marylander1940 Posted January 21 Share Posted January 21 On 7/7/2022 at 8:07 AM, pubic_assistance said: It would seem that way...yes. Easier to stay home and jerk off for 500 strangers paying you a dollar than to travel to a hotel downtown where a sweaty fat tourist wants to stick his dick in your mouth and have his way with your ass for a hour . It's an old post but worth quoting it. pubic_assistance and MikeBiDude 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 21 Share Posted January 21 20 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said: I hope he uses a thimble when he's doing the tapestry. Can't be too careful. The moment I saw the word "tapestry," I knew he was copying it from somewhere else. Why can't everyone be direct? Like, "you cover my apartment and tuition, and I'll be your boyfriend." SouthOfTheBorder, marylander1940, + azdr0710 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 I encouraged him to change it. He copped to it being written by ai, and changed it. + DrownedBoy, + FrankR, MikeBiDude and 2 others 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now. Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻♂️ GTMike, BonVivant, tennisjock and 3 others 2 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 11 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now. Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻♂️ I’ve had similar luck. Sometimes the time investment isn’t worth it but sometimes it’s great. guru68, MikeBiDude, tennisjock and 1 other 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 42 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I encouraged him to change it. He copped to it being written by ai, and changed it. can you.....discreetly........post the updated prose? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Whatsupandstuff Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 9 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: Does this ad do anything for anybody? I feel like having a meal with this guy would be nauseating. I’m curious how others see it. It also reads to me like AI wrote it. this "person" probably laughs at their own jokes and keeps a dream journal + Coolwave35 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 42 minutes ago, Whatsupandstuff said: this "person" probably laughs at their own jokes and keeps a dream journal He did say AI wrote it because he was new to the site and didn’t know what to say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BSR Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 Just now, Coolwave35 said: He did say AI wrote it because he was new to the site and didn’t know what to say. He lost me at "in the dance of life." marylander1940, pubic_assistance and + Coolwave35 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 1 hour ago, BSR said: He lost me at "in the dance of life." BSR and BuzzLiteQueer 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out." marylander1940, pubic_assistance, + DrownedBoy and 2 others 2 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 (edited) 21 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: I’m curious how others see it. stay very far away - lovebombing/stalking certain to follow whether or not AI wrote it - he thought it was a good idea to post it. just no Edited January 22 by SouthOfTheBorder Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 3 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said: stay very far away - lovebombing/stalking certain to follow whether or not AI wrote it - he thought it was a good idea to post it. just no Dude I would NEVER. I encouraged him to rewrite which he started to do then blocked him when he needed too much advice. kko123 and SouthOfTheBorder 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 On 1/21/2024 at 3:48 PM, DrownedBoy said: The moment I saw the word "tapestry," I knew he was copying it from somewhere else. From Carole King? liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 (edited) On 1/21/2024 at 7:00 PM, MikeBiDude said: So many misunderstandings on how Seeking can work. I've had great luck over the years...never paid for any kind of monthly rent, tuition. True that it takes time to find a good fit, I've got 2-3 now...one out of state going on 4 years now. Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻♂️ Yes, over the years when RM is just a click away. Edited January 23 by marylander1940 + DrownedBoy and MikeBiDude 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 13 hours ago, guru68 said: Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out." That's called honesty or "off putting" depending on the eyes of the beholder. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guru68 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 4 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: That's called honesty or "off putting" depending on the eyes of the beholder. True enough. We all have our perceptions, and our illusions. marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 On 1/21/2024 at 4:00 PM, MikeBiDude said: Re: comparisons to RM...why not use both 🤷🏻♂️ 14 hours ago, marylander1940 said: Yes, over the years when RM is just a click away. Note I did mention RM as an alternative, and I do use RM too. As for “over the years” on seeking…I’ve had over a dozen successful longer term friendships, and dozens more short term fun. t’s a paradigm that works for many of us. SirBillybob, + FrankR, tennisjock and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 30 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: Note I did mention RM as an alternative, and I do use RM too. As for “over the years” on seeking…I’ve had over a dozen successful longer term friendships, and dozens more short term fun. t’s a paradigm that works for many of us. I never said doing one thing excluded doing the other but one of the choices is certainly a waste of time unless someone has a lot of time to spare. + DrownedBoy, MikeBiDude, Your Man in Arlington and 2 others 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 On 1/22/2024 at 5:15 AM, guru68 said: Sometimes it's refreshing to see how direct the profiles can get - some variation of "I'm young and pretty, and I need money. Call me and we'll work something out." I have no problem with that. Isn't that essentially what all RM ads state but often take longer to get to that point? SirBillybob and MikeBiDude 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Man in Arlington Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 9 hours ago, marylander1940 said: I never said doing one thing excluded doing the other but one of the choices is certainly a waste of time unless someone has a lot of time to spare. Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining? MikeBiDude, SirBillybob, tennisjock and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted January 24 Share Posted January 24 2 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said: Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining? We all agree - seeking needs a different approach. Rentmen may be a better fit for most that do not have the time or desire to cultivate a friend with benefits arrangement. Others prefer the seeking route. You do you. spidir, BonVivant, + Coolwave35 and 4 others 4 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 20 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said: Agree with the above. As a busy guy with a husband (who approves), I need an appointment, not an arrangement. If my circumstances were different, an arrangement might be more entertaining? Yup. When you work full-time in an important job, you can't deal with kids who like to be fashionably late. When I was in college, when your sugar daddy told you to be at the restaurant at a certain time, you showed up. Irresponsible and lazy brats don't deserve sugar. Whatsupandstuff, tennisjock, marylander1940 and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted January 25 Share Posted January 25 (edited) I have a guy I see on occasion, he’s always late so I plan accordingly. Last time was 2 and a half hours late, and I can’t find my expensive cologne that he complimented me on. I won’t be seeing him again. Edited January 25 by Thelatin + goosh69, + DrownedBoy, Your Man in Arlington and 5 others 3 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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