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In my experience, seeking immediate money only applied to 20% - and they were just like RM guys wanting a deposit to which I said “no”. Hell, five of them “gave it up” - two of them multiple times- without any arrangement. I didn’t take advantage of them. What can I say - nice house, nice cars, nice restaurants, no three pump dump, Italian, vasectomy, treat them with respect - oh, did I mention “ITALIAN?” 😇🤭😳 The young ones wanted everything but a financial arrangement. I don’t expect the same with guys. But guys generally offer no drama. The girls just wanted to be treated well.

If there’s an exchange of money, I view it as “helping a friend.” But without connection, nothing else is sufficient for me.

I met my last girlfriend through SA - but no money exchanged hands-ever. We genuinely connected and fell in love. She was a student in her 30’s when we met (20yrs younger), we fell in love, lived together for half of our four years together, and were on a track to marriage. Upon graduation, she got a six figure job and started a successful career. (A couple of years later, The breakup was dramatic prompting me to conclude young men were less dramatic and choose to pursue this side of my sexuality 😉) But the key is - no cash changed hands. All I offered were simple things - a fine home in the “right” zip code - with her making a small contribution to common expenses. But more importantly, I offered seasoned business advice, social and professional connections, a sense of adventure, and a propensity to travel. We had a good time together. Strange things happen in the online world and I never would have expected this outcome from that platform. But everything isn’t always about money.

Yes, unfortunately using the assets of the estate to fund the legal challenges to the detriment of the woman’s wishes.

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This reminds me of the experience I had with Sunny_Wave (now something else). Before he arrived, I got the heebiejeebies, but went through with it because he kept citing a huge number of five ***** reviews. After his arrival, I knew that not a single one of those reviews was legit

I hosted him at my house about a year ago. His pictures were accurate and his communication was good. If you want more details, PM me

Prepare yourself for being invited into situations or being with people not in your fantasy. Every fantasy is romanticized to specific circumstances. Putting yourself out there into the world is a bit of a crap shoot. And if you get too picky, then you will risk getting a bad rep

Maybe schedule a video call you the strength of your personality will win the day?

That’s unfortunate. But searching your name here, i only see one thread and it’s not controversial or adverse toward you. it might help to unlock your RM profile if you’re looking for broader exposure.

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Years ago, I met Pasha multiple times in NYC. He was a good guy and gave a great massage.

Happens to me all the time.

“We might not have it all together, but together we have it all.” – Dorothy Zbornak

Yeah, I happened to be in Memphis when that news broke. The way things are there right now, both the haves and the have nots need to find a way to work things out creating jobs and not be suing one another.

I understand that this is a convergence of many things…that may trump my experience, but when I went dairy free in my 50’s, my life long “backne “ cleared up immediately. When I quit gluten, my chronic dermatagia herpetiformus cleared up as well

Preferring younger men - I’m in my 60’s -I admit seeing so many who have such awesome potential if they can just channel these early, high earning years into productive investment and not consumption. I took the typical “corporate track” where I earned more in my last 5 years than the previous 35 years combined. BUT, I still saved 1/3 of my income when I was young and show the benefits of that today. Yes, ALL these young men are worthy of respect. Yes, SOME of these young men will grab this opportunity and spin it into gold. No, not all of these men will break a cycle of poor behavior passed from their circumstance or upbringing. But those same guys will simply not have a base of repeat customers that made the “base” that some of the guys named earlier built their security and stability on.

A sentiment many of us - being honest - would share 😉 you’re going to be F I N E

As a bi-sexual male: - you are overthinking it, but that's not unexpected - be comfortable first and foremost - a little make-up is nice, but don't try too hard to be something you're not. - if you're concerned about being found attractive or not, you should hear the stories from some of the providers about the clients they've seen. Be clean, be confident, and you'll be just fine. - on hygiene, remember, as a woman, it's not just about "above the shoulders" nor is it just about "shaved" or not. If it's been a while, consider the obvious area it seems you may want a guy to focus on if he's exploring below the equator. It's a little awkward when things smell jungle-like before the equator and many women aren't aware of it. - it's not a fashion show...you both may want to put clothes on the floor as soon as possible. consider no underwear - or at least no panties

I did choose the third link. Everyone was referred to as a "pornstar performer" and the heading said it too. Do you know for certain there are some clients among the list?

Well, I did that for Ann Arbor and all the profiles seems to be providers and not clients. I'm not a provider. When I did it for Nashville (my former home), nothing like that came up

Maybe…so much for discretion though.

Yesterday, I got a text message from an RM guy - that I've never met - announcing that he was going to be visiting the city I used to live in - Nashville. Needless to say I was surprised. I don't subscribe to RM (although I do have a user name that I occasionally use) I'm honest and transparent with guys I meet about who I am and I don't use a burner phone. I also don't delete texts, so if I'd communicated with him, I'd have a record. But this guy simply isn't my type. I looked the text message number on MrNumber and he has two entries: "Sketchy escort who claims to be on prep and negative? Be Careful" and "Brunnofit charges too much for service that was slightly below mediocre I mean come on really..." His RM ad uses a different number and has 5 MrNumber reports with 3 of 5 less than flattering. Sooooo, I've blocked his number - BUT the question - how did he get my number? Brunnofit - Male Escort, Gay massage - Nashville | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Brunnofit Gay Escort in Nashville, Tennessee, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

I stick to connection. Usually judge by initial correspondence and what follows. Can you share who your experience was with so we don’t make a mistake?