Worst experiences of 2024?

[+ JamesB]

I’d say my year was pretty uneventful. Aside from seeing my regulars, I tried several new providers and while I did not find a keeper I also didn’t have a shitty experience.

[soloyo215]

Nothing like I've read, I saw a masseur in Puerto Vallarta, and I had a great time with him, but when I returned he was all business, no extras. later in the year when I returned, he was no longer at the place where I met him.

The rest of the year was rather uneventful in that respect.

[Simon Suraci]

On 12/30/2024 at 7:16 AM, viewing ownly said:

That brat looks like a food replica of Reese Scott - nominated at the gay AVN's next month for best newcomer - at the age of 60! He's about the last guy on Earth to ever be in this thread, but here he is : https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/

 

ReeceScottx (also known locally as a masseur: Dann). He’s a sweetheart. Good guy, can’t recommend him highly enough for massage. His smile will melt you.

Re: his cock. Confirmed. He’s got one glorious member and generous with touch. Beautiful in person. He’s literally your gay porn massage fantasy come to life. Watch his various porn ranging from simple instagay collaborations on his bed to studio porn style Mormon boy scenes.

EDIT:

Dann came up in this thread so I mentioned him. He’s definitely in the opposite category of “worst” experiences of 2024, or any year. You can refer to other threads on him for positive comments. Back to your regularly scheduled programming…

Edited December 31, 2024 by Simon Suraci
Clarifying this comment is positive

[TorontoDrew]

I've had a couple providers cancel last minute (after I've started prepping) and another two just ignore my initial message so not too bad.  On the plus side I've turned a semi-regular to a regular and had good experiences with a couple new guys.

Now if I can find another top for a threeway with Nick, 2025 will be a great year.

[CuriousByNature]

Just as in every previous year, 2024 proved to be 365 days without any romantic/sexual encounters.   Actually, 366 days because of the leap year...

So still a virgin at 51. 

I suppose that's my worst (continuing) experience of 2024!  😆😆😆

Edited January 1 by CuriousByNature

[big-n-tall]

I didn't have any bad experiences this year. The worst thing to happen with a provider/masseur, or to be more exact without a provider/masseur, was they canceled at the last minute. This happened 4 times. Two with masseurs and 2 providers.

To counteract those non-encounters, the 4 new-to-me guys (3 providers, and 1 masseur) I've met this year have been outstanding. They will/are be repeat hires until they choose not to be in this hobby.

Edited January 1 by big-n-tall

[Cretus]

7 minutes ago, 123guy321 said:

I told one of my client buddies that I was interested in a new RM provider (till this day, the provider still doesn't have reviews). My buddy said he got a few current pictures of him and found him to be overweight. (However, I found his pictures to be chubby in a cute way. Also, I know how hard it is to stay thin, so I give these providers some benefit of the doubt.)

So I reached out to him. He tells me right off, "I'm $500, I only receive blowjobs, and you host. Now send me a picture."

I sent him a picture, and he replied, "We're cool. Let's aim for Thursday."

I replied that I would have to get a hotel room, and he said, "Fine."

Thursday rolled around, and I texted him, "Hello, are we still on?"

He asked, "Are you in your hotel room, and do you have the $500?"

"Yes to both," I said.

He said, "I've been swimming all day, I'm still only in my wet trunks, and I have to catch a plane in two hours."

"But you can swing by?" I asked.

He replied, "Yes, but send an extra $100 to my Cashapp right now, and I'll drop by."

I told him that I only send deposits to providers with reviews. 

"Then have a nice life," he said.

Was this $500 an hour?

[Yukon21]

Are we interested in the details of a specific meet up with a named escort?  I can provide details here if that is the intent of the OP.

[+ ApexNomad]

29 minutes ago, 123guy321 said:

I told one of my client buddies that I was interested in a new RM provider (till this day, the provider still doesn't have reviews). My buddy said he got a few current pictures of him and found him to be overweight. (However, I found his pictures to be chubby in a cute way. Also, I know how hard it is to stay thin, so I give these providers some benefit of the doubt.)

So I reached out to him. He tells me right off, "I'm $500, I only receive blowjobs, and you host. Now send me a picture."

I sent him a picture, and he replied, "We're cool. Let's aim for Thursday."

I replied that I would have to get a hotel room, and he said, "Fine."

Thursday rolled around, and I texted him, "Hello, are we still on?"

He asked, "Are you in your hotel room, and do you have the $500?"

"Yes to both," I said.

He said, "I've been swimming all day, I'm still only in my wet trunks, and I have to catch a plane in two hours."

"But you can swing by?" I asked.

He replied, "Yes, but send an extra $100 to my Cashapp right now, and I'll drop by."

I told him that I only send deposits to providers with reviews. 

"Then have a nice life," he said.

Sorry for your experience; there were so many red flags here. Your tolerance is much higher than mine.

[dcguy20]

No worst appointments this year. A couple of mediocre ones, and two cancelations after having confirmed.  One of my long-term providers left DC. 

[ShortCutie7]

Nothing bad- had two encounters… one very good, one great.  Had one cancellation that ended up being a relief (he canceled and then I ended up getting stuck at work, anyway) and one potential encounter the other day where the timing just didn’t work out (I do hope to meet both of these men soon).

[Callas]

6 hours ago, Yukon21 said:

Are we interested in the details of a specific meet up with a named escort?  I can provide details here if that is the intent of the OP.

Yes plz

[Callas]

7 hours ago, 123guy321 said:

I told one of my client buddies that I was interested in a new RM provider (till this day, the provider still doesn't have reviews). My buddy said he got a few current pictures of him and found him to be overweight. (However, I found his pictures to be chubby in a cute way. Also, I know how hard it is to stay thin, so I give these providers some benefit of the doubt.)

So I reached out to him. He tells me right off, "I'm $500, I only receive blowjobs, and you host. Now send me a picture."

I sent him a picture, and he replied, "We're cool. Let's aim for Thursday."

I replied that I would have to get a hotel room, and he said, "Fine."

Thursday rolled around, and I texted him, "Hello, are we still on?"

He asked, "Are you in your hotel room, and do you have the $500?"

"Yes to both," I said.

He said, "I've been swimming all day, I'm still only in my wet trunks, and I have to catch a plane in two hours."

"But you can swing by?" I asked.

He replied, "Yes, but send an extra $100 to my Cashapp right now, and I'll drop by."

I told him that I only send deposits to providers with reviews. 

"Then have a nice life," he said.

I would block him after the 1st message.

if he looked like young Henry Cavill, i would say goodbye after the flight ✈️ text.

can you please DM me this god/goddess’ profile? Im so curious ☺️

[Moke]

7 hours ago, 123guy321 said:

I told one of my client buddies that I was interested in a new RM provider (till this day, the provider still doesn't have reviews). My buddy said he got a few current pictures of him and found him to be overweight. (However, I found his pictures to be chubby in a cute way. Also, I know how hard it is to stay thin, so I give these providers some benefit of the doubt.)

So I reached out to him. He tells me right off, "I'm $500, I only receive blowjobs, and you host. Now send me a picture."

I sent him a picture, and he replied, "We're cool. Let's aim for Thursday."

I replied that I would have to get a hotel room, and he said, "Fine."

Thursday rolled around, and I texted him, "Hello, are we still on?"

He asked, "Are you in your hotel room, and do you have the $500?"

"Yes to both," I said.

He said, "I've been swimming all day, I'm still only in my wet trunks, and I have to catch a plane in two hours."

"But you can swing by?" I asked.

He replied, "Yes, but send an extra $100 to my Cashapp right now, and I'll drop by."

I told him that I only send deposits to providers with reviews. 

"Then have a nice life," he said.

I’m sorry..  why were you still talking to him after he, not an Adonis, quoted you 500 (??!) to merely blow him and demanded your pic?!?  

[Callas]

38 minutes ago, 123guy321 said:

Hey, Callas, I'll send now.

Hey, Moke. Yeah, I was foolish.  He was new, so I chalked it up to his inexperience.

At least it helped you avoid a potentially bad experience 🥂

[ICTJOCK]

Really no negative experiences beyond having clients cancel or reschedule.    I had one experience where the client was preoccupied with a personal issue.    These aren't "negative"  per se.    I always try and learn from any experience ,  positive or challenging.    Lets hope 2025  is a celebration of good vibes and interaction!

[+ Pensant]

14 hours ago, Cretus said:

However, I found his pictures to be chubby in a cute way.

Amazing self-confidence for a chubby boy, not to mention amazing arrogance and greediness!

[marylander1940]

On 12/30/2024 at 11:36 AM, ThroatCummer said:

These are all reasons why I won't see anyone with who doesn't have a 4.9 or 5.0 ratings and a minimum of at least 10-15 reviews and even need to see over 20. 

We can debate one off experiences all day and the effectiveness of ratings, but there is a reason why Uber, Amazon, and our entire culture these days is influenced by reviews and ratings because they don't lie. 

Those providers who have 50, 70, or even 100+ reviews and still maintain a perfect 5.0... do you know how hard that actually is to acheive? Those are the magical providers I will chase after every. single. time. 

Wonderful post! 

I will keep you in mind next time someone says RM reviews can't be trusted something that unfortunately, has been repeated over and over again on here!

[+ DrownedBoy]

I was catfished once while looking for new talent. Also had a regular get b!itchy and willful, so I "fired" him.

I have too few regulars and need to find more.

[marylander1940]

7 minutes ago, Pensant said:

Amazing self-confidence for a chubby boy, not to mention amazing arrogance and greediness!

They are the last to know they're chubby! Maybe he thinks he's average

[Thelatin]

I had started "dating" a regular last year.  By Jan of 2024 he had destroyed the business I helped him start, blamed it all on another guy who he was "in love with" - strangely by March that guy married a different person.  I then lent my X (or whatever he was) money to go to treatment, which he of coursed stiffed me for.  But luckily for me he wants to get back together. 

I feel I've grown as a person   

[marylander1940]

15 hours ago, 123guy321 said:

Yes, $500 an hour.

[Boaxxx]

On 1/1/2025 at 8:31 AM, Thelatin said:

I had started "dating" a regular last year.  By Jan of 2024 he had destroyed the business I helped him start, blamed it all on another guy who he was "in love with" - strangely by March that guy married a different person.  I then lent my X (or whatever he was) money to go to treatment, which he of coursed stiffed me for.  But luckily for me he wants to get back together. 

I feel I've grown as a person   

I'm a bit confused:  you lent him money to go to treatment, which he "of course" stiffed you, now he wants to get back with you and you consider yourself lucky?

You should accept the loss of money and walk away from him if you want to be lucky. Otherwise you are going to find yourself always cleaning up his messes at your expense.

[Thelatin]

17 hours ago, Boaxxx said:

you consider yourself lucky?

This was sarcasm of course.  I’ve moved on, it was honestly one of the worst experiences of my life.

[+ keroscenefire]

Mostly regulars so mostly good experiences. But some guys are really flaky. I had my eye on a guy from LA with great reviews on here. He finally made a visit to Denver apparently to visit Casa Bonita. We made specific plans to meet after his visit but apparently he got drunk and bloated and cancelled on me last minute. Casa Bonita was the red flag. No one leaves there feeling well.  Haha

Edited January 3 by keroscenefire