Nightowl

The only time I use cash now is when that’s the only form of payment accepted for an erotic massage.

I thought you’d never ask. Big enough to get the job done plus a couple of inches.

Pretty much all of them. The laugh tracks drive me crazy.

Self checkout wherever it is available. I’m faster and a more efficient bagger than 99% of the full-service cashiers.

This is every man’s nightmare when hiring. I’m sorry this happened to you.

I answered “no, “no,” and “it depends.”. I saw a masseur for strictly therapeutic massage twice over several months and he spent part of both sessions on topics that clearly indicated that he was on a different side of the political spectrum than I. During the second visit I found myself getting agitated by what he was saying because I was there to release stress and muscular tightness, and the conversation was making me more tense since I was biting my tongue to keep from saying anything argumentative. Though the massage was great, I opted not to go back. So I guess that, if I know his political affiliation and I know he’s going to talk to me about it and stress me out,, I probably won’t hire him. I prefer not to know and not to tell so that we can both enjoy each other’s company.

I can see myself going for something like this. If the house is big enough, each person could have their own space when they want privacy. Having the companionship of like-minded men as I wait for the lights to go out has a certain appeal. If I survive my current partner I’m not sure I’d want another relationship anyway, just good company.

I love the cow milking analogy

I’ve never seen it on a medical form but I probably wouldn’t answer it. They always ask for my SSN and I don’t give that either.

So many labels….

I understand your position. Different approaches for different people. My original post only reflects my preference.

I understand your point. Fortunately, we are each free to handle the situation our own way.

Sounds fun. A big orgy.

I respect that viewpoint 😀

I’m not a fan of public shaming, even if you think someone is a scammer. As many have said here, different people have different experiences. If someone wants details about someone I have hired and they’re open to DMs, I am happy to provide details of my experience, including my belief that the person may be a scammer. I just don’t feel comfortable poisoning the waters for someone, based solely on my own unpleasant experience. I also wouldn’t want providers to do that to me as a client.

I take mutual touch to mean that he will be naked and we are both free to let our hands wander anywhere on the other’s body, including stroking of genitalia. I don’t assume that it includes any oral, penetration, rimming or other more intimate activities. Those may happen but they’re not a given.

Can I DM you?

I think I just discovered I have a fetish.

If you were lying on your back and had a hard-on when he asked, you told him what he needed to know. If he didn’t do anything about it, he was asking whether you had tight spots that needed more therapeutic work.

He probably won’t let you touch him either.

It’s got everything a man wants in a massage 🔥🍆

I received a similar compliment from someone and assumed it was something he said to everyone. I realized he was serious when he eagerly chowed down on it then and on every occasion after that.

Happy Easter to all of my CoM compadres!

Is it just a “Fuck!” or an “Oh Fuuuuuucccckkkk!”? Inquiring minds want to know.

I realized I wasn’t a bottom after a few attempts when I felt pain during the event and quickly lost my erection. It wasn’t arousing at all once it got hot and heavy. It could have been the top’s size (7+” and thick) and my inexperience that contributed.