Overnight Etiquette (?)

[manorbrown]

After years of hiring, I finally found 2 providers compatible enough with one another and me to do an overnight. Is there any etiquette I should know about for overnights? Is it really an “overnight” or do you require a certain amount of time for the encounter (like 5 hours) and after that time period the provider is allowed to leave? What happens if we all cum in the first 1-2 hours? Do the providers usually stick around for the entire evening in this case? I’m sure this topic has been broached on the message board but I could find the string. Feel free to attach  a previous thread if it exists….thanks!

[+ FLOutdoors]

You would be wise to confirm with each provider about what the expectation is. How many hours of sleep do they require, or is this really an all nighter? And is there anything unusual about their sleeping patterns? Do they take a sleeping pill and require 6 hours of actual sleep? And what time do they expect to leave in the morning? Does that involve another round before they take off? Better to ask in advance and not be disappointed!

[Keenan]

41 minutes ago, manorbrown said:

After years of hiring, I finally found 2 providers compatible enough with one another and me to do an overnight. Is there any etiquette I should know about for overnights? Is it really an “overnight” or do you require a certain amount of time for the encounter (like 5 hours) and after that time period the provider is allowed to leave? What happens if we all cum in the first 1-2 hours? Do the providers usually stick around for the entire evening in this case? I’m sure this topic has been broached on the message board but I could find the string. Feel free to attach  a previous thread if it exists….thanks!

At least for me an overnight is typically a set number of hours, like 10-12 hours.  Each provider is different and has different requirements but look at an overnight more like a date and have it planned out.  It typically works better that way, do something like this, meet some play, dinner either in the room or at a restaurant, come back some more play, at a certain point sleep, maybe morning play, breakfast and depart.  Just make sure expectations are known before setting the appointment in stone then its a lot better.

[maninsoma]

I only ever hired one guy for overnights.  With him that meant that he would arrive in time for dinner (usually, though sometimes our plans began after dinner) and then he left in the morning when I had to go to work or, if it was a weekend, usually mid-morning.

The above advice is good, though: Each provider may see things differently so it's best to be more specific when hiring someone for an overnight what that means for them.  After all, we have some providers who are hired for an hour who want to leave in a half hour or less just because the client had an orgasm.

[SecretProvider]

The answer is going to vary for every provider so the best thing to do, and i feel like i repeat myself a lot when I say this: Talk to your provider! Communicate. 

Be clear and communicate what your expectation and desires for the booking is. Ask for what you want. 

And lastly, ENJOY!  

Edited 52 minutes ago by SecretProvider

[56harrisond]

Some overnight discussions 

 

[aiseeya]

Most (if not all) providers I met define 'overnight' as an 8 hours booking. Best to iron out details before booking.