Getting started providing?

[hotsaw0666]

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. Looking for any input that gives me a little more education and knowledge on the subject  thanks

[56harrisond]

 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, hotsaw0666 said:

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. Looking for any input that gives me a little more education and knowledge on the subject  thanks

Work on (1) attracting men with your photographs, and (2) having a great personality that makes men want to hire you again.

 If you're having trouble doing this in your personal life at nearly age 50, then it's going to be that much more effort to train yourself to do it professionally: 

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 I am having no success turning heads or making friends etc. 

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...because I had to wait until almost 50 to wake up.

 

[+ Jamie21]

4 hours ago, hotsaw0666 said:

I wanna fuck for money.

If you think of it like that, you won’t succeed. That’s the first consideration. 

[Aaron 90]

The first step to true happiness, being a twink and having a job as an escort.

[Nightowl]

14 hours ago, hotsaw0666 said:

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. 

Just remember that you’re selling a fantasy.  You may want to monetize your sex life, which is fine, but your clients want to feel that you’re also there for them.  The best providers I’ve been to are client-focused first, self-focused second.  If you plan to advertise on RMass and MF, you’ll also need some training on how to give a massage.  Clients who hire from there have a right to expect a decent massage if that’s what you claim to provide.  

[Keenan]

15 hours ago, hotsaw0666 said:

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. Looking for any input that gives me a little more education and knowledge on the subject  thanks

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds.  You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them.  Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent.  As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.  

[Becket]

11 hours ago, Nightowl said:

Just remember that you’re selling a fantasy.  You may want to monetize your sex life, which is fine, but your clients want to feel that you’re also there for them.  The best providers I’ve been to are client-focused first, self-focused second.  If you plan to advertise on RMass and MF, you’ll also need some training on how to give a massage.  Clients who hire from there have a right to expect a decent massage if that’s what you claim to provide.  

Good description of what makes a good escort. Hotsaw0666, you will find out quick enough that the "fucking for money" part of being an escort is, for many of us, not the most important part.

[hotsaw0666]

Much appreciated. Really useful insight I assure you. 

[iocurus]

Yea I've been thinking about starting in a more structured way but am also slightly worried about the lack of privacy in some ways and the potential impact it can on other aspects of your life. I believe you can pick and choose clients (if you have the option),as they can pick and choose providers. Beggars (just hope to have plenty of inquiry) shouldn't be choosers but I think it would be best to leave a session both feeling good about yourself, and your overall work, which should be based on the clients response after its over.  It seems some people take this more seriously? As this might be their livelihood, other people are just making a little money on the side, and then all the other reasons in-between. Personally, I couldn't sit around and think that by providing, I'm somehow helping better the current geopolitical state of the world or reversing the dementia progression in my clients, but that's just me. However, recently I've had experiences from different people where I was compensated for what I believe to be a quite decent amount for what I consider, "easy acts", i.e. mostly just laying back, letting them service me and sometimes being dominant as they requested. The opportunities were offered and I took them, would have I hooked up with these individuals without the prize, maybe one of them. How did I feel after? Fine! They seemed happy and I had something in my wallet. This was all done on apps versus more traditional provider websites. So yea... Good luck, you seem like a direct communicating doer-type, so just do it if it sits right with you, don't need to be all cerebral about it like myself. 😎

[+ Jamie21]

Good escorts / masseurs generally like giving. They are pleasers. If the client is happy then so are they.  The risk is they end up doing things they may regret or that they are not comfortable with doing just to please their client. 

Guys that are just foucused on their own satisfaction wouldn’t last long as a  provider. 
 

[jeezifonly]

Have you ever been a host or server in a  restaurant, or worked in the hospitality industry? An office go-fer? A barista or bartender? 

From a client’s POV, if you find being in a service profession to be beneath you, you’re in for a stellar career of one-timers. 😎 

[maninsoma]

On 7/18/2025 at 6:12 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

Work on (1) attracting men with your photographs, and (2) having a great personality that makes men want to hire you again.

 If you're having trouble doing this in your personal life at nearly age 50, then it's going to be that much more effort to train yourself to do it professionally: 

 

Thanks for referencing the previous thread started by hotsaw.  It's difficult to take him seriously in this thread given the previous one.

[+ RyanDean]

This guy on TikTok has offers LOTS of very specific & on-point advice.
Be sure to click the link in his profile.

[Aamir]

Wow i just fell down that guys tik tok hole. I was a provider in my 20's and have hired for over 20 years and have never before heard a guy explain escorting so professionally and thoughtfully.  It's so hot. I'm gonna see if there is a way to hire him. Thanks for linking his tiktok here.

[56harrisond]

8 minutes ago, Aamir said:

I'm gonna see if there is a way to hire him.

His links offer "private engagements"

https://beacons.ai/luxementor

 

[Aamir]

Ah yes thanks. I emailed and he shared a pdf with rates and further instruction.

[Pepper Young]

I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV.

While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. 

Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone.

Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth.

Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. 

Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan.

Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career. 

[hotsaw0666]

On 7/23/2025 at 1:35 PM, iocurus said:

Yea I've been thinking about starting in a more structured way but am also slightly worried about the lack of privacy in some ways and the potential impact it can on other aspects of your life. I believe you can pick and choose clients (if you have the option),as they can pick and choose providers. Beggars (just hope to have plenty of inquiry) shouldn't be choosers but I think it would be best to leave a session both feeling good about yourself, and your overall work, which should be based on the clients response after its over.  It seems some people take this more seriously? As this might be their livelihood, other people are just making a little money on the side, and then all the other reasons in-between. Personally, I couldn't sit around and think that by providing, I'm somehow helping better the current geopolitical state of the world or reversing the dementia progression in my clients, but that's just me. However, recently I've had experiences from different people where I was compensated for what I believe to be a quite decent amount for what I consider, "easy acts", i.e. mostly just laying back, letting them service me and sometimes being dominant as they requested. The opportunities were offered and I took them, would have I hooked up with these individuals without the prize, maybe one of them. How did I feel after? Fine! They seemed happy and I had something in my wallet. This was all done on apps versus more traditional provider websites. So yea... Good luck, you seem like a direct communicating doer-type, so just do it if it sits right with you, don't need to be all cerebral about it like myself. 😎

Thanks man! I needed that. Like you read my dirty little mind! Why shouldn't I be able to,should the opportunity present itself, slut my ass out?! I don't have to necessarily advertise persay,but putting the vibe on front street probably wouldn't hurt. I don't have to accept every opportunity,I can cherry pick. If the chance evades me,oh well. Deprivation makes my dick hard. Much appreciated 

[hotsaw0666]

On 7/29/2025 at 1:26 AM, 56harrisond said:

His links offer "private engagements"

https://beacons.ai/luxementor

 

Um right here. 

[+ purplekow]

Ok boys so here it is. I wanna fuck for money. Looking for any input that gives me a little more education and knowledge on the subject  thanks.  

 

I think that one thing to consider is that you will be dealing with men not boys.  Men of all shapes sizes and ages and for the most part, you will probably not find them physically attractive.  If your hope is to cherry pick the cream of the crop, you will be spending a lot of time picking out and very little time picking up.  

Another thing to consider is that for many of the men, there is a lot more than fucking involved.  You need excellent interactive skills.  You need to prompt and dependable.  You need to have patience with clients who are new to the game and know nothing.  (Similar to the situation you are in right now but on the other end.).  You will need to be able to tailor your performance to the wants and needs of the client.  Ultimately, the client is paying for your skill at satisfying him. You will need to understand that many of your clients do not care if you enjoy yourself or not, as long as they do.  So, the client comes first and you may not come at all.  

There will be time wasters, endless talkers and just about every variation of guys looking to get off without ever seeing you.  

This work is not easy.  Clients are not easy.  Putting yourself second is not easy, especially for guys who want to "fuck for money."  

However, if you are good and lucky, you will meet all kinds of men. Many of them intelligent and worldly and with more than a few bucks in the bank.  They may take you along to the interesting and exotic places they visit.  They may bring you to the nicest restaurants and cultural and sporting events.  All this can happen and has happened for some professional escorts who realize that escorting is a service profession and not just sexually servicing men for a few bucks.    

Edited Tuesday at 08:15 AM by purplekow