how to get a gym instructor

[young11]

So I see some hot gym instructors at my gym and I know they make so little and could use some extra cash but some of them wouldn't entertain the idea at all so not sure about how to approach them. Any experience?

[+ azdr0710]

aw, c,mon!.......are you really looking for gym instruction??!

 

[maninsoma]

I assume your question is how to ask a trainer you see at the gym if he will accept money from you for escort services?

I cannot think of a way to ask that directly without risking negative consequences.  Even if the gym you work out at is largely gay, not everyone is going to appreciate receiving such an offer and some might get bent out of shape enough to complain about you to their manager. 

[Rudynate]

I put it out of my mind.  Of course gyms are full of sexy trainers, and we know that some sexy trainers provide other services.  I've never wanted one bad enough to risk alienating them.  I would say that somebody you are that interested in, you should get to know first.  After you have been around them a little, you might have a better idea of whether they would be receptive.  I once had a trainer who was over-the-top sexy.  I never doubted that he was straight, but we became comfortable enough with each other so that we touched a lot -hand on the shoulder-type stuff, etc.  I really enjoyed that small degree of physical closeness.

[Rudynate]

2 hours ago, young11 said:

So I see some hot gym instructors at my gym and I know they make so little and could use some extra cash but some of them wouldn't entertain the idea at all so not sure about how to approach them. Any experience?

Probably not a good idea to assume that they don't make any money.  True, the ones working in big-box gyms don't get paid very much - it's the entry level in the fitness world --but some self-employed trainers with reputations are pulling down 6 figures.

[+ Coolwave35]

Leave a note on his car windshield. 
 

something along the lines of 

“I’m an admirer of your physical beauty. I’m a gay man that likes to reward attractive people with cash. If you’re open to that, or for more details, shoot me a text.” 

[+ 7829V]

1 hour ago, Coolwave35 said:

Leave a note on his car windshield. 
 

something along the lines of 

“I’m an admirer of your physical beauty. I’m a gay man that likes to reward attractive people with cash. If you’re open to that, or for more details, shoot me a text.” 

If I see that note, I could think it is a trap. And wouldn’t call. But that’s just me. Maybe I overthink it. 

[+ 7829V]

2 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I put it out of my mind.  Of course gyms are full of sexy trainers, and we know that some sexy trainers provide other services.  I've never wanted one bad enough to risk alienating them.  I would say that somebody you are that interested in, you should get to know first.  After you have been around them a little, you might have a better idea of whether they would be receptive.  I once had a trainer who was over-the-top sexy.  I never doubted that he was straight, but we became comfortable enough with each other so that we touched a lot -hand on the shoulder-type stuff, etc.  I really enjoyed that small degree of physical closeness.

My personal trainer hugs me everyday. Twice. And he touches my ass, legs, back to feel the muscles that I should focus when doing the movements. During squats he positions behind me… he’s very handsome and a great ass. But he has a girlfriend that is also a trainer. Some say the gf might be trans. I don’t know. But I love my trainer. His hourly fee is 75 / hr I believe. 

Edited November 2, 2022 by 7829V

[prof]

34 minutes ago, 7829V said:

If I see that note, I could think it is a trap. And wouldn’t call. But that’s just me. Maybe I overthink it. 

I agree. I would find it odd, intrusive, maybe even creepy. Out of the blue someone says I am attractive, then offers to monetize my looks or whatever?? 

[BonVivant]

Just a bad idea… 

[Luv2play]

I agree with those that say keep the sexual stuff out of the equation with your trainer. Over the years I had 3 or 4 trainers when I was doing a training program at various gyms I belonged to, some of which had a heavy gay membership. I never made a pass at my trainers.

One I had actually had sex with before he became my trainer but that was when he was dancing at Stock prior to when he opened his own gym. I was fond of him and gave him some art to decorate his gym. But the training he gave me was strickly professional even though we were often the only ones in the gym since it had a small membership.

Edited November 3, 2022 by Luv2play

[Rudynate]

4 hours ago, 7829V said:

My personal trainer hugs me everyday. Twice. And he touches my ass, legs, back to feel the muscles that I should focus when doing the movements. During squats he positions behind me… he’s very handsome and a great ass. But he has a girlfriend that is also a trainer. Some say the gf might be trans. I don’t know. But I love my trainer. His hourly fee is 75 / hr I believe. 

My bodybuilding coach (an IFBB pro, to give you an idea of his physique) encouraged a lot of touching to feel what muscles he was activating with a particular movement.

[dbar123]

Don’t shit where you eat

[+ Pensant]

It’s called solicitation. Don’t go there.

[+ Lucky]

I was once immensely attracted to a trainer at a Queens gym. He was Asian and a hunk. We hit it off and he started training me...for free! But I never tried to violate the implied limit. He never once made a suggestion that there was more on the table.

[+ FrankR]

59 minutes ago, Lucky said:

I was once immensely attracted to a trainer at a Queens gym. He was Asian and a hunk. We hit it off and he started training me...for free! But I never tried to violate the implied limit. He never once made a suggestion that there was more on the table.

So you didnt get…lucky? 😉  How did you eatablish what the limit was?  

[Rudynate]

29 minutes ago, FrankR said:

So you didnt get…lucky? 😉  How did you eatablish what the limit was?  

Didn't he say by implication?

[+ Lucky]

The conversation never crossed into private socializing. He knew I liked his body as his double biceps fascinated me.

[+ Reisr30]

Funny when I had a male trainer I started off being attracted to him but after a few sessions of him kicking my ass the attraction went away.  I only thought of him in a platonic way.  He was straight with a gf.  I would agree that trying to get escort services from a trainer is probably a bad idea.

That said I could swear there was an another 🧵 where some asked about escorts that also provided PT services.  Couldn’t find it

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Don't let your dick do the thinking...  That's a fast way to get asked to leave your gym and learn an embarrassing lesson.

He's a trainer.  Have enough respect for that to stick to the script.

[dutchal]

 

[+ sniper]

Most people don't escort and aren't open to it. You're better off looking at escort ads and seeing who trains. 

[Phil_musc]

Lots of good advice here. As I was reading the original post, the first thought I had was, "Uh oh, this will not end well."  Second and third thoughts have not changed my initial reaction. 

[pubic_assistance]

I had a gorgeous Australian trainer years ago. One day while he was standing over me I said "I'd pay anything to suck your cock". He winked and said "I need to go to the storage room" I followed him in there and he pushed me to my knees and unloaded down my throat. I've never swallowed such a big load. I think he was truly turned on by me.

( NO.. that didn't happen )

In the real world, most people get offended when you offer them cash for sex.

Don't shit where you eat - Good advice.

[+ Coolwave35]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

In the real world, most people get offended when you offer them cash for sex.

I don’t believe that to be true.