Showering with the masseur

[Jasonmathison]

There was a thread back in the peak Covid era that’s since been closed for posting so I thought I’d start another.  I love the idea of showering with the masseur, but have never done it.  Anyone have a recent experience…especially in NYC?

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I just did this for the first time with a provider I see pretty regularly. It was post-massage and his suggestion. It wasn't super involved but we did wash each other, which was nice. 

[jeezifonly]

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

[Thelatin]

One of my massage therapists loves to shower at length with me.  I also love getting boinked in the shower.

[56harrisond]

Original thread:

 

[pubic_assistance]

It's more common in Thailand for the masseur to scrub you down in the shower before a session.  So my advice is to search for a Thai masseur.

I've had several over the years here in NYC and a shower together  was always part of the session.

Unfortunately they all went back to Thailand during/after Covid so I have no one specific to recommend right now.

[Monarchy79]

I think this is a great concept. 
I had about two masseurs shower with me afterwards and they used body scrub too. 
 

Great experience. 

[streetfan14]

Marc Dylan does this with his clients, he scrubs you from head to toe even does a scalp massage when he shampoos you.

[Harryinny]

Had an amazing post-massage + shower with a masseur but it was in Madrid 🤪

Edited May 9 by Harryinny

[TravelingLibra]

I find that showering together before or after the session is often a possibility once you become more of a regular with providers who already offer showers to their clients. Usually after 2 or 3 appointments I can get them to shower with me and various levels of play ensues depending on the provider. More often than not, they are glad to rinse off too. Happens less if you are already out of time on the appointment, which is a reason I tip well and sometimes book a 60 min massage but pay for 90 to accommodate the shower, so the time element becomes less of a factor. 

Edited May 9 by TravelingLibra

[soloyo215]

1 hour ago, TravelingLibra said:

I find that showering together before or after the session is often a possibility once you become more of a regular with providers who already offer showers to their clients. Usually after 2 or 3 appointments I can get them to shower with me and various levels of play ensues depending on the provider. More often than not, they are glad to rinse off too. Happens less if you are already out of time on the appointment, which is a reason I tip well and sometimes book a 60 min massage but pay for 90 to accommodate the shower, so the time element becomes less of a factor. 

Never done it and never occured to me, but great idea. I've had a vichy shower and body scrub, but never showered with the masseur.

Love the idea. I always schedule a 90-minute massage, mostly because I take some time to shut down my mind and really relax, but  using some of the time for showering sounds really good.

Thanks for the idea.

Edited May 9 by soloyo215

[BuffaloKyle]

14 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

It's more common in Thailand for the masseur to scrub you down in the shower before a session.  So my advice is to search for a Thai masseur.

I've had several over the years here in NYC and a shower together  was always part of the session.

@Simon Suraci has a body scrub option available in his service offerings. Wrong coast though, he's in Cali.

Edited May 9 by BuffaloKyle

[Wolfer]

I've never showered together with a masseur (never found one who offered) but I have absolutely fallen in love with the table showers certain gay spas offer in NYC. I wish it existed where I live. It's done before the massave and deeply relaxing. I really miss it. 

[Simon Suraci]

Thanks for the mention, @BuffaloKyle. Yup, sorry west coast here. I’ll make it to NY state on the road again, possibly NYC. I have a growing interest list for NYC. Anyone here with an interest, PM me to get on that list, if you have not already.

Yes, I offer body scrub services. It takes about 25-30 mins and I am very thorough. No part of you goes untouched. I reach around your back like a big firm hug to scrub and wash your torso. My clients really enjoy the full body-to-body contact. More close and intimate than your typical Turkish, Thai, or Korean scrubs. It depends on the client and what they seem comfortable with, but sometimes I will kiss his neck or nuzzle his shoulders. I can’t imagine someone like@pubic_assistance being into that, but to each his own. Maybe no body to body touch at all. I read your body language and go from there.

Mutual touch and play is very much welcome, although it’s not the focus of a body scrub. Remember I am using an exfoliant, so you don’t want that getting directly in or around your sensitive bits with any friction. There’s plenty of opportunity for touch before the scrubbing and after the rinse and body wash cycles. Many a client member becomes erect, perhaps again after climaxing during the massage. Some do not at all and that’s fine.

It’s great for your skin and very relaxing - well worth the cost apart from anything erotic or sensual going on. Most clients are so zenned out and extremely relaxed at this point after a massage that it’s not really the vibe to make a hardcore shower play session happen. Keep in mind you’re not paying an appropriate fee for that either, unless you work something out ahead of time. Typically it’s more sensual and relaxing. It’s comforting having a naked man with no inhibitions take care of you from head to toe. You don’t even need to towel yourself off. All you do is stand there in total bliss.

@Wolfer@soloyo215There is space in my shower in San Diego for a body length teak table to give Vichy showers. I am considering offering those in the future. I vacillate between the perks of either a) greater contact standing up, or b) a more relaxing horizontal position for the client. I suppose I could offer both.

@streetfan14 I’ve been wanting to try Marc Dylan for a while now. Even more reason to see him! Sounds great.

@KensingtonHomo your experience is more realistic. There usually isn’t enough time to have a long (free) shower session with a client after a massage. A 5 min or so shower to lather up and rinse off with a short bit of (optional) sensual touching is sufficient. I do this upon request. If a mutual shower is important to anyone here, be sure to request it but please don’t outstay your welcome. Your masseur may have someone booked after you and he can’t spend 30 mins in the shower with you when he really needs to spend that time changing the linens for the next client, responding to inquiries, grabbing a quick bite, or what have you.

Unfortunately clients try to extract more time without paying, basically trying to get the scrub for free, and/or some sex for free. @TravelingLibra has a reasonable attitude by booking the time to include the shower. Not everyone explicitly offers the shower service like I do, but I am sure many would be willing. A few clients hire me just for the scrub! Best to communicate your desires and expectations so your masseur can meet your needs. 

@Thelatin good for you if you’re paying for a massage and getting shower sex for free. Maybe that’s not what you meant, but I just want to bring up the point anyhow. It’s a different story when you’re paying for escort service. I often shower with my clients after sexual play, or as part of the main event. I at least offer a shower. We can continue play in the shower or simply have a relaxing unrushed time together getting cleaned up and continuing our touch, conversation, and connection. I like these. It’s generally built into the time the client is hiring, but not always. If I have time to go over, I do. I offer combo spa/escort sessions as well, so our time together can be more fluid, and go with the flow between all the activities.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've done it twice that I can think of.  Once a masseur walked to my hotel in the summer and said he'd like to shower before we started, I offered to join him and some playful fondling while we showered.  The other offered some sort of scrub in the shower, which felt great, especially when he finished rinsing me off and started sucking my cock. 

[Jamie21]

If it’s an out call to his hotel I’m very happy to include a shower or bath together. It’s a great way to begin or end a session. 

[+ poolboy48220]

One more - I was in Charlotte in 2010 & set up an appointment with Devon Hunter, I got a room with a jacuzzi.  Unfortunately I filled the jacuzzi with way too hot water - he couldn't take more than a few minutes in it. 

[Yukon21]

Ive showered with several over the past few years. Some on the suggestion of the escort, others mine.  Depending on the connection between the parties it can be an added plus to the experience. 

[Ajac]

There Was a guy in the valley (SoCal) who had a kind of spa option after the massage he would do a shower treatment which included great smelling lotions and further massage of arms and scalp. His name was Carter. Not sure where he ended up. One awkward thing was on the way out I Was introduced to his Mom. I would go to him again in a heartbeat. during the shower I kind of felt like a Roman emperor. Such a great memory.

[+ DrownedBoy]

5 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

One more - I was in Charlotte in 2010 & set up an appointment with Devon Hunter, I got a room with a jacuzzi.  Unfortunately I filled the jacuzzi with way too hot water - he couldn't take more than a few minutes in it. 

I did the same with 2 different providers.

Both had to get out after a few minutes....and so did I!