BFE and jealousy about other clients

[+ KensingtonHomo]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I did have a regular masseur who became jealous when he found out I hired other masseurs and escorts besides him.

That's bizarre. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

6 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I did have a regular masseur who became jealous when he found out I hired other masseurs and escorts besides him.

That's bizarre. 

I don't find it surprising.  We're all humans with the same chemicals floating around our brains so jealously can trigger in anyone, even when logic says not to.  After all, that's probably what the original poster was trying to say:   He feels the jealousy chemicals even though it's illogical to be jealous of a man one is hiring.  So, it makes sense that it happens vice versa.

Edited 3 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial

[pubic_assistance]

On 12/9/2025 at 9:08 AM, sync said:

I'm fine with mentions of other men, but when they mention girlfriend/wife, I'm out. 

Interesting. 

99% of MY hookups find it to be a big turn on that I'm married to a woman. I can only recall one fellow being upset that I wasn't 100% gay. 

What is it that drives this repulsion, when so many others have the exact opposite reaction ? 

I've been with more than a few providers who had girlfriends at home. They said the g.f. didn't mind them having sex with men for money but would go ballistic if they had sex with another woman. 

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[Braziliancutee]

1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I don't find it surprising.  We're all humans with the same chemicals floating around our brains so jealously can trigger in anyone, even when logic says not to.  After all, that's probably what the original poster was trying to say:   He feels the jealousy chemicals even though it's illogical to be jealous of a man one is hiring.  So, it makes sense that it happens vice versa.

Yeah I agree with that! I have one client who hire  regularly a lot escorts and that’s ok. But then I just realized that he stayed more time talking with me by messages, FaceTime then the other guys. And he was spending more money with the other guys then me. Isn’t a equal thing. I just stopped to let him know about my life. But I never did drama or something like that with him. We need to be professional

[+ sync]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Interesting. 

99% of MY hookups find it to be a big turn on that I'm married to a woman. I can only recall one fellow being upset that I wasn't 100% gay. 

What is it that drives this repulsion, when so many others have the exact opposite reaction ? 

I've been with more than a few providers who had girlfriends at home. They said the g.f. didn't mind them having sex with men for money but would go ballistic if they had sex with another woman. 

"Repulsion" is bit more intense than my feelings are.

I feel there is probably an ample hetero market for "straight" providers without exploiting the sexual orientation and emotions of homosexuals, as well as shrinking the market for gay/bi providers.

I reiterate, "to each his own," whatever floats your boat.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

29 minutes ago, sync said:

"Repulsion" is bit more intense than my feelings are.

I feel there is probably an ample hetero market for "straight" providers without exploiting the sexual orientation and emotions of homosexuals, as well as shrinking the market for gay/bi providers.

I reiterate, "to each his own," whatever floats your boat.

On the contrary, I feel it's the straight/bisexual guy who is being exploited when I'm having my way with him 😍.  While I may sometimes be jealous when I find out the guy has a husband, I'm not jealous that he has a girl partner.  In fact, I think it's hot that I can do what I want with him and he can enjoy it without jealousy from his wife, because I'm not another woman.

[+ sync]

17 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

On the contrary, I feel it's the straight/bisexual guy who is being exploited when I'm having my way with him 😍.  While I may sometimes be jealous when I find out the guy has a husband, I'm not jealous that he has a girl partner.  In fact, I think it's hot that I can do what I want with him and he can enjoy it without jealousy from his wife, because I'm not another woman.

Whatever floats your boat.