What does “good boy” mean?

[+ PhileasFogg]

Yesterday, after a visit to my house, a guy offered to be my “good boy”  This provider is 30+ yrs younger than me and was very impressed with my house, art, cars, etc

I told him I didn’t know what that meant.   His response was , “you know, ‘good boy’” 🤔

So, not wanting to double down on my ignorance, I left it lingering there in the car.

so, end my ignorance please:

- is this a submission thing?

- is it an exclusive arrangement with me?

- is it a generational thing?

I’m so confused 😂

[KeepItReal]

Perhaps he meant he was willing to be your live in house boy. He gets to live with you, enjoy your quality of live, travel with you etc in return for always being available when you need a companion. 

[pubic_assistance]

1 hour ago, KeepItReal said:

Perhaps he meant he was willing to be your live in house boy. 

No.

It means he wants to be a kept boy.

He isn't doing your wash. 🤣

[soloyo215]

12 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Yesterday, after a visit to my house, a guy offered to be my “good boy”  This provider is 30+ yrs younger than me and was very impressed with my house, art, cars, etc

I told him I didn’t know what that meant.   His response was , “you know, ‘good boy’” 🤔

So, not wanting to double down on my ignorance, I left it lingering there in the car.

so, end my ignorance please:

- is this a submission thing?

- is it an exclusive arrangement with me?

- is it a generational thing?

I’m so confused 😂

Don't be harsh on yourself. It can mean all of the above or none of the above. There really isn't a specific definition to it. My best guess is that he might be telling you that he's willing to let you get your way with him. It can also mean that he wants to continue whatever type of arrangement or relationship you have where he will not be a burden to you,

It's not that deep. I've been told that and finidng out what that means in a more hands-on way has been part of the fun.

Edited August 30, 2024 by soloyo215

[+ ThroatCummer]

It means you have something he wants. 

Does he have something you want? 

Talk and figure out the answers to the questions above. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

 

Does he have something you want? 

 

Probably not.  Nice guy, pics didn’t match RM Profile and  gold digging turns me off completely.  

[+ KensingtonHomo]

8 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

Probably not.  Nice guy, pics didn’t match RM Profile and  gold digging turns me off completely.  

I almost admire the gall of someone who catfished you to try and flip it into something long term. We’re the pics of him but at a different age/fitness level or someone else? 

[marylander1940]

8 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

It means you have something he wants. 

Does he have something you want? 

Talk and figure out the answers to the questions above. 

In most cases youth, looks, and a nice body, personality doesn't hurt either...

I guess that's something we want but we can get it on an hourly basis instead of having to cohabitate, etc.

On 8/29/2024 at 8:42 PM, PhileasFogg said:

Yesterday, after a visit to my house, a guy offered to be my “good boy”  This provider is 30+ yrs younger than me and was very impressed with my house, art, cars, etc

I told him I didn’t know what that meant.   His response was , “you know, ‘good boy’” 🤔

So, not wanting to double down on my ignorance, I left it lingering there in the car.

so, end my ignorance please:

- is this a submission thing?

- is it an exclusive arrangement with me?

- is it a generational thing?

I’m so confused 😂

I guess he wants to enjoy your cars, house, and other things while providing you with sex and hopefully little drama although that usually happens in a kept boy/man - sugar daddy relationship.

[Lazarus]

If you really want “good boy” get a dog. Preferably a rescue. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

6 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I almost admire the gall of someone who catfished you to try and flip it into something long term. We’re the pics of him but at a different age/fitness level or someone else? 

I don’t want to imply “catfished.”   He’s clearly not as lean and toned as his pictures (not unusual in my limited experience) He was otherwise very sincere and honest.  I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t see the difference between “now” and “then” appearance.  

 

3 hours ago, Lazarus said:

If you really want “good boy” get a dog. Preferably a rescue. 

Haha. No!   I prefer boys who can take care of themselves when I travel 

 

[marylander1940]

12 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Probably not.  Nice guy, pics didn’t match RM Profile and  gold digging turns me off completely.  

 

Next time if he doesn't match his pictures just walk away or slam the door n his face. They have to learn to use their own pictures!

11 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I almost admire the gall of someone who catfished you to try and flip it into something long term. We’re the pics of him but at a different age/fitness level or someone else? 

Chutzpa!

[+ DrownedBoy]

For all anyone knows, this kid could just be asking to get hired by the OP more often.

[+ Charlie]

Pull out a collar and a leash, and if he wags his tail, you will know what he means.

[MscleLovr]

33 minutes ago, Charlie said:

Pull out a collar and a leash, and if he wags his tail, you will know what he means.

Yes indeed.
 

To answer the OP…In my direct experience, whenever a muscleboy used the term, it meant that he had a submissive streak and enjoyed taking a subservient role. I generally thought being a ‘good boy’ meant that a young man was eager to  please an older man.
 

As an aside, I always murmur those exact words in post-coital bliss when I would caress the head of the young man who had just swallowed my load.