newdad Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Basically, you only hire if they're at a specific age or below. (For Leo, he would only date women 25 years old or younger only). Reverse Leo would be a specific age or older only. marylander1940 and + KensingtonHomo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) I would say I’m a "reverse Leo". I’m not looking to teach anyone how to have great sex. I want a man who knows what he’s doing and generally that doesn’t happen until after 30 years old. Edited December 30, 2023 by nycman la_connor, Medin, soloyo215 and 7 others 3 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Me, too; I don’t really consider providers younger than 28. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 The issue I have with the 28+ age is I end up becoming friends with them, offering advice etc. Half of my WhatsApp messages are from former dates just wanting to chat. I enjoy the conversations I guess, but sometimes I just want a hook up. newdad, soloyo215, + Pensant and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I don't normally consider age first, but I find I click best with providers over 30. + Just Sayin, soloyo215, Dolman and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 8 minutes ago, Thelatin said: The issue I have with the 28+ age is I end up becoming friends with them, offering advice etc. Half of my WhatsApp messages are from former dates just wanting to chat. I enjoy the conversations I guess, but sometimes I just want a hook up. dates or hires? 5 hours ago, newdad said: Basically, you only hire if they're at a specific age or below. (For Leo, he would only date women 25 years old or younger only). Reverse Leo would be a specific age or older only. Taking this slightly off subject... with all the flakiness on Grindr young guys are starting to realize is easier to hire than to spend 4 hours getting ghosted. Many escorts are telling me they've seen an increase on young guys hiring. + Just Sayin, newdad, soloyo215 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 6 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: dates or hires? Hires. marylander1940 and soloyo215 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 5 minutes ago, Thelatin said: Hires. Got it! soloyo215 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, Km411 said: Me, too; I don’t really consider providers younger than 28. I know an escort who is secretly 49 and looks about 10 years younger. He told me: "the 2 good things of aging are money, and fucking someone who could be your son, as you age guys keep getting younger". 😍 Edited December 30, 2023 by marylander1940 + Vegas_Millennial, spidir, BonVivant and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Honestly, I also worry about the emotional maturity and professionalism of young providers; I need to know my provider has made an informed commitment to the work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 2 hours ago, Km411 said: Me, too; I don’t really consider providers younger than 28. But half of the providers who post they are under 28 are actually over 28! newdad, Ali Gator, + mature_guy and 3 others 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ali Gator Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 4 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: But half of the providers who post they are under 28 are actually over 28! That's what I was going to say. The magic age number seems to be '28' for escorts - everyone is '28' for as long as they can get away with it (which means until they hit 40). There is an escort who is from my area (but travels everywhere most of the time) who lists himself as 35 years old (he updated that a few years ago, before that he was 28 for many years). I know his on/off girlfriend 'tangentially' through other friends. She's been throwing him his 50th birthday party which happens in a few weeks. newdad, soloyo215 and + Pensant 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 29 minutes ago, Km411 said: Honestly, I also worry about the emotional maturity and professionalism of young providers; I need to know my provider has made an informed commitment to the work. I’m actually getting to be the opposite. I worry that the older ones look at me as a way out of the profession, which I’ve helped with in the past. But that ends up being quite a commitment of time, effort, energy, money. I’m thrilled to have helped. But sometimes I just want to chill. newdad and + Just Sayin 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) 6 hours ago, newdad said: Basically, you only hire if they're at a specific age or below. (For Leo, he would only date women 25 years old or younger only). Reverse Leo would be a specific age or older only. If you asked me before my recent trip to PV, I'd say I do Reverse Leo. However, I selectively got young providers, some of which were great. In my experience, even when I was in my 20s, young guys tended to be "too mcuh enthusiasm, too little essence". However, I remember me not considering myself to be like that, so I figured that there are some young guys who know how to have sex like a more mature guy (and yes, there is a difference), and conduct themselves as such. The opposite is true too. I've had one or two terrible experiences with Reverse Leo guys, so I finally concluded that though age is a factor to consider, the risk of having a bad experience exists in the entire spectrum. At a romantic level, most of my relationships were with people around my same age, with the exception of one, that was with a much older guy (and it was a terrible relationship, but for reasons other than age difference). My husband is nine years older than me, but I believe that from certain age that doesn't make a lot of difference anymore. I am fairly new to this scene, so I started hiring Reverse Leo people, but I have been open to the idea of Leo people. In all honesty, there are certain things about the younger generation that I find off-putting, and that's the main reason why I have avoided hiring Leo people. That changed a few weeks ago in my recent vacation, and I had a great time. I guess what I'm saying is that I've grown to be more accepting of a larger age range. 2 hours ago, Thelatin said: The issue I have with the 28+ age is I end up becoming friends with them, offering advice etc. Half of my WhatsApp messages are from former dates just wanting to chat. I enjoy the conversations I guess, but sometimes I just want a hook up. For me, that happens anyway with people of all ages. I don't know what is it about me, but people just tell me things about them. It's always been like that with me. I have shared in this forum that some providers have disclosed all kinds of rather very personal information to me (i.e., psychiatric medications they take, medical issues they have, childhood traumas, plastic surgery done, having a criminal record, to name a few), most of them in my first (or only) visit. Not sure why, but I just listen, and I get what I hired the guy for anyway, so not a problem to me. Edited December 30, 2023 by soloyo215 + Just Sayin, + Pensant, liubit and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) 36 minutes ago, Thelatin said: I’m actually getting to be the opposite. I worry that the older ones look at me as a way out of the profession, which I’ve helped with in the past. But that ends up being quite a commitment of time, effort, energy, money. I’m thrilled to have helped. But sometimes I just want to chill. They might think of you as a potential sugar daddy or husband? Most guys simply hope new clients would become regular/repeat clients. Edited December 30, 2023 by marylander1940 soloyo215, BonVivant and newdad 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 Like others, I don't appreciate the attitude or lack of professionalism with many younger providers, especially traveling ones. 3 times out of 4 in 2023, when I tried a young new provider, they'd flake without warning. I don't have much free time with work, so that screws up my schedule. On Grindr my bottom filter is on 35. It's a cultural thing more than an age thing. + KensingtonHomo, marylander1940, newdad and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decatur Guy Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 (edited) Age isn't a big consideration for me -- minus I generally prefer someone in his mid 20s or older. I have made exceptions for guys say 25 to 21. I will not knowingly hire anyone 20 or younger. But an "ideal" age range to me would be early 30s to late 40s. And I would hire someone older than that and have. But the 30s to 40s turn my crank the most -- and that was true in my own teens and 20s up to today. Edited December 30, 2023 by Decatur Guy marylander1940, newdad, + glennnnn and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I'm kinda a Dicaprio I guess 😳 Thelatin, Act25 and newdad 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Kman Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I would say I’m a reverse Leo…I think I have only hired 3 men masseur or escort in their 20s…two mediocre experiences and the other was pretty fun. newdad 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 I hire 30 plus with lean bodies, pretty faces, and kind eyes. + DrownedBoy, + Mrprofessional and newdad 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted December 30, 2023 Share Posted December 30, 2023 32 - 45 is the sweet spot. I like men. subject to change tho because I don’t really sort by age - the young ones usually fall out for some other reason + DrownedBoy and newdad 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 16 hours ago, newdad said: you only hire if they're at a specific age or below. My "search" filters are always set to 30 or less for escort. 35 or less for masseur. newdad, MikeBiDude and Act25 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonVivant Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 There is no right answer; it’s different for everyone. As I age I’ve found I want to experience a wider variety. I’m appreciating the 27-35 range more cause they know what they are doing and they are still hot as fcuk. MikeBiDude and liubit 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 (edited) I used to be a total, uncompromising, unwavering Leo, but I have become more flexible especially when it comes to non-commercial plain old hookups. However, when hiring, my preferred age bracket still remains 19-25. Of course, I don’t card them, they just need to look the part. No complaints: I like their stamina, which brings youth to my old age. 😂😂😂 Edited December 31, 2023 by liubit TorontoDrew, BonVivant, MikeBiDude and 3 others 3 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted December 31, 2023 Share Posted December 31, 2023 On 12/30/2023 at 7:14 AM, soloyo215 said: I don't know what is it about me, but people just tell me things about them. It's always been like that with me. I have shared in this forum that some providers have disclosed all kinds of rather very personal information to me (i.e., psychiatric medications they take, medical issues they have, childhood traumas, plastic surgery done, having a criminal record, to name a few), most of them in my first (or only) visit. The same frequently occurs with me. I recently was seeing one who, sadly, has mental issues. His sibling texts me to ask if I’ve heard from him. MikeBiDude, newdad and soloyo215 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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