Have you ever made an escort sign an NDA?

[Constantine]

This is something I see a lot on rentmen profiles. Is this something that actually happens? Why would the need for this arise in the first place? Are clients spilling the beans of their identities and personal lives to escorts?

[BonVivant]

Lol. Good luck enforcing it. It’s more of an honor code thing. 

[+ purplekow]

I haven't needed a NDA, rather as the gentleman caller is leaving I usually ask that he tell his friends.  

As far as clients telling their life story to escorts, I find that no one else wants to hear my old stories so paying someone seems like the only way for me with stroll down memory lane with some company..  

[BonVivant]

12 hours ago, purplekow said:

I haven't needed a NDA, rather as the gentleman caller is leaving I usually ask that he tell his friends.  

As far as clients telling their life story to escorts, I find that no one else wants to hear my old stories so paying someone seems like the only way for me with stroll down memory lane with some company..  

it’s your money. The clock is ticking. 

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I'm sure there are clients that have escorts sign NDAs all the time.  For most escorts, signing such an agreement would not require of them anything more than is their usual practice - - they don't discuss their clients with anyone.  

[Guest]

My partner signed an NDA about a decade ago prior to his encounter with a certain US Senator. I'm not sure how enforceable those are. 

[coriolis888]

4 hours ago, sam.fitzpatrick said:

- - they don't discuss their clients with anyone.  

They don't?

[coriolis888]

3 hours ago, Unicorn said:

My partner signed an NDA about a decade ago prior to his encounter with a certain US Senator. I'm not sure how enforceable those are. 

Do you mean - Lady "G" - ?

Several escorts from rentmen.eu got together with an attorney last year and threatened to out that senator because of the mean way he treated them.  Nothing ever came of the matter.  

[Luv2play]

I was with an escort this past weekend who spilled the beans on an international musician whose name is globally recognized. He hired my friend while he was on a world tour for a massage 5 hours prior to the concert. The massage included oral sex performed on the singer to completion. 

I was also told how endowed the singer was although I didn't ask. I was also told he didn't last long.Again I didn't ask. I don't think an nda would have helped as this escort was a real chatty Cathy. He was good sex though.

[LookingAround]

Why would it matter whether you asked or it was volunteered?

[+ FrankR]

Yes. But I can’t talk about it. 🤫

[BuffaloKyle]

I'm not sure how enforceable they are as well considering it's dealing with an illegal activity. Like for instance if I sold drugs to someone and had them sign a NDA to not reveal my identity to anyone that isn't gonna hold up in court if they got arrested and passed my name to police. 

Edited September 27, 2022 by BuffaloKyle

[+ sniper]

I am not a lawyer, but in general a contract has to be for a lawful purpose. Seems like you should not be able to enforce it so it's really more like a pinky swear but if the escort doesn't know that then it probably benefits the client to do that. 

I have a personal trainer friend who has occasionally worked with celebrities and had to sign an NDA. But to the best of my knowledge he wasn't engaging in any sort of sex with them.

[+ DynamicUno]

If we're still using the legal fiction that clients are hiring escorts for their time, than it is possible that the NDA could cover the expectation that the escort will simply not disclose that they met the client to any third parties. It doesn't have to describe the purpose of the meeting, just the fact of the meeting and any information disclosed during the meeting.  Still, enforcing such an NDA would be tricky at best, I wonder if anyone has ever tried it.

[Guest]

18 hours ago, coriolis888 said:

Do you mean - Lady "G" - ?

Several escorts from rentmen.eu got together with an attorney last year and threatened to out that senator because of the mean way he treated them.  Nothing ever came of the matter.  

Good guess.... 😉

[+ Topseed]

Without any prompting from me, I've had several escorts tell me stories of their time with various famous people. I'm assuming that these stories are an attempt to impress me.  It doesn't. This lack of discretion guarantees that I will never hire the particular escort again.

[coriolis888]

18 minutes ago, arnemgreeves said:

Mostly celebs who do this, so their image doesn't get fucked with.

Most "normal" people won't get them, nor need to. 

Tbh, i wouldn't give a shit if a local doctor or schoolteacher banged an escort every weekend. 

There is a big misunderstanding in connection with non-disclosure agreements. 

As with all contracts, a non disclosure contract cannot be enforced if the activities of the contract are illegal activities.  

In our goofy, mixed up country, prostitution is illegal in most states.  

Call it what you may, but do not forget what William Shakespeare said many years ago, "A rose by any other name would smell as sweet."  

[coriolis888]

9 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

I've heard escorts say they've signed NDAs with famous people. you're right, the contract wouldn't be binding but I've heard it happen before.

Signing such a meaningless document sometimes gives psychological comfort to the main party involved. 

As I previously wrote, the document is unenforceable because of the nature of the unlawful non-disclosure subject matter (prostitution). 

If you could find an attorney (unlikely) to take the matter to court for breach of the meaningless agreement, the court would reject the action and the person supposedly being protected would be "outed" because of having hired a prostitute, which is illegal.  

Nothing legal is accomplished for those people who have an "escort" sign such an agreement.  

Any attempt to enforce the useless "agreement" would cause the public to know what happened between the "escort" and the person who sadly thinks such an agreement is protection.   

Our laws against most prostitution in this country are unrealistic.  

Edited September 28, 2022 by coriolis888
spelling error

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

If the NDA is well written, it is enforceable, regardless if sexual activity occurs.  One way to cover it is to include in the NDA the legal escorting activities planned for the period of hire.    

For example, if the escort is being hired for a weekend and that includes going to a Rolling Stones concert and staying at the host's house, the NDA may include not disclosing an address, pictures taken in the house, or other any health issues that the escort may learn about.  It could also preclude any reference to the hiring individual in any press, social media, or other writing, such as a memoir.     

 

[BonVivant]

On 9/26/2022 at 8:12 PM, Luv2play said:

I was with an escort this past weekend who spilled the beans on an international musician whose name is globally recognized. He hired my friend while he was on a world tour for a massage 5 hours prior to the concert. The massage included oral sex performed on the singer to completion. 

I was also told how endowed the singer was although I didn't ask. I was also told he didn't last long.Again I didn't ask. I don't think an nda would have helped as this escort was a real chatty Cathy. He was good sex though.

Gosh. I am really curious now. 

[Rudynate]

I don't have much to hide.  Seems silly.

[former lurker]

11 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I'm not sure how enforceable they are as well considering it's dealing with an illegal activity. Like for instance if I sold drugs to someone and had them sign a NDA to not reveal my identity to anyone that isn't gonna hold up in court if they got arrested and passed my name to police. 

You've hit upon an important factor -- a criminal investigation.  An NDA cannot be enforced if broken to assist LEOs in a case where the information is pertinent.  However, it likely is enforceable against an escort who seeks to personally profit from the information covered by the NDA (a tell all book, for example).

[+ Lucky]

41 minutes ago, Rudynate said:

I don't have much to hide.  Seems silly.

Not much to hide? Hmm...

[Guest]

I’ve done the opposite. I’ve gotten express permission to disclose what happened when I hire, share content, videos, photos from a session etc. 

Is the opposite of an NDA a DA?  Where do I get one of those? Lol 

A lot of the boys I’ve hired go live on tik tok or Instagram or onlyfans. I love when they see me in the chat and share a particularly salacious story, memory, pairing etc. It’s fun and exciting for me. They share just enough to pique the interest of the chat while keeping it a fun inside connection. 

Edited September 28, 2022 by Coolwave35

[coriolis888]

1 hour ago, former lurker said:

 However, it likely is enforceable against an escort who seeks to personally profit from the information covered by the NDA (a tell all book, for example).

Then you are talking about a different thing - - 

The original agreement (None Disclosure Agreement) was an illegal agreement because the agreement involved an illegal act.    

If the escort decided to do a "tell all" book, for example, the contract (the NDA) cannot be used as restraining against the escort.  

The client could sue in civil court but that would defeat the purpose of non disclosure and privacy.  

If the escort demands money from the client for not doing a "tell-all" disclosure, that demand becomes extortion which is a criminal act by the escort.  

Different set of facts.  

Again, the original discussion of a non disclosure agreement is meaningless regardless of whether the escort or client pretends that the meeting took place only for non sexual reasons. 

In most states in the U.S., prostitution is illegal, plain and simple. 

Just bring up a copy of the escorts rentmen ad (or other ads) which will end the untruthful argument that the meeting of the client and escort was not for sex.