Threesome Protocol

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ve arranged 4 threesome’s in recent months.  Most notable being recent experiences with cuteblondeboy/FTM_AngelGabe and last weekend with Roman_Speers/AshtenSky.

I once had a regular indicate he’d prefer not to participate in a threesome  His reason was that, whereas in an orgy he could tap out if he needed a break, in a threesome he felt he needed to stay engaged.  Silly me, I never considered that   

But, while in my 60’s, my catholic school upbringing has still left me somewhat naive in certain things.

So, I’m curious - should a threesome be a completely “go with the flow” exercise, or are there certain techniques/routines that keep everyone engaged and satisfied?

Please share your favorite examples if you have any.  

[+ Just Chuck]

Often the two people with the most chemistry will start to focus on each other and it’s easy to leave someone out.  There are some tricks to make sure that everyone is getting plenty of attention throughout.  One that I’ve used: I set an interval timer for the gym set to give a soft chime every so often (maybe 90 seconds) and set the “ground rules” every time that my phone chimes, we switch positions.”  It turned out to be a lot of fun and didn’t really feel forced at all.

On another note: I absolutely love trans men.  Please let me know how your experience with cuteblondeboy goes.  I thought that my work was going to take me to New Orleans earlier this year and was really excited that I might be able to meet him.

[+ PhileasFogg]

Cuteblondeboy is in LA.  We’ve met twice and have a third trip on schedule in Feb to Palm Springs.  He’s awesome!

AngelGabe is the TransMan and in NOLA.  We have our second meeting planned this weekend. He is well educated and worldly with an edge of sarcastic humor that matches my own. Looking forward to our Friday meeting. 🕺🏼

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Since my husband and I mostly hire together, we often have threesomes. I find that with any sex people occasionally need a break because they've been going too hard, or they're overwhelmed with stimulation. I don't see that to be an issue. If anything, it's an advantage of having more than two people. That said, depending on participants' preferences (who's a top, bottom, vers), I could see someone feeling pressured to perform throughout. But we usually try to assure the other guys that they're allowed ot take a break. 

[+ Just Chuck]

If you’re hiring the other two, you might set a ground rule that they don’t try to make you cum for the first 2/3rds (or something) of the appointment. Sitting out and feeling like taking a nap while the other two partners keep going at it would be fine for a group of three volunteers, but it would feel like a waste to be paying for.

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, Just Chuck said:

If you’re hiring the other two, you might set a ground rule that they don’t try to make you cum for the first 2/3rds (or something) of the appointment. Sitting out and feeling like taking a nap while the other two partners keep going at it would be fine for a group of three volunteers, but it would feel like a waste to be paying for.

I'm OK with sloppy seconds

[+ Jamie21]

The best rule is no compulsion for anyone on anything. All you need to know, or ask your partners is what they definitely don’t want. If anything else is optional for anyone then no participant feels an obligation to do anything. That’s the best way for everyone to have a good time. 

[SecretProvider]

Just go with the flow. Sitting back and watching for a bit is also really sexy for all parties. 

I would not invite the provider who has said he doesn't enjoy it. I think most providers would like group bookings - I really enjoy when I get to invited to threesomes with other providers by clients- it's a chance to have sex with someone I am much more likely to have sex with in my personal life so almost like catching me in my natural habitat. I always make sure not to get carried away and that the client feels important though.

[+ purplekow]

It is considerate of you to want the escorts you are financing to have a good time, but really it is there job to make sure that you do.  You need to be clear what you need and what they need should be secondary to that.  Not to say that they cannot have fun, but it should only be at your willingness.  So, in the threesomes I have arranged, most were with partners and they were told that my expectation was that at least one of them should be paying attention to me unless I indicate that I am all for being the odd man out for a bit. 

I once had a three way with a couple whom I hired several times.   One was always the top for anal though he gave excellent head and the other always the bottom.  I enjoyed watching them go at it as I am not into bottoming.  One time, the last time actually, the top asked me to top him.  He told me he did not usually bottom during paid encounters but he wanted to see how that would work out.  He apparently did not inform his partner that this was going to happen and when the top suddenly threw his legs in the air and groaned for me to fuck him, I obliged, to the consternation of the the bottom who watched for a bit and then asked if he was needed in a way that was not conducive to my continuing to fuck his partner.  

After that encounter, which did continue with my switching to fucking the bottom, I never did hire them again.  I wanted to hire the top as a single, but I did not want to cause any difficulty.  The top said he would need to clear it with his partner if I was going to fuck him.  So even the best laid plans can go awry.  

Edited November 25 by purplekow

[+ KensingtonHomo]

47 minutes ago, SecretProvider said:

it's a chance to have sex with someone I am much more likely to have sex with in my personal life so almost like catching me in my natural habitat

Thank God you're anonymous. 🤣🤣🤣

[Nikba]

For those already experienced with group sessions in a private party or sauna, it comes easy and only needed to agree with rules and roles. Not so easy task for the first timer, I had it years ago with lot of excitement and expectations. The first time was horrible with miscommunication and engagement. The second time, a year later, I asked the provider (I hired a few times) to pick the third one, that might be best suited the situation. It turned out fantastic and beyond my imagination.  Since then, I regularly held 3some every 3 or 4 months depending on the vibe and budget. Top/versatile and completely versatile are best choices on most cases. 

[italianboyph]

I think with threesomes you need to make sure everyone feels included, because you don’t want anyone to feel disconnected. Going with the flow sometimes makes for the best sex and chemistry as well.

[theplayerking]

I found hiring providers for a threesome to be problematic. One might assume that they’d be excited to be compensated for hooking up with another hot guy, but that’s often not the case even if you inform them of the scenario beforehand. It’s best to look for guys that say they enjoy group play in their ads, or have a partnership with another provider.

[+ Jamie21]

42 minutes ago, theplayerking said:

I found hiring providers for a threesome to be problematic. One might assume that they’d be excited to be compensated for hooking up with another hot guy, but that’s often not the case even if you inform them of the scenario beforehand. It’s best to look for guys that say they enjoy group play in their ads, or have a partnership with another provider.

My advice is find a guy you like, and then ask him to arrange the other provider. It’s a big risk putting two together yourself because then you risk that there’s no chemistry between the two guys you hired and that’s kind of missing the whole point of the exercise. If you find a guy who fits your preference and then you tell him you’d like another guy with whatever attributes/skills/role that you want you can ask him to find a match that he’s also comfortable with. That way you maximise chances the two guys you hire will be aligned and can focus on you. You’ll enjoy their chemistry.

I’ve got a selection of guys who I know I work well with and if a client asks me for a group session then I can arrange it all for him. I’ll never accept a booking where the client has chosen the other guy. His style or values might not align with mine and then the whole session will be awkward. 

 

[GentJ]

I wouldn't worry too much about pre-planning. The great thing about groups is the multiplicative explosion of possible dick/hole/hand possibilities! 🤯 See what happens. Any provider worth their salt is going to make sure the clients get all the attention they want. If it's more than one client, it's the provider's job to keep that balanced. Doing stuff with another provider, while fun, isn't the main reason we're there, and we know that.

[DenverDad]

2 minutes ago, GentJ said:

I wouldn't worry too much about pre-planning. The great thing about groups is the multiplicative explosion of possible dick/hole/hand possibilities! 🤯 See what happens. Any provider worth their salt is going to make sure the clients get all the attention they want. If it's more than one client, it's the provider's job to keep that balanced. Doing stuff with another provider, while fun, isn't the main reason we're there, and we know that.

Well, unless the client REALLY gets into watching the two providers going after it.

[GentJ]

5 minutes ago, DenverDad said:

Well, unless the client REALLY gets into watching the two providers going after it.

Yeah, totally. That's what I meant by all the attention they WANT. People who mostly wanna watch will tell you as much, in my experience.

[jmichaeliii]

I recently had one of my rentmen regulars have a friend come into town and he messaged me if I was interested in getting together with the 2 of them which I quickly said yes as this is a provider I have great chemistry with.  The only thing I wish he was more into was kissing.

The way the session played out... when they arrived from the airport the friend showered to clean up, then my regular.  During my regulars shower time it was quite apparent the friend was really into making out, so the spacing of things got me what I wanted with no one feeling out.  In the middle of the session we took another shower break and that gave me some more one on one time!

[Boaxxx]

As with everything we all have our own perspective. I think it is very important to voice expectations, what you want to happen and what you don't want to happen. I also think it is best to work with someone you've already been with and ask if they have any recommendations. I want the providers to have just as much of a good time as I do. Naturally I want to get the majority of their attention on me but I also have no issue with providers engaging with one another. Like I said I want everyone to enjoy their time. 

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I had an interesting threesome - I had been checking out a hot provider in my town (he no longer advertises.   He was definitely a hot leather man master , we set up a time and my instructions were to arrive at a st corner ring him and he would provide directions.  I was also directed to have the fee in my right side pocket.

Arrived at the intersection rang, got told to go to a roller garage door. - slide it up, walk inside, turn around slide the garage door down and stand with my hands above my head facing the garage door.

I did - and heard his footsteps - and them the feel of is body pressed against mine. He removed my glasses, slipped a eye mask over my eyes and told me to follow him.

I ended up in a room with him, still blind folded, although I could see a little out the bottom of the eye mask.  we had some conversation, we had already talked about what I wanted and limits etc.   he then said he had not mentioned that he had a hot blonde Russian body builder as a slave and was I happy for him to join it.

Of course I said yes, He said - Ok will go and get him. I could hear the conversation, basically yes he is happy for you to join in.

So in comes the two of them, master fully clothed in boots jeans and a harness under a leather jacket, studly slave naked except for a collar.

I was ordered to do various fun activities like kiss the slave, bit his nipples, play with his cock, suck his cock, then the play turned to the master who wanted his cock sucked , some spanking and flogging continued, with what I could not take the slave getting,  It was a hot session ended up with a wild sharing of hot loads.

Sometimes you just have to go with the flow - this one worked out and was excellent.

I had another with two hot escorts in Melbourne,  I had contacted both of them separately and had some detailed conversations with the more kinkier one first, but I was very attracted to the physical appearance of the second.  The second one mentioned that he did 3 sums with number 1 so I explored that option.    Number 2 said he was not very kinky but when he was in a 3sum with number 1 he got more kinky than he usually was.

So the night happened, I was in Melbourne and staying at the Gatehouse - a guesthouse with 2 sling rooms that you could rent for the night, or hours, I was staying there.

That night was more than I could have hopped for, as both men were sexy, in different ways and we had lots of fun, and they had some fun with each other too.  

That one will be a repeat sometime.

 

Try it - the real secret is communication.