Nightowl

I’m glad to see you highlight the focus on hotness vice skill. Give me a masseur who is skilled over an amateur Adonis any day. The focus on client hotness is equally problematic. A hot client may not be appreciative and could be a dead fish on the massage table.

(Mods: This is intended to be a non-political post. I hope it is okay) I’m wondering how providers and clients feel about the future of the hobby if they’re in areas that are heavily dependent on federal workers who may lose their jobs or whose agencies may shut down or be relocated. As a resident of the DC area, I see people being laid off and the likelihood that disposable income for many will diminish. Will providers go back to their former professions, lower prices to pull in whatever clients they can, or continue as normal? Will clients stop hiring? Or is no one particularly concerned?

I thought so too. The asparagus stalk was too skinny but the head looked realistic 😂 Given the topic, he probably could have used a dildo…

Thank you. Very enlightening! I’ll never look at asparagus the same way again….

Thanks. As opportunities present themselves I find the freedom I can. It may be a couple of hours at a time with someone behind closed doors, but the momentary satisfaction keeps me going.

Honesty isn’t possible.

I saw him a number of times before he left Damascus. He gives a good massage and I’d go back if he was closer. PM me if you want additional details.

Thank you very much for the support. I found this community and man-on-man massage later in life and it has given me the opportunity to learn from men who enjoy other men, as well as first-hand experience physical pleasure with other men. I wish I had discovered both earlier but I’m glad I eventually took the jump.

Enough to grab hold of and have the head sticking out above my fist.

And how does science say such manhood should be measured? I myself prefer the measure-from-where-the-hard-cock-meets-the-the-balls method but others say otherwise.

Unfortunately, most of the fantasies I have, I also *want* to happen but they can’t without causing significant irreparable damage to my life. As a married (to a woman) man, I could never pursue them. My biggest fantasy right now is going to Palm Springs weekend and being surrounded by men who just want to be together, experience pleasure, and be free. And some of them will be naked, including me. It’ll never happen.

I usually book several weeks in advance so I can plan my expenditures. Since I only book massage and only once per month, I can usually set aside the money. Other than good bourbon, it’s my only luxury expense so I make it a priority.

I’ve never watched any of the Marvel or other comic-book-based movies and wonder if I’m overlooking a critical piece of popular culture. The only ones I’ve seen are the first two Deadpool movies. Now that there are shitloads of these movies, I have absolutely no idea where to start watching them. Should I start with the oldest movies? A specific series? Focus on a specific superhero? I’m lost. Any suggestions?

Welcome! Though bigotry and snark do rear their ugly heads on this site, I’ve found it to be, on the whole, a very welcoming site where participants can be themselves. Glad to have you among us.

I’m an Irving fan too, and for most of the same reasons. Another reason for me is the setting. He sets a lot of his books in southern Vermont and I’ve been going there for years so I’m familiar with a lot of the things he describes. He used to live in the area and I saw him in restaurants several times. I’m not sure if I’m remembering correctly but I think his son is gay and I read that he moved to Canada because of the way a recent administration was treating the LGBTQ+ community. I’m currently reading “The Last Chairlift.” Not his best but the themes will be familiar to Irving fans.

I might have to take another look at that movie 😂

This just brings to mind stories of some guy’s penis getting bent the wrong way, necessitating a trip to the ER….

I got an Rx from my doctor and along with it came a coupon that cut the price for 13 25mg tablets down from $240 to $46. I’m hoping I can use the same coupon for refills….

Many years ago my 12-year-old cousin told me I looked like Tom Selleck from Magnum P.I. I’d settle for looking like that again and having any guy who looked like that. As I’ve commented in other postings, give me a guy with a hairy chest any day. I’ve maintained one of my own but it’s not as dark as it once was. Aging’s a bitch.

Absolutely! Who can forget such colors as “burnt sienna,” or as my sister and I called it, “dog-do brown”?

Cock rings, genital piercings, and completely shaved “down there”

I’ve probably done that a few times too.

I’ll second the recommendation of Bliss Bodywork. I’ve seen him 7-8 times and he’s worth it.

Diversity from a single masseur also helps. When you don’t know what he’s going to do during each visit, there’s anticipation without boredom.

The most useful thing to me in a review is when the client waxes poetic about how great the parking is 😂.