A Group of Men Hiring One or Two Providers

[PileDriver]

Have never hired someone with another guy of group of men to share the provider. The idea turns me on to get together with another man or group of men to hire and play with one provider...maybe two. AND who are the providers, in NYC, who a great at servicing multiple men? Have been at porn theaters and a few times in Europe in a backroom and a sauna when one dude was the center of attention for a group of men. Mostly bottom dudes but a few times a top who got off dipping in everyone else present.

Edited March 31 by PileDriver

[+ Pensant]

That scenario used to happen all the time at the Nob Hill theater in SF back in the late ‘80s and 90s. 

[PileDriver]

Oh baby! Been there done that. Thanks for reminding me. AND there was another place...the name escapes me right now. Porn theater with strippers. In the basement the strippers would put on an audience participatory show. Often one stripper with no inhibitions would take on everyone there.

[topunderachiever]

Campus Theatre

[Pd1_jap]

About a year ago I hired a sub muscle guy for a fantasy I had of hosting a pump and dump. He was very hot and had a lot of fun. I was surprised how difficult it was to get guys to come fuck him. 

I learned that day that even ridiculously hot men have trouble hooking up on the apps. 

[theplayerking]

7 hours ago, PileDriver said:

Have never hired someone with another guy of group of men to share the provider. The idea turns me on to get together with another man or group of men to hire and play with one provider...maybe two. AND who are the providers, in NYC, who a great at servicing multiple men? Have been at porn theaters and a few times in Europe in a backroom and a sauna when one dude was the center of attention for a group of men. Mostly bottom dudes but a few times a top who got off dipping in everyone else present.

You need to look for providers that offer that particular service. I’ve found a lot of providers and not into groups and are more sexually conservative than one would imagine. 

[rentaljock]

I'm into this fantasy! I like to perform for an audience!

 

 https://rent.men/date_robert

[BeHappy]

http://www.clubsaunas.com/club_st_louis/
 

😈😈😈😈😈😈

[FrancisCA]

I’ve done this exact scenario when I was living in SF. Super fun and I helped with the planning of it all. Logistics is once of my favorite things to do haha 

[DznNYC]

I love groups!  Few things more exciting than a group dynamic.  

I've done a few similar scenes, but not quite this.  I've worked small sexy parties before, which are fun as hell.  Or I've done groups with multiple providers and a single client.  All incredibly hot experiences.  Group dynamic is one of my favorites. 

Though you're right to carefully consider this question and thoughtfully curate the group.  Not every provider combination is ideal.  Sometimes having providers with known chemistry can be helpful.  Occasionally I've helped clients curate groups.  It's fun stuff!

https://rent.men/DznNYC

 

[DznNYC]

Had a little provider side chat about this topic…

Wondering if there would ever be a client base for a group event like this.  A small group of curated versatile providers.  A slightly less small group of clients who enjoy playing in group scenarios.  

Is this kind of thing worth exploring?

I guess specifically thinking of a NYC based event.  

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve done it a few times…hired to be the catalyst at sex parties, although these events were the type where people pay to attend. The organiser wanted to make sure there was a couple of guys happy to go with anyone at the party and who would bring those who were more anxious about participating in the action into things. They were quite large parties (60 people) so there’s always a mix of chat, action in various groups or one to one and just making sure everyone gets to have a good time. 

[PaulTopMan]

On 4/6/2026 at 7:40 PM, DznNYC said:

Had a little provider side chat about this topic…

Wondering if there would ever be a client base for a group event like this.  A small group of curated versatile providers.  A slightly less small group of clients who enjoy playing in group scenarios.  

Is this kind of thing worth exploring?

I guess specifically thinking of a NYC based event.  

Thanks for thinking along. I for one would be interested!

[Braziliancutee]

I have been doing this a few times already on my short time being provider. Normally couples who both like to be top or friends who like to play together love to share me . it’s very sexy and I really enjoyed being desire for 2 guys.

[BeHappy]

10 minutes ago, Braziliancutee said:

I have been doing this a few times already on my short time being provider. Normally couples who both like to be top or friends who like to play together love to share me . it’s very sexy and I really enjoyed being desire for 2 guys.

That is soooo hot!

[hungry4darkmeat]

So a bottom friend I met on another site and I have hired multiple top providers together a few times and have had a blast 

[Jay17403]

I accidentally befriended a guy the same age as me with a similar fetish and love of hiring. We had significant differences in taste of men however we enjoyed getting a room and watching each other get used. It was fun getting watched enjoying myself with no worries of judgement. I think some of the escorts were confused and I assume most thought we were a couple. 

[SecretProvider]

I have had a few different types of experiences and it either goes really well, or really bad. 

Bad first - Two friends (I think they actually met via craiglists or a forum like this) and the decided to go halves and hire a guy to share as they both enjoyed being dom. The problem arose when they realized they both had completely differing ideas of what "being dominant" meant for each of them and had no chemistry together. It ended up being very difficult for me, trying to please them simultaneously. I ended up having to treat them separately. Like - you first, then you second. The result was they both got a half hour session for about half the rate of a full hour (since they effectively split the bill) but they had to tolerate each other during it. It as clear they never knew each other and had only met that day, right then. It was a disaster.

Good next - a group of guys that had played together before were having a party (more like a get together) and had me over to service them. It was a lot more relaxed despite there being many more guys. They were able to mingle and chill with each other when my hands were full. They all knew they were getting a turn, so there was no rush, no jealousy, no competition. The nights always ended up fantastic, and I always stayed way longer than planned or paid. 

The key for these things being successful is having all participants on the same page (prior relationships ideal) - not 'lets save money and all share one guy'.  

[Wildwood]

Thanks for this great idea.i’d be interested in a NYC event.

[astro]

On 4/12/2026 at 11:00 PM, SecretProvider said:

not 'lets save money and all share one guy'.  

Ah… wait, doesn’t a provider usually charge more when he’s serving multiple people at the same time? After all, it involves a lot more work and effort.

[dutchal]

I've been part of groups of various sizes but never centered around a hired provider.  

[theplayerking]

I was briefly part of a group of professional guys on the Upper East Side that would meet up after work for cocktails and to fuck each other in a private apartment. That was before I started hiring, but it would have been fun to engage a fresh versatile guy each week to add a bit of variety. 

[SecretProvider]

2 hours ago, astro said:

Ah… wait, doesn’t a provider usually charge more when he’s serving multiple people at the same time? After all, it involves a lot more work and effort.

Some do, some don't. Some charge slightly more, some charge a per person rate.

Even when you charge more for couples, it usually still works out to a discounted per-person rate. For example, a standard rate of $400 pre hour or $500 for couples comes to $250 each, rather than $400 each - hence why I said it's "effectively half the rate". Some providers don't charge extra at all but in my experience, very few actually price two clients session at double the standard rate.

When I did the big group session, I was paid my regular overnight fee, and could go once the play stopped.  

Just reach out to a provider who you think would be down for it and see what magic happens!

[hungry4darkmeat]

I’ve found that providers are likely going to charge each client their usual rate and therefore make twice as much as usual- and if you communicate to them that you expect it to be a longer session since there’s multiple clients and they’re okay with it, it turns out to be a good deal as long as you’re hiring providers who don’t clock watch.

[DznNYC]

I think this situation would involve a certain amount of financial risk for the providers, depending on how many clients actually showed up.  Could be super lucrative, or could be a big flop. 

The key would be finding providers who are excited enough about group play to take the risk.