Overnights with Clients that Snore

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

16 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ?

Not always.  That's something that should be discussed by client/escort.

Some people want 7-9 hours of solid sleep.  

[pubic_assistance]

6 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Some people want 7-9 hours of solid sleep.

I meant, WHY would you PAY to SLEEP with someone if you're going to sleep alone and away from them ?
I find that totally bizarre.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

7 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I meant, WHY would you PAY to SLEEP with someone if you're going to sleep alone and away from them ?
I find that totally bizarre.

I never said 'alone and away'

Getting solid sleep when you're spending an extended time with a client is important.  

For both parties.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

15 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Still lost.

and I am seriously asking.

I have never slept with anyone except my wife, since I married some 15 years ago.

But

I see that escorts charge QUITE A BIT of $$$ for "overnights"

So...being that I am a cuddler. ( yes I admit it )

I am confused as to WHY anyone would plunk down major USD if all you're going to do is SLEEP ????

I am lost.

You're mistaking your personal wants and needs with everyone else's.

People hire for all different reasons.  This board attracts a small subset of the overall whole. 

When you travel with someone or spend an extended timeframe, it's not just about the sex.  Actually, those of us who are extremely successful at what we do understand that it's not predominantly the sex that keeps our clientele coming back.

You can get laid anywhere, by anyone.  That's just a fuck.

What you can't so easily get is connection, conversation, understanding and a natural ease to things.

[GTMike]

23 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Aren't both of those the whole point of an "overnight" ?

Although i do personally like those things in an overnight to answer your question, no not alway or necessarily.

I have had scenario's of overnights when we've had dinner, fun, shower, movie on the couch, a lot more fun, shower again and had decided upon a time that we mutually wanted to be sleeping by. No cuddling or intermittent fun until in the morning again before shower and a breakfast.

If the person was a horrible snorer I wouldn't have problem of them sleeping in a guest bedroom. ( Caveats. I do primarily host at my home and i personally tend to favor the "G4P/straight/Bi" professionals who naturally wouldn't chose cuddling as their 1st choice if not required haha). But I am an equal opportunitist for others.

But regardless after a good amount of sleep the morning involves fun so to me that can be a mutually succesful "overnight" physically sleeping apart from a loud snorer.

[GTMike]

23 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Still lost.

and I am seriously asking.

I have never slept with anyone except my wife, since I married some 15 years ago.

But

I see that escorts charge QUITE A BIT of $$$ for "overnights"

So...being that I am a cuddler. ( yes I admit it )

I am confused as to WHY anyone would plunk down major USD if all you're going to do is SLEEP ????

I am lost.

Yes you do seem lost.

The poster asked about effective strategies that providers might use to deal with clients who happen to snore during overnights.

Considering you've stated that you have never slept with anyone except your wife since at least ~15 years ago maybe think about sitting this one out to others who have recent relevant experience on the topic.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

19 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Am I ?

I literally have ZERO understanding of why you would pay hundreds of dollars to SLEEP in the same room with someone unless you're cuddling or expecting morning sex.

Sorry...I think like a guy. It's all about the physical attention to me.

I never said no cuddling.  I never said no morning sex.  Where are you getting this?

I believe what we have here is a failure to communicate.

[GTMike]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Considering I am TRYING to educate myself, I think "sitting it out" doesn't really help me, now does it ?

I asked a relevant question to the subject.

I will wait for someone to answer who has a little tolerance and patience for those of us with less experience.

 

You're proving my point about "sitting it out" as you're stating again you have less experience with the topic and I highly doubt the intent of the poster's question was meant to educate you.

Please quit the victim act as you know your comments relate to "how you think" and ignore the poster's question which relates to his self-conciousness about his snoring and how escorts and/or other clients might deal with that during an overnight.  I'm only saying sit it out as the thread is not about your opinion regarding who/what/how/why someone's engaging with a professional for an overnight if god forbid there's sleeping involved during it.

To the original poster there are a variety of ways to collaboratively figure that out especially with an established professional including potentially making light of it in advance with the escort in question and agreeing to mutually figure out fun ways to address that issue.

As a client i've done several overnights with a good amount of different escorts and honestly i actually find it kinda cute and reassuring sometimes when they're snoring loudly as I feel like it's showing how completely and totally comfortable and relaxed they are in the environment.

Edited September 7, 2022 by GTMike
Grammar correction

[Kevin Slater]

Gents: This forum has a specific 'no arguments allowed' rule.  Let's drop the hijacks. 

[Jamie21]

I don’t understand how some guys can be into doing some of the weird sexual fetishes I’m occasionally asked for….(being pissed on…hmmm no sorry I can’t do that); it’s no different to some guys liking to sleep on an overnight. 

The attraction is you wake up, there’s someone naked there next to you, sleeping soundly. See him sleep, watch him breathing, stroke his skin and gently wake him, as he slowly comes to awareness and recognises you with a shy grin. Kiss him, cuddle him, feel his growing cock as you nuzzle closer….isn’t that better than waking alone? 

[Luv2play]

On 9/6/2022 at 7:51 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

I never said 'alone and away'

Getting solid sleep when you're spending an extended time with a client is important.  

For both parties.

I agree if its going to be multiple days engagement. But for a single overnight I always look for some play during the night since I get up once a night  to pee anyway. I also like some action on waking in the morning before coffee.

I usually am a little wrecked the next day after an overnight but recuperate the next day and go to bed early the next evening. 

As for a snoring partner I don't mind if he is not too loud as I tend to be a sound sleeper. I've never encountered an escort who had a snoring problem.

Edited September 8, 2022 by Luv2play

[Guest]

On 9/8/2022 at 12:44 AM, Luv2play said:

before coffee.

Oof

[Luv2play]

36 minutes ago, Dante said:

Oof

Really! Don't you like a little frisky play on waking up? I certainly do when I am having an overnight as it is a big luxury since I live alone. Takes me back to when I had lovers.😛

[Becket]

Ambien is deadly, folks.  Sleepwalking. Sleep-cooking. Sleep DRIVING. Throw it away.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

9 hours ago, Becket said:

Ambien is deadly, folks.  Sleepwalking. Sleep-cooking. Sleep DRIVING. Throw it away.

It's problematic for some people, but thankfully not all.

The same goes for many, many drugs, including OTC ones.  YMMV.

Don't throw it away if it works and you can handle it.

Edited September 10, 2022 by BenjaminNicholas