Rudynate Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 13 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I don’t believe that to be true. It's true and not true all at the same time. As a young man I got occasional offers of cash for sex. Reflexively, I always said "I don't do that." Then afterward, I would always ask myself. "Dummy, why did you say no?" thomas, + Vegas_Millennial, + azdr0710 and 3 others 1 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 I feel like onlyfans has turned the tide on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 47 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I don’t believe that to be true. I said MOST. Not all. If you think that's not true..then you need to get out more and discover the real world. (Just don't offer them money for sex).😉 + BenjaminNicholas and thomas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 48 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I feel like onlyfans has turned the tide on this. Eh that's still a niche but what surprises me is I've seen physical therapists on Instagram using their real name including links to their OnlyFans in their profiles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 24 minutes ago, sniper said: Eh that's still a niche but what surprises me is I've seen physical therapists on Instagram using their real name including links to their OnlyFans in their profiles. And male nurses. I know two attorneys etc. I think if you’re objectively or conventionally attractive, you’ve been offered money for some form of sexual activity. And a lot accept. MscleLovr 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 (edited) Physical beauty has always attracted economic power. When I was single and younger - 20 years ago, so long before the rise of OF - I had affairs with 3 personal trainers. One became a regular fuckbuddy and the other two were brief but enjoyable affairs. To answer the OP’s question, I think the key element is to establish a friendly rapport first, smile and be friendly. I worked out with 3 different trainers and I was open about being gay and single. Trainers often talk among themselves about their clients, and some like to gossip. People in the gym generally regarded me as a nice guy, so that helped. Above all, be discreet in your approach so that a personal trainer can turn you do without any offence being caused. When I was interested in a guy, I often asked a fellow trainer about him (something along the lines of ‘Is he gay-friendly?’ or ‘Is he dating anybody?’) If there was a positive response, I made a point of working out when it was quiet in the gym. When I saw the guy, I’d ask him if he wanted to get a coffee or lunch with me. That way, if he turned me down, all he could complain about to others was “that gay guy invited me for a coffee”. Edited November 4, 2022 by MscleLovr + FrankR and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchal Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 There are some trainers who are physique competitors or competitive body builders. As has been discussed before, some of them are open to having "sponsors", but what comes with the sponsorship varies. Approaches must be very careful and discreet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 14 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: I feel like onlyfans has turned the tide on this. Images are one thing - skin-to-skin a whole other thing. pubic_assistance and + robear 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted November 4, 2022 Share Posted November 4, 2022 3 minutes ago, Rudynate said: Images are one thing - skin-to-skin a whole other thing. Maybe my experiences and opinions are skewed because I’m in New York City, and they don’t hold true for other parts of the country. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 17 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: Maybe my experiences and opinions are skewed because I’m in New York City, and they don’t hold true for other parts of the country. Or maybe your opinions are skewed because your friends are all sluts. Normal people don't appreciate being offered money for sex. OnlyFans models may sometimes escort but typically they do online porn as a way to make money WITHOUT escorting...so I don't see this as increasing the supply of willing subjects. needbodywork and + BenjaminNicholas 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 48 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Or maybe your opinions are skewed because your friends are all sluts. Judgmental much? 48 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Normal people don't appreciate being offered money for sex. And you believe you are qualified to define “normal” for all if us. @young11 did not say anything about sex. Muscle worship isnt my thing, but perhaps it is his. + Coolwave35, Mercury, + Italiano and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 The trainer community has a fair proportion of straight-edge types, so there's higher than average risk they will react poorly. If you're not able to read people really well, and also are concerned about discretion, I'd avoid trying this. There are clearly plenty of escort ads that mention training services so I'd approach from that angle. OTOH, if you have a "fuck you money" level of wealth which ameliorates the downside concern, you may try whatever you want. + BenjaminNicholas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeepItReal Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 1 hour ago, sniper said: The trainer community has a fair proportion of straight-edge types, so there's higher than average risk they will react poorly. If you're not able to read people really well, and also are concerned about discretion, I'd avoid trying this. There are clearly plenty of escort ads that mention training services so I'd approach from that angle. OTOH, if you have a "fuck you money" level of wealth which ameliorates the downside concern, you may try whatever you want. I deduct points when you use words I have to Google! I like the approach you suggested - very logical to look for an escort that also work as a trainer. + FrankR 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Reisr30 Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 (edited) Curious how much money is “fuck you level” of wealth these days. But I suppose if I have to ask it’s out of my range anyway… Edited November 5, 2022 by Reisr30 Mercury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 (edited) …I’d say at least $10million in liquid assets nowadays Edited November 5, 2022 by MscleLovr BonVivant and + Reisr30 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted November 5, 2022 Share Posted November 5, 2022 4 hours ago, sniper said: OTOH, if you have a "fuck you money" level of wealth which ameliorates the downside concern, you may try whatever you want. Having manners (and some self-respect) has little to do with being wealthy. Let's never forget, money usually screams. Wealth whispers. Mercury, alageorge, former lurker and 5 others 5 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted November 6, 2022 Share Posted November 6, 2022 13 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Or maybe your opinions are skewed because your friends are all sluts. I have to save this line to use...everywhere. + Vegas_Millennial and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted November 6, 2022 Share Posted November 6, 2022 I have had escorts who I arranged to do training. To look at me now you would not think they were very good trainers but they were. I usually saw them once a week, an hour in the gym, a light lunch and then home for an hour. We usually met on weekdays late morning or early afternoon. So if they were not otherwise employed and just did escorting and training, this was a convenient time. One of them moved away and the other, unfortunately passed away and I have not repeated this arrangement. Although, once I fully retire, I might consider it again. + Reisr30, + Vegas_Millennial, + Bryan Dube and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Bryan Dube Posted November 14, 2022 Share Posted November 14, 2022 Yeah, I was going to say, why not a provider with a great physique who would be willing to "train" you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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