also note that a few years ago, I needed to relearn how to walk. My form placed by body weight on the opposite side as my weight bearing leg causing pain in my knees that was starting to impact my distance and speed. what I do now I call my “Stayin’ Alive Walk” because, when exaggerated, it resembles John Travolta.

Exactly. I wouldn’t be happy with Cankles

Frankendick?

I’m not familiar with the use of fillers, but aren’t they prone to “migration” when pressed or squeezed?

Personally, I’m exhausted by everyone needing to have their own label. Why can’t we use one - “human.” Our uniqueness is generally pretty evident without attaching a label to it.

I frankly think any of us could be reasonably close to that look if we tried. My age will be reflected in my thinning hair and crows feet (I’m not getting surgery), but my body can be as lean and toned as I allow it to be. Good for Rick for showing us what’s possible.

I have the same issue on this site sporadically. Also ExoressVPN

I appreciate the clarification. I truly had no idea. Being bi, I suppose I can go both ways?? 😉😅😇 Edited to add: I just consulted the ChatGpT oracle that suggested threesome is gender neutral and that three way is simply “raunchier.”

I’ve spent two weeks with him in two separate trips. Pics are 100% current (I took some of them). He works hard at staying in shape. And he’s a very kind and gentle soul. He also travels when he’s able.

I think it’s called a threesome? 😉 But seriously, find a provider and ask them if they’re ok with it and how much. It won’t be two for one

At my house, "Ronnie the Right One" might be up for this, but "Larry the Left One" is still recovering from getting kicked every time my kids gave me a running hug into my arms 🤕 thirty years ago! Larry is "withdrawing" just at the thought of such an escapade 🤣

Anecdotally, I hear there’s a big market for what you describe. But if I may suggest, don’t over analyze. Just put yourself out there, see what the market accepts, and refine the details until you get it where you want it

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Congratulations on the catharsis…which I read about two sentences of. Maybe the problem isn’t the provider when everyone has a consistently good experience but you. Sorry for the brevity, but it was cathartic to remove southern gentility and swap it for Delaware Directness But please don’t be surprised if your unwillingness to share your experience specifics winds up reflecting on you more than them.

I understand that you feel you’ve had a bad experience. I also know that you’ve thrown shade on guys that I’ve had consistently OUTstanding experience with. I agree with @Pensantthat some insight is useful. Disparaging remarks without context are not useful without substantiation. I appreciate you sharing your feelings. Personally, I benefit from knowing why you feel so bad about the encounter.

Ain’t that the truth!

I’ve never had a serious issue. It might be my target profile

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I don’t think you have recourse nor do Ithink you should fear him coming after you unless you’re not “out.” But even with that, he’d have to put a lot of effort into outting you. posting on this forum is a start. I don’t know if you have the equivalent of “MrNumber” in the UK, but I’ve used that for one hustler that got me here. if you’d like, someone here who isn’t blocked by him may be willing to send him the link to your post referencing his deception 😉 On the bigger topic of deposits, I live in a wasteland. I’m not opposed to advancing travel expenses if someone is going to travel hundreds of miles to see me. And for the provider, I’d expect a good business man to want that. My preference is to actually purchase the plane ticket myself so that, if they ghost me, I can get my money refunded. I’ve had this happen before, but it’s a method that reduces no show risk on both sides.

True. But I do think that we should have a practice of sticking to the facts and how events made us feel rather than risk creating a case for libel that does involve the site. Personally, I’d rather not have my posts (and identity) subject to discovery in due process