Seeking arrangements success!

[marylander1940]

On 7/7/2022 at 8:07 AM, pubic_assistance said:

It would seem that way...yes.

Easier to stay home and jerk off for 500 strangers paying you a dollar than to travel to a hotel downtown where a sweaty fat tourist wants to stick his dick in your mouth and have his way with your ass for a hour .

It's an old post but worth quoting it. 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

20 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

I hope he uses a thimble when he's doing the tapestry.  Can't be too careful.

The moment I saw the word "tapestry," I knew he was copying it from somewhere else.

 

Why can't everyone be direct? Like, "you cover my apartment and tuition, and I'll be your boyfriend."

[Guest]

I encouraged him to change it. He copped to it being written by ai, and changed it. 

[MikeBiDude]

So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now.

Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Guest]

11 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now.

Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻‍♂️

I’ve had similar luck.  Sometimes the time investment isn’t worth it but sometimes it’s great. 

[+ azdr0710]

42 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

I encouraged him to change it. He copped to it being written by ai, and changed it. 

can you.....discreetly........post the updated prose?

[Guest]

[Whatsupandstuff]

9 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

Does this ad do anything for anybody?  I feel like having a meal with this guy would be nauseating. I’m curious how others see it. It also reads to me like AI wrote it. 
 

 

this "person" probably laughs at their own jokes and keeps a dream journal 

[Guest]

42 minutes ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

this "person" probably laughs at their own jokes and keeps a dream journal 

He did say AI wrote it because he was new to the site and didn’t know what to say. 

[BSR]

Just now, Coolwave35 said:

He did say AI wrote it because he was new to the site and didn’t know what to say. 

He lost me at "in the dance of life."

[CuriousByNature]

1 hour ago, BSR said:

He lost me at "in the dance of life."

[guru68]

Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out."

[SouthOfTheBorder]

21 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I’m curious how others see it.

stay very far away - lovebombing/stalking certain to follow 

whether or not AI wrote it - he thought it was a good idea to post it. just no 

Edited January 22, 2024 by SouthOfTheBorder

[Guest]

3 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

stay very far away - lovebombing/stalking certain to follow 

whether or not AI wrote it - he thought it was a good idea to post it. just no 

Dude I would NEVER. I encouraged him to rewrite which he started to do then blocked him when he needed too much advice. 

[BuzzLiteQueer]

On 1/21/2024 at 3:48 PM, DrownedBoy said:

The moment I saw the word "tapestry," I knew he was copying it from somewhere else.

From Carole King?

[marylander1940]

On 1/21/2024 at 7:00 PM, MikeBiDude said:

So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now.

Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻‍♂️

Yes, over the years when RM is just a click away.

 

 

Edited January 23, 2024 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

13 hours ago, guru68 said:

Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out."

That's called honesty or "off putting" depending on the eyes of the beholder.

[guru68]

4 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

That's called honesty or "off putting" depending on the eyes of the beholder.

True enough. We all have our perceptions, and our illusions.

[MikeBiDude]

On 1/21/2024 at 4:00 PM, MikeBiDude said:

Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻‍♂️

14 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Yes, over the years when RM is just a click away.

Note I did mention RM as an alternative, and I do use RM too. As for “over the years” on seeking…I’ve had over a dozen successful longer term friendships, and dozens more short term fun. t’s a paradigm that works for many of us.

[marylander1940]

30 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

Note I did mention RM as an alternative, and I do use RM too. As for “over the years” on seeking…I’ve had over a dozen successful longer term friendships, and dozens more short term fun. t’s a paradigm that works for many of us.

I never said doing one thing excluded doing the other but one of the choices is certainly a waste of time unless someone has a lot of time to spare.

[BuzzLiteQueer]

On 1/22/2024 at 5:15 AM, guru68 said:

Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out."

I have no problem with that.  Isn't that essentially what all RM ads state but often take longer to get to that point?

[Your Man in Arlington]

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I never said doing one thing excluded doing the other but one of the choices is certainly a waste of time unless someone has a lot of time to spare.

Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining?

[+ FrankR]

2 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining?

We all agree - seeking needs a different approach. Rentmen may be a better fit for most that do not have the time or desire to cultivate a friend with benefits arrangement. Others prefer the seeking route. You do you. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

20 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining?

Yup. When you work full-time in an important job, you can't deal with kids who like to be fashionably late.

 

When I was in college, when your sugar daddy told you to be at the restaurant at a certain time, you showed up. Irresponsible and lazy brats don't deserve sugar.

[Thelatin]

I have a guy I see on occasion, he’s always late so I plan accordingly.  Last time was 2 and a half hours late, and I can’t find my expensive cologne that he complimented me on.  I won’t be seeing him again. 

Edited January 25, 2024 by Thelatin