Providers blocking clients

[maninsoma]

1 hour ago, Hot4latin said:

I think some providers assume multiple photo views indicates someone is getting off looking at their photos (instead of paying the provider to get off in-person). For me, repeat views is an indicator of my bad memory. 

I get it, but there are hundreds of thousands (or more, probably) of photos and videos online that can serve as jerk off material.  Is the provider really so petty as to not want to allow someone to jerk off looking at his photos?  It just seems so silly to me. since it isn't like the blocking will result in the person hiring them instead of looking at their photos.  If anything, it makes an eventual booking much less likely.  Maybe if the client rubs one out looking at a provider's photos he'll eventually decide he just has to meet the guy behind the photos.

[Hot4latin]

1 hour ago, maninsoma said:

Is the provider really so petty as to not want to allow someone to jerk off looking at his photos? 

Yes 

[+ José Soplanucas]

2 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

Yes 

Edited July 10, 2024 by José Soplanucas

[Hesolucky]

As a provider, I rarely block but when I do it’s because you are not a repeat ckient and have tried to continuously sext me beyond telling me your fantasy and what service you would like and what I feel is appropriate before even booking an appointment. 

Usually these people do it multiple times, thinking you won’t remember them. Reaching out multiple times to request rates and never booking. 

 

[+ JamesB]

Some providers will block you after a poor session or performance to prevent you from posting a negative review.

[arjoness06]

1 minute ago, JamesB said:

Some providers will block you after a poor session or performance to prevent you from posting a negative review.

We didn’t even have a session. He blocked me shortly after initially contacting him. Now I’m pretty sure I know why, but thanks anyway

[Massageguy99]

13 hours ago, Hot4latin said:

I think some providers assume multiple photo views indicates someone is getting off looking at their photos (instead of paying the provider to get off in-person). For me, repeat views is an indicator of my bad memory. 

This is me. I have checked out guys multiple times because I absolutely do not remember what they looked like. 

I finally have started blocking providers whom I am not attracted to so I don't keep clicking on them. 

I did have one block me on the same day I viewed his pics. Literally I looked at his pics and planned to reach out when I got home. 

Went in to look again and he had blocked me. I never spoke to him or gave him any details and I assume me looking at his pics and not immediately reaching out bothered him. 

Funny I later text him because I could see that from a 2nd profile I had and immediately realized we were not a good fit. Guess he did me a favor by blocking me. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

19 hours ago, JamesB said:

Some providers will block you after a poor session or performance to prevent you from posting a negative review.

Yeah, that happened to me. Apparently he was self conscious about his body. Too bad - I was going to give him 5 stars and book him again.

[arjoness06]

On 7/10/2024 at 9:03 PM, Massageguy99 said:

This is me. I have checked out guys multiple times because I absolutely do not remember what they looked like. 

I finally have started blocking providers whom I am not attracted to so I don't keep clicking on them. 

I did have one block me on the same day I viewed his pics. Literally I looked at his pics and planned to reach out when I got home. 

Went in to look again and he had blocked me. I never spoke to him or gave him any details and I assume me looking at his pics and not immediately reaching out bothered him. 

Funny I later text him because I could see that from a 2nd profile I had and immediately realized we were not a good fit. Guess he did me a favor by blocking me. 

I found out in this thread that there’s a way to change your settings so providers can’t see when you looked at their profile. But doesn’t look like that would’ve made a difference in the specific scenario you mentioned.

[Trick]

On 7/9/2024 at 7:02 PM, Trick said:

Some providers have blocked me even before I initiated contact.

This is one provider that blocked me for no reason.

https://rentmen.eu/XLTomXL

 

[JTtorretto]

On 7/9/2024 at 6:04 PM, DrownedBoy said:

The only providers who blocked me were little girls who freaked out when I described what I wanted them to do. Which has only happened 5 times over a decade of hiring. 

“little girls” ?  Id instead consider these 5 gentlemen to be shrewd business minded people who knew instantly that it was not a good fit for them and subsequently blocked you to avoid wasting any time moving forward either for you or them.  Thats just smart. 
 

I also block (prior to any contact made) based on client profile names alone.   If someone is LUVgirlieBoiis or PWRcocoBTM etc these are descriptive enough that I know its not a match and thus block.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I hired in the US for about 10 years, between 2010 and 2020. In those years I have never been blocked by a provider, or at least I did not notice. 

I doubt a sex worker would block a potencial client for no reason. If you were blocked, instead of whining, perhaps you should double check your practices and your attitude towards escorts. 

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/10/2024 at 11:24 AM, Sub boy said:

opening up a conversation with a rate inquiry is tacky and immediately makes you sound poor.

Ridiculous.

It's commerce, not a date.

Why would it be tacky to ask someone who's selling tomatoes 🍅 -  "how much are your tomatoes?"

Sure say hello. Say why you were drawn to that particular tomato stand or how wonderful their tomatoes look. But the second or third sentence is: "HOW MUCH ?"

Escorts hate when you get too chatty. There's also ZERO reason to discuss a lot before inquiring as to whether your choice of provider is in your budget.

[pubic_assistance]

On 7/9/2024 at 2:26 PM, arjoness06 said:

reached out to this provider and he immediately blocked me

He's "discreet and respectful"...so perhaps your opening line didn't fit his standards.

[Sub boy]

54 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Ridiculous.

It's commerce, not a date.

Why would it be tacky to ask someone who's selling tomatoes 🍅 -  "how much are your tomatoes?"

Sure say hello. Say why you were drawn to that particular tomato stand or how wonderful their tomatoes look. But the second or third sentence is: "HOW MUCH ?"

Escorts hate when you get too chatty. There's also ZERO reason to discuss a lot before inquiring as to whether your choice of provider is in your budget.

Terrible example. Tomatoes aren’t luxury commodities where the saying “If you have to ask you can’t afford it” applies. And for clients like myself, it’s not just commerce when you’re dealing with HUMAN BEINGS. And from what the original poster said, he didn’t include a basic greeting or any sort of introduction like you mentioned, which further proves my point. And of course you shouldn’t get too chatty, but a wealthy client will briefly discuss other compatibility things FIRST because they already know budget is not an issue.
 

I’m telling you what the LUXURY escorts that I hire have told me. There’s no way you have hired the top-quality escorts that I have hired if you opened the conversation with “What’s your rate?”

[pubic_assistance]

I work in a luxury industry with very  wealthy people.

The first thing they ask after you show them something they want is - HOW MUCH ?

One of my clients is a high end private jeweler. He shows a customer a piece of jewelry, describes it's provenance, and construction and the client asks HOW MUCH ?

You're not living in rhe real world if you think asking the price is "tacky".

The only time wealthy people don't ask is when they know the price is so inconsequential that they don't need to ask. (How much more is the burger if I get it with cheese )?

Edited July 20, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[Sub boy]

34 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I work in a luxury industry with very  wealthy people.

The first thing they ask after you show them something they want is - HOW MUCH ?

One of my clients is a high end private jeweler. He shows a customer a piece of jewelry, describes it's provenance, and construction and the client asks HOW MUCH ?

You're not living in rhe real world if you think asking the price is "tacky".

The only time wealthy people don't ask is when they know the price is so inconsequential that they don't need to ask. (How much more is the burger if I get it with cheese )?

It is tacky when “Rate?” is the first thing you ask without even an introduction or a brief discussion of what you want. The LUXURY escorts I hire said it was tacky. Their words not mine. It’s clear the quality I hire is different from the quality you hire. But to each his own. 

 

 

[JTtorretto]

3 minutes ago, Sub boy said:

It is tacky when “Rate?” is the first thing you ask without even an introduction or a brief discussion of what you want. The LUXURY escorts I hire said it was tacky. Their words not mine. It’s clear the quality I hire is different from the quality you hire. But to each his own. 

 

 

His profile name is public assistance 

 

😭

[pubic_assistance]

Just now, Sub boy said:

It is tacky when “Rate?” is the first thing you ask without even an introduction or a brief discussion of what you want. The LUXURY escorts I hire said it was tacky. Their words not mine. It’s clear the quality I hire is different from the quality you hire. But to each his own. 

I will grant you that. If it's the first (or only) sentence then yes. Tacky. A brief introduction is mandatory.

Beyond that, I find your "luxury" escort's attitude pretentious and reeking of insecurity. So hardly an opinion I would value. My experiences are with people who actually HAVE money. Serious money.

 

[pubic_assistance]

10 minutes ago, JTtorretto said:

His profile name is public assistance 

 

😭

Actually it's not.

Read again.

[Sub boy]

1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said:

I will grant you that. If it's the first (or only) sentence then yes. Tacky. A brief introduction is mandatory.

Exactly. That’s what I’ve been saying from the beginning.

The rest of your comment is irrelevant. Couldn’t care less about what you think about me. 

[+ José Soplanucas]

LOL. Do you guys think wealthy people do not have tacky members in their club? Do you think a hjgh end escort cares about his clients being tacky or not? 

[Sub boy]

Just now, José Soplanucas said:

LOL. Do you guys think wealthy people do not have tacky members in their club? Do you think a hjgh end escort cares about his clients being tacky or not? 

The high-end escorts who block do. Which is what this thread is about…

[Boaxxx]

I was blocked for leaving an honest, not personal attacks, three-star review. I think I've also been blocked for looking at a profile too many times. Hey, I'm a paying member and I like to look 👀 that's why I'm paying. Oh well. 🤷

[wanderlust307]

The problem is not when you ask but when he asks "how much I am worth?" 🤣