*Hiring your neighbor ? *sigh*

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

19 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Don't get caught being the creepy neighbor who everyone is afraid of going near. Repeating my advice: do NOT be the one making all the moves. 

IF you cant resist this fantasy, leave the door open but let HIM make the moves. 

I like this statement.  I never would have thought of it myself, as I already have the reputation of being the slutty neighbor. 

The fact that the young man gave you his number to detail your car while shirtless means you have the golden opportunity to let him make all the moves and keep your "reputation" in tact 😁 .  But hire him to detail your car or other odd jobs around your house every 2nd day of his visit.  This opportunity to watch him work shirtless and let him make the first move for more shan't be wasted on only one hire!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

2 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

He's not a creepy neighbor. And he's not the one making all the moves. 
@pubic_assistance you are mischaracterizing things. In actuality the neighbor made the first move. It was the boy who put up a Rentmen ad. It was the boy who approached him for "odd jobs."  
@Ali Gator is merely responding to what has been placed in front of him. I say go for it. 
 

Exactly. I'm reading a lot of internalized homophobia in this thread. "Gay men are the creepy neighbor." "Don't be perving on your neighbor's 34-YEAR-OLD son." 

If he was coming over to detail Ali Gator's car (with no RM Ad) and AG tried to entice him into something, THAT would be creepy and possibly cause drama. 

[pubic_assistance]

2 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm reading a lot of internalized homophobia

Of course you are. You are always looking under every rock in search of something to be indignant about. 

My advice stands. @KensingtonHomo seems to be oblivious to the risks of neighborhood social blunders if this goes sideways. 

[LookingAround]

7 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Exactly. I'm reading a lot of internalized homophobia in this thread. "Gay men are the creepy neighbor." "Don't be perving on your neighbor's 34-YEAR-OLD son." 

If he was coming over to detail Ali Gator's car (with no RM Ad) and AG tried to entice him into something, THAT would be creepy and possibly cause drama. 

Bingo. The internalized homophobia was very clear to me as well. We each have our take on this and now @Ali Gator has the viewpoints. 

Edited Monday at 02:28 PM by LookingAround

[BaronArtz]

2 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

Thanks everyone. You've confused me more than ever (which I kind of expected) but appreciate all the answers. So much to think about, and I will keep you posted.

As for today, I will contact him about my car for this week (it really does need detailing). Then we shall see...and I will keep you updated. 

Stay tuned...

Would you mind posting the link to his RM ad?

Thank you.

Edited Monday at 02:37 PM by BaronArtz

[+ poolboy48220]

Just now, BaronArtz said:

Would you mind posting the link to his RM ad?

Thsnk you.

I couldn't be the only one thinking that 🤣

[pubic_assistance]

3 minutes ago, poolboy48220 said:

I couldn't be the only one thinking that 🤣

Aww...c'mon guys...the poor kid will be like the Lincoln Tunnel by the time eveyone on the site has their way with him.....We don't want @Ali Gator to fall in ! 😆

 

[BSR]

My only other advice is to rent a hotel room.  Of course it doesn’t have to be fancy — as long as it’s clean, comfortable, and a good distance from your neighborhood, parents’ workplace(s), parents’ hangouts, etc.  If you book a hotel across the street from the parents’ favorite restaurant, Murphy’s Law, you’ll be walking into the hotel together as the parents are pulling up for dinner, eek!

Parents:  “Son, what were you doing with the neighbor last night, going into the Courtyard?”
Son:  fumbles a bit … “We were grabbing dinner at the restaurant.”
Parents:  “But the Courtyard doesn’t have a restaurant, not even a snack bar.”
oh gawd, so awkward …

Edited Monday at 03:09 PM by BSR
Typo

[pubic_assistance]

2 minutes ago, BSR said:

 If you book a hotel across the street from the parents’ favorite restaurant, Murphy’s Law, you’ll be walking into the hotel together as the parents are pulling up for dinner, eek!

Assuming the parents are the only people in town who recognize their son, is a mistake.

When I lived at home with my parent's, I couldn't make a move in a town of 30K people, without everyone knowing, because nearly everyone knew my family...so my parents knew where I was, and who I was with nearly all the time. 

 

[+ ApexNomad]

As Ian Malcolm so wisely warned in Jurassic Park: you’re so preoccupied with whether or not you could, you didn’t stop to think if you should.

Just be a neighbor. Not everyone needs to be fucked.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

49 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Of course you are. You are always looking under every rock in search of something to be indignant about. 

My advice stands. @KensingtonHomo seems to be oblivious to the risks of neighborhood social blunders if this goes sideways. 

You're the queen of projection. Given that you live a completely heterosexual lifestyle, you should really mind your business about LGBTQ issues. 

[Alchemy]

55 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Exactly. I'm reading a lot of internalized homophobia in this thread. "Gay men are the creepy neighbor." "Don't be perving on your neighbor's 34-YEAR-OLD son." 

If he was coming over to detail Ali Gator's car (with no RM Ad) and AG tried to entice him into something, THAT would be creepy and possibly cause drama. 

I don't see it as homophobia. I'd view it the same way if it were my neighbor's daughter escorting. I don't know Ali Gator's circumstances but I've lived in the same suburban neighborhood for nearly forty years and know most of the people around here. If I hired a neighbor's adult child for sex and it got out, it would definitely impact many of those relationships. ... The RM stud can't possibly be worth it.

[pubic_assistance]

3 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

you should really mind your business about LGBTQ issues. 

Well...considering I am part of your alphabet soup there. I will continue to comment from the perspective of a bisexual man, who lived most of his late 20's and early 30's as a homosexual man. Stop being a bigot and allow people to have opinions different from your own. Conversation is always more interesting with DIFFERENT perspectives instead of the echo chamber, you are accustomed to. 

There are several other members here to seem to agree with MY perspective, so I fail to see why YOUR opinion should silence my own.

You are free to fuck all of your neighbor's kids and have their parents ostracize you.  Other's would take a more cautious approach and perhaps value their neighbor's opinion about themselves more than you care about yours.

Different strokes for different folks. 

 

[+ SirBillybob]

Before this topic is locked, let me just add that this type of scenario, for obvious reasons, should be especially filtered through MA prostitution law.

Edited Monday at 03:38 PM by SirBillybob

[BSR]

3 minutes ago, Alchemy said:

The RM stud can't possibly be worth it.

I dunno, from @Ali Gator’s description, the neighborstud actually might be.  Besides being scorching-hot, the young man sounds like a hella nice guy.  Sounds like a dream escort.

Ali has to figure out the risks, because the reward is obvious.  If the parents are likely to find out, yeah, that could get complicated, maybe even ugly.  True, in a small town, everybody knows everything about everyone else.  But in a big city (no idea where OP lives), you can live your life quite anonymously.

Best of luck to Ali with whatever he ends up deciding.  Just one thing:  if you do hook up with him, could you PM me all the juicy details?

[pubic_assistance]

10 minutes ago, BSR said:

Just one thing:  if you do hook up with him, could you PM me all the juicy details?

Send video !! 😁

[+ KensingtonHomo]

5 minutes ago, Alchemy said:

I don't see it as homophobia. I'd view it the same way if it were my neighbor's daughter escorting. I don't know Ali Gator's circumstances but I've lived in the same suburban neighborhood for nearly forty years and know most of the people around here. If I hired a neighbor's adult child for sex and it got out, it would definitely impact many of those relationships. ... The RM stud can't possibly be worth it.

I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. I don't understand how anyone in the neighborhood is going to find out. Is Ali Gator telling them? Is the stud? He's advertising where he's living. 

 

[Alchemy]

4 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. I don't understand how anyone in the neighborhood is going to find out. Is Ali Gator telling them? Is the stud? He's advertising where he's living. 

 

I don't have all the answers, either. If they're not meeting at Ali Gator's house, the chances of discovery are much less, I'd agree.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

37 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I will continue to comment from the perspective of a bisexual man, who lived most of his late 20's and early 30's as a homosexual man. Stop being a bigot and allow people to have opinions different from your own.

Oh, so now you were a homosexual? The story just keeps changing. As the saying goes, you're entitled to your own opinions but not your own facts. You have repeatedly stated with your whole chest that you do not consider yourself part of the "alphabet soup" community. Now you are. Next week you won't be. I understand you're not accustomed to interacting with people who possess genuine moral and ethical frameworks that remain consistent over time. 

 

42 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

You are free to fuck all of your neighbor's kids and have their parents ostracize you.  Other's would take a more cautious approach and perhaps value their neighbor's opinion about themselves more than you care about yours.

Girl, go try and bait someone who will take it. I'm immune to your faux civility and heteronormative BS. 

[BaronArtz]

For starters, DO post the link to this RM profile.  Let US advise you on whether it is worth the risk - which it very well could be. 

There is something appealing about the hot stud next door coming over to detail the car - shirtless of course - followed by a quickie in the shower.   If you hit it off, you could schedule follow up meetings at a motel out of town, or in the woods or something like that.

Keeping it all on the DL and secretive makes it so much more ... exciting!

Edited Monday at 04:40 PM by BaronArtz

[MikeBiDude]

Moderator comment here: let’s get back on the topic. @KensingtonHomo and @pubic_assistance, appreciate you both - but please stop or take it to DM’s. See that leading asterisk I added to the title…that means moderators are watching the thread.

[JTtorretto]

Im certain Im not the only one who ventured over to RM Boston listings in search for visual proof of “neighbors hot son is escorting” and unless “he” removed his profile, no one listed fits your details.  

thus, post his url or you are full of bologna

When did COM turn into Nifty.org?

 

[MaybeMaybeNot]

I am too inexperienced to have much opinion.  I definitely see the caution of things getting very uncomfortable. However,  I also see it as helping the guy out. He is clearly entrepreneurial, hustling (not in the CoM way) to get started in a business. It takes money to start a business, and he can make more on RM than detailing cars.  If he is a nice guy (i.e. is going to be professional and level-headed) from a solid family (i.e. raised him with good values), it could be fine.  

You could always leave the RM landing page up on a laptop or on your phone in a way so he can see, and follow his response.  That opens the door to discussion without your initiation.   

Edited Monday at 05:17 PM by MaybeMaybeNot

[LookingAround]

1 hour ago, JTtorretto said:

Im certain Im not the only one who ventured over to RM Boston listings in search for visual proof of “neighbors hot son is escorting” and unless “he” removed his profile, no one listed fits your details.  

thus, post his url or you are full of bologna

When did COM turn into Nifty.org?

 

Interesting; I hadn't considered that. Let's see the RM ad for verification.  Certainly wouldn't be the first creative writing post we've encountered. 

[+ glutes]

26 minutes ago, LookingAround said:

 Certainly wouldn't be the first creative writing post we've encountered. 

And Lord knows we've had 'creative writing' here before...