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Bokomaru reacted to DavidNY in *411 on FTMmodel
You clearly need education, but don’t want it. The fact this guy put FTM in his profile name is a clear request for acknowledgment and respect of his male identity. Not sure your fetishized sexual encounters was the best reference for your vast knowledge base of gender identity, but it does help to clarify that this was intentional transphobic behavior that really should be addressed.
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Bokomaru reacted to Peter Eater in *411 on FTMmodel
You know damn well that FTM means female-to-male, and transition is complete. Your misrepresentation is as obnoxious as your demand to be told in person how to address a trans man. Ugh.
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Bokomaru reacted to Mark_fl in Is hiring only for wealthier folks?
Maybe providers need to start taking Klarna
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Bokomaru got a reaction from la_connor in Are you wealthy (2 mill.) or just comfortable (1 million)?
$2.3M is wealthy in the Northeast??! News to me. I’d say more like 4.0+.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from BuzzLiteQueer in Another escort detained at the border
You’re not an outlier. Not everyone agrees with how this sw was treated nor the puritanical, hypocritical tone of this thread. On CoM, sometimes, lack of empathy can run deep.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from Brock O in Another escort detained at the border
You’re not an outlier. Not everyone agrees with how this sw was treated nor the puritanical, hypocritical tone of this thread. On CoM, sometimes, lack of empathy can run deep.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from Luv2play in Another escort detained at the border
You’re not an outlier. Not everyone agrees with how this sw was treated nor the puritanical, hypocritical tone of this thread. On CoM, sometimes, lack of empathy can run deep.
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Bokomaru reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in What special touches do you like from your providers?
For a massage, I always notice and appreciate but don't always receive:
Deep massage on the bottoms of my feet
Ears massaged when I'm faceup.
Forehead, temple, head massage when I'm faceup.
Pecs worked (and of course, eventually, the nipples!)
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Bokomaru reacted to Mark_fl in What special touches do you like from your providers?
For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + sync in Another escort detained at the border
You’re not an outlier. Not everyone agrees with how this sw was treated nor the puritanical, hypocritical tone of this thread. On CoM, sometimes, lack of empathy can run deep.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Prenuptial Agreement
I assume you realize that your future spouse must have an attorney as well?
One mistake I made was not thinking far enough into the future. I have a large asset that’s protected, but should I liquidate, the proceeds could become common property. That’s something I (or my attorney) should have foreseen.
I also raised the question of alimony. Although it didn’t really pertain to the prenup in my state, it’s a serious matter, and as mentioned above, every state is different. In addition, I’ve always wondered, what if we move elsewhere? Would my alimony responsibilities be very different? I don’t know if a prenup can head off this problem. Worth asking about….
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
I once had a (very hot) Dom provider command me to say “I love you” in the middle of fucking me. It caught me by surprise. I think he was trying to get me to loosen up because he knew of my deep affection for him (I had been going to him for several years).
So I said it. And I said it again. And again. It became a fun part of the fantasy. I’m a bit honored that he asked me (told me) to say it, if I’m honest.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Required training at work
It’s getting harder and harder to fast forward through these things. They have figured out how to prevent it.
I currently have 4 pending trainings (2hours worth), all of which I’ve completed before, and will teach me nothing new.
Recently they introduced a new one: how to be a good colleague at social gatherings. My feeling is that every time my company gets sued, the settlement involves them agreeing to institute some training.
It gets old.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + BOZO T CLOWN in YOJANZELYUNG
From Argentina yet speaks French and Italian but not Spanish? 🤔
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + glutes in YOJANZELYUNG
From Argentina yet speaks French and Italian but not Spanish? 🤔
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Bokomaru got a reaction from TJMS in YOJANZELYUNG
From Argentina yet speaks French and Italian but not Spanish? 🤔
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Bokomaru reacted to + azdr0710 in 411-Joeytheboi
Joey: you can still create a "joeytheboi" handle here at the forum and say you simply have absolutely NO idea who that Matty character is and you really hope his utterly over-the-top posts won't detract from the real Joey who'd NEVER do a thing like create a fake username to promote yourself.....uhhh, wait, himself??.....oh, yeah, yourself......wait, what?!
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Help me makes a decision in NYC!!
This comment is spot on.
Count me as another vote for Jose_ok. What a warm, sweet guy he is.
And he makes the transition to extras seamlessly.
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Bokomaru reacted to Nue2thegame in What we look like - Why does it matter so much now?
For the masseurs, it’s easy. Just submit a pic of your back.
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Bokomaru reacted to KrozzyKay in Advice on Grindr looking for gen men?
1. The reason why we want to text outside the Grindr platform because Grindr bans accounts that talk about transaction and money.
2. I actually had a very good experience with Grindr. Over the summer of 2025, I remembered I was averaging around 20ish clients per month from July-September just from Grindr alone. It is harder to get clients on RM if you stayed in a city for over a year, because you are no longer the new face. On Grindr, you will ALWAYS be a NEW FACE when you move around to different areas since profiles are distance-based.
3. In my experience, RM heavily relies on clients with Asian fetish. Grindr clients are picky and very into looks; they are very discriminatory toward Asians, so being a muscle Asian helps out alot. Relying on Asian fetish wont get me far on Grindr. So you need to make sure your body is as muscular as possible and hit the GYM.
4. Any Asian guy can get clients on RM, but on Grindr it is an uphill battle especially if are not muscular/attractive.
5. I would say I get more clients from Grindr when RM starts to slow. On RM I go more expensive because all of the guys using the platform are 100% clients and they will pay your asking rate. On Grindr, I go cheaper because you are targeting normal people who have never used escorts before. Plus, you cannot go too expensive on younger clients.
6. On Grindr, go cheaper on young or hot/attractive guys. More expensive on older.
7. In my case, my clients from Grindr are mostly young guys in 20-30s. I dont often get older clients on Grindr. Most of the attractive clients I ever encountered were all from Grindr. And yes, believe me hot guys do actually pay for these services. On RM, there are more older.
8. Just two days ago I went to Queens, NY to visit my friend and I got a cute Colombian client right away from Grindr on my first day there. I paid my buddy a fee to host at his house 🤣. My Latin buddy was stunned that I was able to get client on Grindr that easily. He would not have believed me had he not seen it in person. Grindr is life!
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Bokomaru got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Question for clients: using a second phone?
Thanks.
I use esims abroad but typically they are data-only plans.
Airalo app does have the option for esims with phones numbers in some countries, but not all.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from samhexum in Chalamet is public enemy #1 in the opera world
As an opera lover, I can say, Wow, people are overreacting. Why? Because there’s some truth in what he said. Opera and ballet are absolutely struggling. He prefers to be in another art form. Fair enough.
But I wonder if anyone has told Timothee that movie theaters are half empty since Covid.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + bashful in Douche No More?
There is a way to douche without douching. This is over the counter in EU but very difficult to find in the US. I’ve used it multiple times. Very effective.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from Luv2play in Douche No More?
There is a way to douche without douching. This is over the counter in EU but very difficult to find in the US. I’ve used it multiple times. Very effective.
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Bokomaru got a reaction from + claym in Douche No More?
There is a way to douche without douching. This is over the counter in EU but very difficult to find in the US. I’ve used it multiple times. Very effective.