Worst experiences of 2024?

[+ ApexNomad]

45 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

Perhaps he slipped and fell on a pool ball.  Twice.

I hate when that happens.

[NYXboy]

Mine was hiring a guy who once I was inside his apartment realized he was high on drugs, waving his limp dick around babbling incoherently. I wanted to leave after 10 minutes and he demanded full payment, threatening me that I need to watch myself or I will 'get hurt'.

I posted on here about it and other members starting saying that we should show people with drug issues more compassion. 🙄

[Winterangel]

My two worst experiences ever were in 2024.

1) provider A - very sexy guy - just like photos - huge cock - very muscly - however crummy apartment and couldn’t speak any English. Became very aggressive with me, trying to communicate something I couldn’t understand. He started to fuck me hard and I asked him to stop as I wasn’t enjoying it. He became angrier and demanded I relax or something like that. At this point I felt very intimidated. He resumed fucking me and he came quickly (I didn’t). Suddenly after this he became very friendly and asked me to leave a review. I said I would later - I just wanted to leave - but he took my phone and asked me to log in. Again I felt intimated and agreed, thinking I would write something quickly. But he ripped my phone from me, left his own review and blocked me.  I could see the review later when not logged in (otherwise I can’t as I was blocked). Of course he gave himself 5 stars. I felt very shaken.  Not to be OTT but it really gave me a taste of why victims don’t report things.  I just wanted it to be over (note I can’t find his profile any more)

2) provider 2 - hot photos, lots of friendly communication. Arrived outside fleabag hotel  for first meet - he didn’t answer his phone for an entire hour as I waited out the front. I gave up. Later I received a string of super apologetic messages - again friendly - said he fell asleep. Okay shit happens and I forgave him. Arrived for second meeting - exact same thing again.  At this point let’s just say it - I’m an idiot. But driven by my dick, I arrived for a third meeting. This time I met him. Very, very sketchy - a pale shadow of his photos. I guess he was on ice or something. But I’m kinda stuck again so I stay.  He asks me for the money and tells me to shower. While I’m in the horrible shower he disappears - as in completely gone - takes his stuff with him.  It dawned on me later that a) it wasn’t his hotel room or b) he checked out while I was in the shower.

I felt so incredibly stupid. I quickly booked another provider and met him. I was shaking and nearly cried in the guys arms.

These were awful experiences. Other than that I’d say it’s a mix of mediocre with the occasional awesome experience!

[Venite]

2 hours ago, Winterangel said:

My two worst experiences ever were in 2024.

1) provider A - very sexy guy - just like photos - huge cock - very muscly - however crummy apartment and couldn’t speak any English. Became very aggressive with me, trying to communicate something I couldn’t understand. He started to fuck me hard and I asked him to stop as I wasn’t enjoying it. He became angrier and demanded I relax or something like that. At this point I felt very intimidated. He resumed fucking me and he came quickly (I didn’t). Suddenly after this he became very friendly and asked me to leave a review. I said I would later - I just wanted to leave - but he took my phone and asked me to log in. Again I felt intimated and agreed, thinking I would write something quickly. But he ripped my phone from me, left his own review and blocked me.  I could see the review later when not logged in (otherwise I can’t as I was blocked). Of course he gave himself 5 stars. I felt very shaken.  Not to be OTT but it really gave me a taste of why victims don’t report things.  I just wanted it to be over (note I can’t find his profile any more)

2) provider 2 - hot photos, lots of friendly communication. Arrived outside fleabag hotel  for first meet - he didn’t answer his phone for an entire hour as I waited out the front. I gave up. Later I received a string of super apologetic messages - again friendly - said he fell asleep. Okay shit happens and I forgave him. Arrived for second meeting - exact same thing again.  At this point let’s just say it - I’m an idiot. But driven by my dick, I arrived for a third meeting. This time I met him. Very, very sketchy - a pale shadow of his photos. I guess he was on ice or something. But I’m kinda stuck again so I stay.  He asks me for the money and tells me to shower. While I’m in the horrible shower he disappears - as in completely gone - takes his stuff with him.  It dawned on me later that a) it wasn’t his hotel room or b) he checked out while I was in the shower.

I felt so incredibly stupid. I quickly booked another provider and met him. I was shaking and nearly cried in the guys arms.

These were awful experiences. Other than that I’d say it’s a mix of mediocre with the occasional awesome experience!

How nasty. These folks should be named and steered clear from.

[Venite]

9 hours ago, Winterangel said:

My two worst experiences ever were in 2024.

1) provider A - very sexy guy - just like photos - huge cock - very muscly - however crummy apartment and couldn’t speak any English. Became very aggressive with me, trying to communicate something I couldn’t understand. He started to fuck me hard and I asked him to stop as I wasn’t enjoying it. He became angrier and demanded I relax or something like that. At this point I felt very intimidated. He resumed fucking me and he came quickly (I didn’t). Suddenly after this he became very friendly and asked me to leave a review. I said I would later - I just wanted to leave - but he took my phone and asked me to log in. Again I felt intimated and agreed, thinking I would write something quickly. But he ripped my phone from me, left his own review and blocked me.  I could see the review later when not logged in (otherwise I can’t as I was blocked). Of course he gave himself 5 stars. I felt very shaken.  Not to be OTT but it really gave me a taste of why victims don’t report things.  I just wanted it to be over (note I can’t find his profile any more)

2) provider 2 - hot photos, lots of friendly communication. Arrived outside fleabag hotel  for first meet - he didn’t answer his phone for an entire hour as I waited out the front. I gave up. Later I received a string of super apologetic messages - again friendly - said he fell asleep. Okay shit happens and I forgave him. Arrived for second meeting - exact same thing again.  At this point let’s just say it - I’m an idiot. But driven by my dick, I arrived for a third meeting. This time I met him. Very, very sketchy - a pale shadow of his photos. I guess he was on ice or something. But I’m kinda stuck again so I stay.  He asks me for the money and tells me to shower. While I’m in the horrible shower he disappears - as in completely gone - takes his stuff with him.  It dawned on me later that a) it wasn’t his hotel room or b) he checked out while I was in the shower.

I felt so incredibly stupid. I quickly booked another provider and met him. I was shaking and nearly cried in the guys arms.

These were awful experiences. Other than that I’d say it’s a mix of mediocre with the occasional awesome experience!

I’m very interested in knowing who these providers are. At least the last provider- who presumably doesn’t have your personal info.

If these allegations are real, then I highly support naming and shaming the provider(s).
 

Sometimes, this website is good for reputational burnings-at-the-stake , when they are warranted, that is.

[JMS]

I'm curious to know if these experiences have a common website where the massage providers are advertising.

[Monarchy79]

On 1/13/2025 at 9:11 AM, Brocklmt said:

As a provider going to another provider, for a erotic massage. I didn't tell him what I do for living. Only for him to message me after the massage saying that I was out to steal his clients. And then proceeded to report my profiles to scottsdale cybercrimes unit. So that was unhinged, I was like well you jest penetrated me on the table and now you want to report me because I do what you do. 

From a provider to a client the worst experience in 2024 was that a man came to me to get 2 pool ball 🎱  that where stuck in him for 3 day out of his is rectum. I'm massaged one out from his abdomen.  The whent in and grabbed the other only for him to deficate 3 day worth of wast all over my table.  he dint tip 😏. And he left the balls with me.   

YOU WIN!!!

 

…. And im done!!!! 😂😂😂😎

[Oakman]

On 1/14/2025 at 1:08 AM, Winterangel said:

These were awful experiences. Other than that I’d say it’s a mix of mediocre with the occasional awesome experience!

Do you vet your providers through their reviews or this forum before you meet with them?
 

I once had to end a meet up when the provider’s rough play started turning into assault. He was also aggressively persistent with me while I was trying to leave. We were evenly matched, physically, so I did not feel intimidated about standing up for myself. It was frightening nevertheless. Among the many lessons I learned in this instance was to always take my clothes and shoes off neatly so that I could get dressed in a hurry if I needed to. 

[+ ApexNomad]

47 minutes ago, Oakman said:

Do you vet your providers through their reviews or this forum before you meet with them?
 

I once had to end a meet up when the provider’s rough play started turning into assault. He was also aggressively persistent with me while I was trying to leave. We were evenly matched, physically, so I did not feel intimidated about standing up for myself. It was frightening nevertheless. Among the many lessons I learned in this instance was to always take my clothes and shoes off neatly so that I could get dressed in a hurry if I needed to. 

I’m really sorry you’ve been in those situations—I can’t imagine how frightening that must have been.

For me, I tend to hire providers who are bigger, taller, and more muscular, and with those who aren’t regulars, there’s definitely an intimidation factor. It takes several meetings before I feel fully comfortable. The reality is, especially at my age, I’m well aware that any of these providers could overpower me if they wanted to. I always meet at a hotel—neutral territory for both of us (though I’ve stayed at some so often that the staff knows me by first name). If I ever felt my physical safety was in jeopardy (fortunately that hasn’t happened), I’d end the session and still give them the full amount. No questions asked. For me, the money I bring into this is theirs no matter what—I already know that going in—it’s simply not worth the risk or potential conflict to do otherwise.

[desertguy1954]

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

[marylander1940]

On 1/13/2025 at 6:59 PM, NYXboy said:

Mine was hiring a guy who once I was inside his apartment realized he was high on drugs, waving his limp dick around babbling incoherently. I wanted to leave after 10 minutes and he demanded full payment, threatening me that I need to watch myself or I will 'get hurt'.

I posted on here about it and other members starting saying that we should show people with drug issues more compassion. 🙄

In a different thread plenty of members suggested the punishment for being a "degenerate" "drug addict" was being choked to death! They celebrated it!

I've been called an "apologist for escorts" but I will never excuse that kind of behavior and I guarantee you that escort won't last long in the business because he won't even be able to keep track of time and show up to an appointment among other things like a limp dick 

 

[Callas]

20 hours ago, desertguy1954 said:

I actually had two.  The first one, nice looking hairy chest, nice size cock.  I text him, gave him my age, ect and said that I was a btm.  So, set up meeting where he is staying, clothes come off and I start to suck on his cock, he cannot get hard or even semi hard.  The second one, nicely built very hairy guy.  Give him my stats age included.  Said that he liked older guys, that works for me.  Day of meeting, do all the work a btm needs to do and some more.  This guy had a very nice thick cock.  Well, that afternoon he texts about an hour before our time, needs to reschedule for later time, his friends want to see him before he leaves town tomorrow.  I told him forget it and did not hear back from him.  Lesson learned from this is the one fantastic escort I know locally for a long time so why try for someone else when you have a great guy locally

But keep seeing the same guy over and over again risks developing feelings

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, Callas said:

But keep seeing the same guy over and over again risks developing feelings

Not if you set boundaries and truly understand the terms of the relationship at all times. 

[desertguy1954]

2 hours ago, Callas said:

But keep seeing the same guy over and over again risks developing feelings

That can happen ,but for us it has just been about great sex and some nice cuddle.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, Callas said:

But keep seeing the same guy over and over again risks developing feelings

Really?  Most guys' feelings tend to become desensitized when doing something over and over. 😆 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

2 hours ago, Callas said:

But keep seeing the same guy over and over again risks developing feelings

On the contrary.   I have no intention of romantic involvement with the escorts I have been hiring regularly for 5-15 years.  Rather, I often "feel" infatuated with a new hire; but, those feelings usually subside after several meetings.  By then, the reality starts to show through the fantasy.

[viewing ownly]

On 1/14/2025 at 10:17 AM, Venite said:

I’m very interested in knowing who these providers are. At least the last provider- who presumably doesn’t have your personal info.

If these allegations are real, then I highly support naming and shaming the provider(s).
 

Sometimes, this website is good for reputational burnings-at-the-stake , when they are warranted, that is.

I wouldn't agree with this. When I called out someone by name many years ago, he on here became quite violent toward me, and nobody should be subjected to physical threats for describing a terrible experience - publicly, anyway.

[viewing ownly]

On 1/13/2025 at 3:41 PM, ApexNomad said:

I hate when that happens.

I just want to know if the last one out was the 8-ball to see if he won or not.

[NipLuvr212]

Maybe I just dodged some bullets, but...

my worst experience(s) have simply been hiring someone who is just totally forgettable.

i'd trade something exciting --in a good or bad way-- for that sometimes

[Lucius5]

I'm a bit late to this one. For a little context, I live in a rural part of Scotland and need to drive to the cities of Glasgow or Edinburgh (roughly 3hrs) for a semi-decent selection of providers and even then the choice is pretty thin! So the last time I'd hired was in November 2023 and I was due to go to a concert in Glasgow in October 2024. I noticed a really nice looking guy who would be visiting Edinburgh that week (roughly an hours drive away) with great reviews on Rentmen so I contacted him and arranged to meet the morning after the concert for a couple of hours. Now I'm not confident driving in either city centre so I was excited about my first meet in nearly a year but also a bit nervous. Turned out, the journey was pretty horrendous - got lost a couple of times following SatNav etc - but I arrived in Edinburgh, a bit stressed but roughly ten minutes before we were due to meet, five minutes walk from his Air BnB to find a message on my phone asking if we could cancel as he had a terrible headache! I'd missed the message because I was driving at the time. I just sat in the car for about five minutes laughing...then drove home 😀 

Of course I felt bad for the guy but it meant 2024 was a dry year for me! I hope to meet up with him some time yet but in the meantime I have a trip to London coming up in March so maybe I'll have better luck then 🤞

[Clt704guy]

This is exactly what Paul Thomas Anderson has needed to finish his screenplay for the sequel to Boogie Nights. 
 

 

On 12/30/2024 at 7:03 AM, Venite said:

 

What are your worst experiences with either providers or clients in 2024? Here’s mine.

Preface: Don’t laugh at me lol.😂 

I saw a new Latin provider in SF in June. He bottoms.
 

Instead of $350 (the rate he literally wrote to me and we agreed upon in RN chat) he demanded $400, claiming that was his rate. I told him he couldn’t engage in a service and then plan to charge a higher rate than the earlier agreed-upon rate. 
 

He then said ok and told me to stick my penis inside him again, because he “loved it”. Guys….. he then shat douche water all over me, on purpose. I should have known what he was up to when he was straining as if constipated. The poop was voluminous. He was laughing kind of maniacally too. I forced him out and blocked him on RM.

He’s changed his name so many times and seems to have deleted his RM profile. I don’t know if he’s still out there terrorizing clients with his diabolical butt.

 

Other worst experiences this year? With a client or provider.

 

[Nightowl]

I’d had a number of really good massages from other guys I found on RMass and decided to hire a guy I’d never gone to before for a 90-minute erotic.  After about 10 minutes it was obvious he didn’t know anything about massage but I figured, fuck it, let’s see where this goes.  I was a little optimistic because he was naked and had maneuvered his dick into my hand, and didn’t seem to mind where else my hand wandered.  After about 20 minutes he flipped me over and started working on my dick.  Since it was so early in the massage I didn’t want to let go yet but I couldn’t get him to slow it down.  He didn’t seem to understand why I would want to do that.  After a few failed attempts to calm things down my body took over and I couldn’t hold back.  There was still a lot of time left so he worked my legs for about 10 minutes, then started on my dick again.  Though I was hard there was no way anything was going to happen again so quickly.  I finally had to stop him and end the session.  Nice enough guy but he didn’t know what he was doing.  I noticed a few months later that he no longer advertises on RMass.  

[marylander1940]

 

I'm not sure if awful encounter happened in 2024 but certainly deserves to be on here because it's one of the worst hires (that don't include mugging or theft) ever told on here.

@afterfallhours1 thank you for sharing! 

3 minutes ago, afterfallhours1 said:

 

The other one isn’t really known but has some studio film scenes. His name is Notorious and it was with him friend. Waste of time and money. They didn’t do whatever I asked. They just laid on the bed and were scrolling on their phones as I was sucking their cock. One of them actually got up to shower after 20 mins. The only good part was when I was dressed to leave one of them demanded to suck there cock as they face fucked me for a few seconds. Just a horrible experience overall. 

 

 

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

 

I'm not sure if awful encounter happened in 2024 but certainly deserves to be on here because it's one of the worst hires (that don't include mugging or theft) ever told on here.

@afterfallhours1 thank you for sharing! 

 

If the experience was so disappointing, where they were disengaged, on their phones, and one even left to shower, why would the person still engage in a face fuck at the very end?

[marylander1940]

1 minute ago, ApexNomad said:

If the experience was so disappointing, where they were disengaged, on their phones, and one even left to shower, why would the person still engage in a face fuck at the very end?

don't ask me, I wasn't there.