+ DynamicUno Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 I'm curious how some of the providers here handle overnights with clients that snore? I know I tend to snore pretty loudly, and I'm self consious about that, especially if I haven't done an overnight with a guy before. What do you tend to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm4U Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 Someone who snores doesn’t bother me. I’m a deep sleeper usually, so I just keep sleeping. jtwalker 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJF Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 2 hours ago, Storm4U said: Someone who snores doesn’t bother me. I’m a deep sleeper usually, so I just keep sleeping. Duly noted Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 Ambien. Xanax. Nyquill. Duct tape... Which comes in handy in multiple ways with clients. thomas, BtmBearDad, Deadlift1 and 10 others 3 1 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 4 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Ambien. Xanax. Nyquill. Duct tape... Which comes in handy in multiple ways with clients. Hmmm ... Noted. MikeBiDude and + BenjaminNicholas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 Just don’t let him sleep. Luv2play, keefer, + DynamicUno and 9 others 1 1 4 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJF Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 (edited) 1 hour ago, Jamie21 said: Just don’t let him sleep. That would mean you have to stay “up” for the whole time too. Edited July 20, 2022 by NJF Jamie21 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted July 20, 2022 Share Posted July 20, 2022 1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Duct tape... Which comes in handy in multiple ways with clients. Hey - can I sleep with you tonight? 😁 + BenjaminNicholas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jtwalker Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 6 hours ago, NJF said: That would mean you have to stay “up” for the whole time too. More duct tape? + BenjaminNicholas, mike carey, Jamie21 and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keenan Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 Ear plugs are an option but since they are paying I put up with it for the time. Keenan + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 My husband snores. I would download a white noise app for your phone. Helps to even out the sound. CastaDiva and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianboyph Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 It never bothers me at all. + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 26, 2022 Share Posted July 26, 2022 Ear plugs. Doesn't have to be weird, snoring is totally normal. In drastic situations, sleep in a different room. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted July 28, 2022 Share Posted July 28, 2022 (edited) On 7/26/2022 at 12:13 AM, Dante said: Ear plugs. Doesn't have to be weird, snoring is totally normal. In drastic situations, sleep in a different room. Hmmm, I have to counter that. Snoring is shouldn’t ignored/normal and can be rather a serious issue: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sleep-apnea/symptoms-causes/syc-20377631 I have known a few clients who actively sleep with Cpap machines. I remember a client years ago who I never spent a night with, but Lord have Mercy, the one night we did: it was like a buzzsaw all night. I hardly got a wink of sleep. Even being downstairs with headphones didn’t work. He told me, “I didn’t wear my Cpap machine, but I will tonight”. I even encouraged a regular client of mine to get a Cpap a few months ago. It didn’t even seem like he was ever sleeping. He would snore, and then wake up talking every 30 seconds. When he went to do the test, they found it to be severe. Idk how nobody ever told him. But, he lives alone. I want to hear any of the guys here who think they can sleep thru THAT level of snoring haha. I’d need to be drunk or on sleep drugs because that’s the only time I can actually sleep deep enough thru someone’s snoring 😆 And I’m a deep sleeper. But not when there’s a repeated noise like an alarm for hours at a time. I have a friend now who snores so loud also, but he just won’t get the machine. We spent 1 night in a hotel together, never again. Edited July 28, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut Luv2play, TorontoDrew and + DERRIK 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 29, 2022 Share Posted July 29, 2022 13 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said: Snoring is shouldn’t ignored/normal and can be rather a serious issue: Yes, apnea is a thing. Good to be aware of. I hope your client is doing well. So can snoring be a sign of an issue? Yes. Is it usually? No. Lots of people, especially older guys, just.... snore. (I'm not a doctor.) I'm assuming you were mostly just seizing the opportunity to tell a couple stories... but in case it wasn't clear, I meant "normal" in a social sense, as in, "it doesn't have to be weird if you snore", since I think that's what the OP was wondering about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jarrod_Uncut Posted July 29, 2022 Share Posted July 29, 2022 (edited) 16 hours ago, Dante said: Yes, apnea is a thing. Good to be aware of. I hope your client is doing well. So can snoring be a sign of an issue? Yes. Is it usually? No. Lots of people, especially older guys, just.... snore. (I'm not a doctor.) I'm assuming you were mostly just seizing the opportunity to tell a couple stories... but in case it wasn't clear, I meant "normal" in a social sense, as in, "it doesn't have to be weird if you snore", since I think that's what the OP was wondering about. Well: the OP did bring it up, however most only gave a simple yes or no answer versus actual experiences. Yeah snoring is “common” but it’s only “normal” to the degree that if someone can’t sleep next to that person, that goes from common and normal to something else. It’s not so much of it being “weird”, but I think the question explicitly asked: On 7/20/2022 at 10:02 AM, DynamicUno said: I'm curious how some of the providers here handle overnights with clients that snore? It wasn’t whether it’s weird or normal, but rather: what would do? And I mentioned I’ve let people know it may be something to get treated for. Because many seem to be unaware. Even beyond clients, I’ve had nightmare dates who have snored all night and I barely got a wink of sleep. One guy couple months back: he snored all night, (he was younger and in shape, which was unexpected) and was up moving and shaking at 6 a.m. to go to work, and because we only met twice guess he didn’t trust leaving me at his house. I probably only had 2 hours of sleep 🤦🏽♂️ Edited July 29, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ncc1701d Posted September 2, 2022 Share Posted September 2, 2022 part of my upfront discussion when planning for overnights or day long hires...besides rate and what is expected and free time and all the jazz......that way no surprises! + Vegas_Millennial 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DERRIK Posted September 2, 2022 Share Posted September 2, 2022 sleep apnea is real for me I've used my machine for 10 years plus when I engage overnight I typically do without - one night is not going to put me over the edge However - I am so used to my machine - it helps me fall asleep - like a sleeping aid TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted September 3, 2022 Share Posted September 3, 2022 Many years ago, when I had my first overnight hire, I was very nervous that my snoring would not let the boy sleep. I told him and he said that he was a deep sleeper and he didn’t care at all. Well, it turns out that he snored like a locomotive and he was the one who kept me awake…LOL thomas, + Pensant, TorontoDrew and 3 others 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted September 4, 2022 Share Posted September 4, 2022 Fortunately, I don’t snore and neither do my overnight guests. Unless we have a king bed, I’ll typically suggest that we sleep in separate queens. I’m not one for cuddling or intermittent sex during the night. We both wake up well rested and ready for a morning tune-up before heading out for a workout or coffee. Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted September 4, 2022 Share Posted September 4, 2022 1 hour ago, Pensant said: Fortunately, I don’t snore and neither do my overnight guests. Unless we have a king bed, I’ll typically suggest that we sleep in separate queens. I’m not one for cuddling or intermittent sex during the night. We both wake up well rested and ready for a morning tune-up before heading out for a workout or coffee. Ditto. 2 queen beds. It helps if the beds are in separate rooms. Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted September 5, 2022 Share Posted September 5, 2022 On 7/20/2022 at 4:34 PM, BenjaminNicholas said: Duct tape... Which comes in handy in multiple ways with clients. 😈sounds like a good time + BenjaminNicholas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted September 5, 2022 Share Posted September 5, 2022 People’s sleep habits can be surprising. I took a couple of nights away with a friend of mine, who is also a sex worker (we often work together). We wanted to have a short break and decided not to see any clients whilst away, just chill out and have some fun (although we did shoot a film for justforfans whilst we were away to pay for the trip). He’d had a tough time so the idea was to help him recover and refresh his energy. Turns out that although we are compatible in many ways (we like similar things sexually and have similar interests) we are certainly not compatible when sleeping! I sleep naked and prefer my companion to be naked, he prefers to wear pants and t shirt in bed. I go to bed early and like morning sex, he likes to stay up late, fuck before going to sleep, and then lay in. I like the window open, he wanted it closed. I like music playing to get off to sleep, he likes silence. I wanted to sleep on the right….so did he. He seemed to be awake all night, which kept waking me. The other problem was at the time he was on drugs which was probably why he stayed awake all night. I didn’t realise the extent of it at the time because he hid it (good news, he’s off them now). The weekend was great fun in every way except sleeping. I think you really get to know someone when you sleep overnight with them in the same bed! thomas, + Vegas_Millennial, pubic_assistance and 2 others 1 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted September 6, 2022 Share Posted September 6, 2022 On 9/4/2022 at 8:55 AM, Pensant said: I’m not one for cuddling or intermittent sex during the night. Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ? ShyBi95, TorontoDrew, liubit and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted September 6, 2022 Share Posted September 6, 2022 10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ? Certainly for most people, but not me. + Vegas_Millennial, pubic_assistance and Luv2play 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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