Do I help the provider to finish?

[Somewhere Else]

This often happens when I get a sensual massage.  Things got heated near the end, he is stroking me, I may be sucking or fingering or stroking him. He is moaning, I am excited.  Here is the thing, I am never sure if he is “acting” or genuinely turned on. Usually how it ends is that I finish and he helps me clean up. He never finishes. (Which I really want him to).  If this was a hook up, I would want to be a considerate lover and see what I can do for him to finish. But this kind of arrangement I am not sure what to do. Any one have suggestion? 

[theplayerking]

1 hour ago, Somewhere Else said:

This often happens when I get a sensual massage.  Things got heated near the end, he is stroking me, I may be sucking or fingering or stroking him. He is moaning, I am excited.  Here is the thing, I am never sure if he is “acting” or genuinely turned on. Usually how it ends is that I finish and he helps me clean up. He never finishes. (Which I really want him to).  If this was a hook up, I would want to be a considerate lover and see what I can do for him to finish. But this kind of arrangement I am not sure what to do. Any one have suggestion? 

Just ask him. He may assume that you don’t want his load or he may be saving his energy if he has more clients that day. If his dick is down your throat you’ve already crossed a line. 

[Whippoorwill]

I experience the same thing with my massage boy. Once he seemed so into it...me sucking him for ten or more minutes, him groaning and moaning appropriately, I asked him, "What do you want me to do?" He replied, "What do you mean?" I said, "Do you want to cum?" He said, "I have clients to x o'clock, and I have to be able to stay hard." End of conversation. He may or may not be really excited, or he may just be acting well. But no, he doesn't want to cum. 

With another masseur, when traveling, I came, and then he finished himself off on me. It was so great for a number or reasons, I did a repeat a couple of days later. As soon as i arrived, he said, "I can't cum this time because I have another client later tonight and I have to be able to stay hard." So one strategy might be to be sure you book the last appointment of the night. 😃

[Nue2thegame]

14 minutes ago, theplayerking said:

Just ask him. He may assume that you don’t want his load or he may be saving his energy if he has more clients that day. If his dick is down your throat you’ve already crossed a line. 

I agree with your advice but it’s hard to ask him what he wants if his dick is already down your throat. 

[WorcesterTony]

I mean I would def finish him😘. At least for me part of the whole experience is him cumming, preferably in me😏 but if not at least somewhere. I just feel as if it also makes their profession more rewarding ☺️. I also agree thou, just chat with them about it.

Who knows maybe he doesn’t wanna cum cuz he did earlier or maybe he’s tired 🤷🏻‍♂️. Communication is never bad😘.

[jeezifonly]

Honest negotiations between client and provider, about the provider's release, begin with the client hiring an escort as opposed to a masseur.