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    Bokomaru got a reaction from DirtyHarry in Best strictly therapeutic masseur NYC?   
    Very highly recommend Ken. 
    Kenergy Fitness & Bodyworks
    WWW.KENERGYFITBODY.COM Licensed Massage Therapist that has the education, touch and intuition to help heal, repair and recover a client back to their... Strictly therapeutic no extras. Very professional. Works out of a dedicated space (an apartment near Union Square that’s just for his business).  He has a warm personality. Very talented with his hands. I go for relaxation only, but he specializes in deep tissue therapeutic work.
    One caveat, you download his app to make an appointment so it means entering info, creating a password etc. Makes rebooking a snap though. 
    Generally won’t book same day. Plan a day or two in advance. He’s been quite busy lately as word has gotten out about how good he is. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from coriolis888 in Robyn Ward in NYC   
    His profile says satisfaction is guaranteed. Maybe he was just having an off day. The easy way out is to ask him to stand by that guarantee. If he gives the money back, agree to rescind the review. Win-win. He keeps his reputation and you don’t have to put up with the threats nor pay for an encounter which didn’t satisfy. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from + bashful in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I agree caution is advised. Try hanging out with the finance bros of NYC. They love to brag about hiring and compare notes so that’s one situation where it adds to one’s social status.
    On the other hand, in my main social circle of middle aged professionals, they are very sex positive and yet… there’s an undercurrent of judgement about promiscuity. Sex is good. Too much sex is a sign of a character flaw it seems. It’s bizarre and contradictory, but then people are complicated. 
    A younger friend of ours who is a struggling performer turned to escorting to make ends meet. I was deeply saddened by my friends’ hushed tones and vaguely judgmental statements when gossiping about it. 

    I have not and will not share with my friends regarding this hobby. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I agree caution is advised. Try hanging out with the finance bros of NYC. They love to brag about hiring and compare notes so that’s one situation where it adds to one’s social status.
    On the other hand, in my main social circle of middle aged professionals, they are very sex positive and yet… there’s an undercurrent of judgement about promiscuity. Sex is good. Too much sex is a sign of a character flaw it seems. It’s bizarre and contradictory, but then people are complicated. 
    A younger friend of ours who is a struggling performer turned to escorting to make ends meet. I was deeply saddened by my friends’ hushed tones and vaguely judgmental statements when gossiping about it. 

    I have not and will not share with my friends regarding this hobby. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from + nycman in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I agree caution is advised. Try hanging out with the finance bros of NYC. They love to brag about hiring and compare notes so that’s one situation where it adds to one’s social status.
    On the other hand, in my main social circle of middle aged professionals, they are very sex positive and yet… there’s an undercurrent of judgement about promiscuity. Sex is good. Too much sex is a sign of a character flaw it seems. It’s bizarre and contradictory, but then people are complicated. 
    A younger friend of ours who is a struggling performer turned to escorting to make ends meet. I was deeply saddened by my friends’ hushed tones and vaguely judgmental statements when gossiping about it. 

    I have not and will not share with my friends regarding this hobby. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from BonVivant in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I agree caution is advised. Try hanging out with the finance bros of NYC. They love to brag about hiring and compare notes so that’s one situation where it adds to one’s social status.
    On the other hand, in my main social circle of middle aged professionals, they are very sex positive and yet… there’s an undercurrent of judgement about promiscuity. Sex is good. Too much sex is a sign of a character flaw it seems. It’s bizarre and contradictory, but then people are complicated. 
    A younger friend of ours who is a struggling performer turned to escorting to make ends meet. I was deeply saddened by my friends’ hushed tones and vaguely judgmental statements when gossiping about it. 

    I have not and will not share with my friends regarding this hobby. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from JustScott in Do you discuss hiring guys with friends?   
    I agree caution is advised. Try hanging out with the finance bros of NYC. They love to brag about hiring and compare notes so that’s one situation where it adds to one’s social status.
    On the other hand, in my main social circle of middle aged professionals, they are very sex positive and yet… there’s an undercurrent of judgement about promiscuity. Sex is good. Too much sex is a sign of a character flaw it seems. It’s bizarre and contradictory, but then people are complicated. 
    A younger friend of ours who is a struggling performer turned to escorting to make ends meet. I was deeply saddened by my friends’ hushed tones and vaguely judgmental statements when gossiping about it. 

    I have not and will not share with my friends regarding this hobby. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to + DrownedBoy in Effort…   
    Your stats, but not a photo if you can't be compromised.
    Also, a description of what you want out of an escort or session. That saves a lot of time......but only if the provider actually reads it.
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from Marc in Calif in PA campgrounds?   
    I’ve been to The Woods a couple of times recently. There’s no history of outsiders coming in to bash the homos, as far as I’m aware. 
    I was disappointed but not surprised to find out that someone had posted a sign at the entrance saying “Stop grooming our children.”  It was of course taken down immediately. 
    Anyway, the Woods is a wonderful, open, friendly community with a wide variety of types.  And there’s tons of sex. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to Todd Jenkins in Tslayer   
    Quoted me 750-1000 to bottom for an hour. Told me if I couldn't afford that to - and I quote – "go find a meth head with aids"
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    Bokomaru reacted to Walt in Tslayer   
    I read on Threads that you shouldn't believe everything you read on Twitter.
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    Bokomaru reacted to EZEtoGRU in Did Florida get something right? High Speed rail service thriving   
    Yep.  That section between Miami and FTL crosses very busy roads and the train goes quite slow.  I've been on it 2 or 3 times already.  Service was fine and they have shiny new stations in both cities.  Every time I have been on it, the loads were very lite.  I do remember thinking at the time that I would not be surprised if the train (at least on that segment) would likely be involved in quite a few accidents.
    To me, it really is not a true high-speed train.  Real high speed trains mostly go under/over road traffic to maximize speed and safety.  That has not been provisioned for on the segment I travelled on.  North of FTL, I have no clue it the train has less interaction with road traffic.  
    I'm also curious how profitable an operation it is or will be.  
    I wish them well.  I'm all for increasing rail travel in the US when possible and practical.  
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    Bokomaru reacted to Jason Dutch in An unrealistic expectation?   
    When a potential client asks me what I'm into I sometimes find it baffling haha... On the occasions that I've shared a few things that I'm genuinely into, I've either not gotten the booking, or we didn't do those things anyway. Escorts often have to be shape shifters and satisfy a range of desires both spoken and unspoken in each client. People often tell me they book me because they want to have fun their way.  I'm proud that I seem to hit a home run with most of my clients and push just the right buttons. That in and of itself gets me off - to be prized, to be materially valued, to be desired and told I'm sexy... I'm proud to know that I can get off all different kinds of guys, and that I can get into and enjoy many men and activities that I wouldn't necessarily seek in my private sex life — the situation in and of itself gets me off enough that I can be flexible about the specifics and surprise even myself at who/what I can pull off (or get off!). So in the case of OP, whatever you're into, I'm probably into given the dynamic already at play!
     
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    Bokomaru reacted to + ThroatCummer in Escorting and Drugs   
    One escort I was with advertised PNP on his profile even though he is clean and sober and never uses drugs or alcohol. 
    Another put "NO PNP" specifically in their profile, although secretly they did it (GHB) during sessions if asked.
    The obvious question was why?  Right?
    Both said that many clients that are brand new to hiring and people uncomfortable with their sexuality reach for all kinds of substances to feel more comfortable in their own skin. Newly out people who haven't admitted they are gay. People with tons of family and work pressure just to check out and forget. The list is endless. 
    PNP and "high" has a very different definition to each person. Is someone with a Ketamine nasal spray prescription "high"?  Does anyone want someone to show up drunk, which is sold legally almost everywhere (with few exceptions) across the planet?  Cannabis use?  I think we can all agree on Crystal Meth (T) and Heroin, right? But even a small amount of coke or microdosing GHB?  You couldn't even tell if you tried or gave a blood test. 
    The escort's personal business decision was to allow it, but also decline at the meeting time if the person was obviously impaired in a dangerous situation -- or something that risks their own personal safety or health.  Otherwise, it is a business decision to advertise (and not partake) and they both said it actually can net more good clients. 
    Takeaway:  As a client, I now disregard both the NO PNP and the PNP text/tags. Ask clarifying questions, state what you want to do, what you expect, and guarantee your condition. Show up present in that moment and make the escort feel comfortable. Like you should do with anyone you meet in life for any reason. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to guru68 in BROKE STRAIGHT BOY AT TAMPA   
    Probably gets hard from having that hair styled.
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from TruHart1 in Sweeney Todd   
    I didn’t realize that Patti played the tuba in Sweeney. They did a similar thing for the revival of Company (back around the same time, not the most recent revival) and there was an actress playing the tuba as well. 

    Here’s a fun fact. Multiple actors needed tuba lessons because of this (to audition) and guess who they went to? Dirk Kaber the porn star. Yes, he was a tuba tutor before he was a porn star.
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from dbar123 in SMALL ISSUES WITH PROVIDERS THAT GIVE A BAD RAP   
    Great point! It’s just that it’s hard to keep that in mind when you really look forward to having a good time with a hot guy and get a cancellation instead. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from Archangel in SMALL ISSUES WITH PROVIDERS THAT GIVE A BAD RAP   
    Great point! It’s just that it’s hard to keep that in mind when you really look forward to having a good time with a hot guy and get a cancellation instead. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to CuriousByNature in 411 on Hungxlxx (NYC)   
    I'm not into feet at all, but I've never seen such elegant looking feet with toes of that length and proportion.  He could be a foot model, or at least perch on a branch very easily. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to + goosh69 in You will NOT believe who I hired for tomorrow night!!!!   
    Ahhh the infamous Trump loving, Q-anon spewing bigot. Infamous for his YouTube and social media rants. That’s all a boner killer for me. And he DOES talk about that stuff with clients. I used to see him until all that spilled out of his mouth with me.
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    Bokomaru reacted to jeezifonly in MAUI - Farewell, Lovely Banyan   
    The spirit of Maui will prevail. But big developers and Hospitality  Behemoths will vie to be OverLord of the Resurrection
    Native people and other local residents will need money for the legal battle to keep ownership and profits in the community. 

    May 2023. Our last sunset of the trip. At right, Cheeseburger in Paradise 😭
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from Luv2play in Sinead O'Connor, dead at 56... RIP   
    Very  well said. 

    In the larger context, Sinead always stood for justice. She was not a “disgusting racist,” quite the opposite in fact. This is the woman who wrote “Black Boys on Mopeds” two decades before Black Lives Matter. 
    She spoke up, and she wasn’t polite about it.
     
    Sometimes she was lashing out though….

    I have no doubt that I followed her more closely than anyone else here, and I can tell you that her mental illness seemed to be quite severe. But she made powerful, thoughtful, profound music. 
     
    “These are dangerous days
    To say what you feel is to dig your own grave.
    Remember what I told you
    If you were of the world they would love you.”
    She was not of this world. And she didn’t care if we loved her. She spoke truth regardless of the outcome. And on a bad mental health day she did sometimes get it wrong.
     
    Still… she was braver than most. 
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    Bokomaru got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Clients and escorts getting lost? Myth or sad reality?   
    It’s too bad more people don’t know about What3Words. That app solves these problems. I use it for locations that Google Maps can’t seem to find, but it’s also perfect for sending the location of a Marriott that has two other Marriotts next to it. 
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    Bokomaru reacted to Jamie21 in An unrealistic expectation?   
    I think you probably are. You won’t get him to respond to questions like that. He’s focused on your pleasure. Anyone doing this work with any degree of success will be able to give you the impression he’s also enjoying it, to the extent that you wouldn’t be able to tell whether that’s genuine or not. 
    Also, one of the main reasons guys do this work is because being hired is a turn on in itself. Simply by you hiring him, and enjoying what he does for you is what gets him going. I know that’s the case for me, if a client is having a great time then that is exciting for me. The more my client is enjoying himself then the more I enjoy it. Clients ask ‘do you like x or y or whatever’ and the answer is ‘if it turns you on to do it then yes I like it’ (within reason of course!). 
    So I think you’ll find it futile to ask what he likes, because you won’t get an answer. The best way to feel that he’s enjoying it is to relax and enjoy yourself. You’re the client after all. 
     

     
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    Bokomaru reacted to + purplekow in Thinking about a SW side hustle   
    First, having sex when you want to have sex is the easy part.  I would see the issue being having sex when you do not want to have sex, either desire, partner, general state of the spiritual, physical and mental.  Bluntly, there will probably be a lot more snickers at your profile than takers, but there may be enough takers, if you are good at what you do in terms of technique, interaction, timeliness, availability and of course location.  One plus for you is, that there are not a lot of candidates out there that have the appearance you describe, though there are some, so you may have a lane with little traffic. You may want to consider finding a working escort who has a similar physical appeal.  Hire him.  Then pick his brain after he fucks you ass.  
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