Reserving a Date

[hammee3ny]

Providers so i've read a lot on here and have also been told a few times, that when you contact them you should be ready to go THEN.  Do you ever consider booking something in advance? What are the pros & cons for you? Asking because I have.a birthday in few weeks and I thought it would make my Bday more stress free if i was able to book someone in advance rather spend my entire birthday back & forth with fees and availability.  Etc.  I'm live in NYC and it'd probably be someone local.  (not sure who yet.)\

[Jamie21]

12 minutes ago, hammee3ny said:

Providers so i've read a lot on here and have also been told a few times, that when you contact them you should be ready to go THEN.  Do you ever consider booking something in advance? What are the pros & cons for you? Asking because I have.a birthday in few weeks and I thought it would make my Bday more stress free if i was able to book someone in advance rather spend my entire birthday back & forth with fees and availability.  Etc.  I'm live in NYC and it'd probably be someone local.  (not sure who yet.)\

Definitely book in advance. It’s what I prefer my clients to do. Yesterday at 10pm I got a request for an out call that evening. It would have been fine if he’d booked it the day before but by the time he asked…I was busy. 

Book it in advance and look forward to the session. I hope you have a great birthday 🙂

 

 

[BuffaloKyle]

3 weeks is probably a little too far off to book with a provider. I'd wait a week or so and then reach out to the provider you want. Worst case is they say it's too early still to book. But even then they'll have you in their head if someone out reaches out to them about that date and they'll reach out to you first.

[+ poolboy48220]

another thing that varies by escort.  Some want right-now appointments (or within the next few hours), some want to book ahead.  I booked a masseur a few days ahead last weekend, and an hour before the appointment he asked to bump it an hour later since he had a client already with him.

[italianboyph]

I prefer to book sessions In advance, it’s just much easier and I feel organized. Having everything planned in advance also gives anticipation for meeting as well. Sometimes I’ll have clients that will call real late in the night and want right now. That’s not to say I haven’t taking requests right away either. 

[Kevin Slater]

(From an earlier thread:)

The likelihood of a new client actually panning out is inversely proportional to the amount of contact (and the amount of time) beforehand.  Especially in a highly visited place like NYC, we get a ton of guys wanting to set something up weeks away (unfortunately often accompanied by a daily text with a new question or request) just to find out, wouldn't you know it, the day of... the trip gets cancelled.  The less time out, the more serious I take the booking. 

If your constraints require you to lock things down weeks in advance, a deposit via Venmo goes a long way to reassuring me that this is actually going to go down.  And of course, once we've actually met, I'll take future bookings a lot more seriously. 

Kevin Slater

[+ nycman]

On 1/11/2022 at 10:34 AM, Kevin Slater said:

The likelihood of a new client actually panning out is inversely proportional to the amount of contact (and the amount of time) beforehand. 

True. After reading some of the novellas written here,
I used to be self conscious about how brief and direct
I was when contacting escorts.

Then an escort told me, "Dude, I knew you were serious. 
You booked me in 3 texts or less, the day before the 
appointment". I never felt self conscious again. 

Edited January 13, 2022 by nycman

[+ Tygerscent]

On 1/11/2022 at 12:08 AM, hammee3ny said:

Providers so i've read a lot on here and have also been told a few times, that when you contact them you should be ready to go THEN.  Do you ever consider booking something in advance? What are the pros & cons for you? Asking because I have.a birthday in few weeks and I thought it would make my Bday more stress free if i was able to book someone in advance rather spend my entire birthday back & forth with fees and availability.  Etc.  I'm live in NYC and it'd probably be someone local.  (not sure who yet.)\

I’ve never done last minute booking~ Through my entire career, I’ve always booked in advance… anywhere from several weeks on up to over a year~ Typically, the time frame is two months ahead~ For me it’s never too early to schedule~ 
 I love taking the time before meeting to text back and forth, swap dirty/pervy desires, romantic sentiment, naughty bits pix… get to know each other so that when we eventually meet, maybe there some extra exciting play things we’ve thought of that we’d like to explore together~ It’s good bonding time~ 

 

Edited January 13, 2022 by Tygerscent

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 1/11/2022 at 9:34 AM, Kevin Slater said:

(From an earlier thread:)

The likelihood of a new client actually panning out is inversely proportional to the amount of contact (and the amount of time) beforehand.  Especially in a highly visited place like NYC, we get a ton of guys wanting to set something up weeks away (unfortunately often accompanied by a daily text with a new question or request) just to find out, wouldn't you know it, the day of... the trip gets cancelled.  The less time out, the more serious I take the booking. 

If your constraints require you to lock things down weeks in advance, a deposit via Venmo goes a long way to reassuring me that this is actually going to go down.  And of course, once we've actually met, I'll take future bookings a lot more seriously. 

Kevin Slater

This 100%
 

And having an advanced booking cancelled is a lot more damaging than a last minute booking because you generally have more expectation of it happening. Plus you may have turned down other things.

Lately, in the past few years or so…I’ve been booking sessions of “advanced” notice generally a day or 2 ahead…with the exception of a special City visit. But even then, that’s the most it’s usually been and that’s usually fine with me.

I like a sweet spot with a bit of common sense: it doesn’t have to be “now”. But just be normal. 2 weeks ahead of time can be bit far out when a guy is “available now” and needs to make ends. I also prefer 4 hours notice for same day bookings because that’s usually about how long it’ll take to stop what I’m doing, commute, etc. unless I’m just already in town at a hotel and can take someone on the fly

I see this in other situations as well: last weekend there were supposed to be 6 of us calendar guys attending the Kansas City model signing event for https://www.lupineenterprises.com

However, only 3 of us showed up. This event was planned way back in November. So to hear 3 guys not show up (for valid reasons) kinda killed the vibe for a moment. But, the 3 who were in Kansas City made the best of it and it turned out really well.

Edited January 13, 2022 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Jamie21]

I think it’s not necessarily the length of time ahead that someone books is an indication that they’ll flake but more the type (and frequency) of interaction ahead of the meeting. 

Clients that ask a couple of pertinent questions and then quickly commit to the booking usually are reliable. If there’s a long exchange of discussion about things they want, pics etc then its highly likely they’ll flake on the day or the day before. 

At present I have a booking for March, 2 months away. I’m sure that will take place (Covid permitting) as he’s a regular. Also one in mid February with another escort (it’s the other escort’s client) and the client is visiting London from abroad. He wants a session with both of us together so I guess it makes sense to book that now just in case either of us is busy if he leaves it until nearer the time to book.

So I understand the reasons why some clients book months in advance and it generally means they’re serious. It’s the clients who treat me as if I’m just doing this as a hobby and am hanging around and available like some Grindr hookup that are the irritating ones. Fortunately they are easy to spot and to manage. 

[bigdipper]

I recently booked with a new to me provider for a 2 hour session at night in four texts the morning of. When I strolled into the hotel lobby to meet him, he was taken by surprise and said “I didn’t think you were going to show up.” He was waiting on another client for the same time slot…. He double booked!

[Jamie21]

2 hours ago, bigdipper said:

I recently booked with a new to me provider for a 2 hour session at night in four texts the morning of. When I strolled into the hotel lobby to meet him, he was taken by surprise and said “I didn’t think you were going to show up.” He was waiting on another client for the same time slot…. He double booked!

I double booked my self one time by mistake…(had made a booking in my calendar whilst abroad and didn’t take into consideration the time difference). In that situation…. none of the clients turned up 🙄

[Jarrod_Uncut]

On 1/14/2022 at 3:31 AM, Jamie21 said:

Fortunately they are easy to spot and to manage. 

Yeah I don’t think I’ve done any last minute appointments this year at all. The only one I gave a little leeway too is my 32 y/o bi/Latin client out of town. We were going to meet the night before, but he flaked and then HMU in the morning. Since I was already in a hotel, it wasn’t an issue to give him his birthday gift 🍆 before I checked out.

[+ 7829V]

On 1/15/2022 at 3:43 AM, bigdipper said:

I recently booked with a new to me provider for a 2 hour session at night in four texts the morning of. When I strolled into the hotel lobby to meet him, he was taken by surprise and said “I didn’t think you were going to show up.” He was waiting on another client for the same time slot…. He double booked!

Haha. Just like airlines! 😉

[Jamie21]

1 hour ago, 7829V said:

Haha. Just like airlines! 😉

Yes! I wonder if the unluckily double booked client got paid denied boarding compensation? 

[bigdipper]

Nope… I received nothing from the provider!

[Rod Hagen]

I've booked months in advance.  However, if you're dealing with younger guys, they are more apt to want something nowish.

If you do book something in advance, be sure to send a short message(s) now and then saying how excited you are for that date, and specify the date and time each time you do.

Edited January 17, 2022 by Rod Hagen

[hammee3ny]

On 1/11/2022 at 7:06 AM, BuffaloKyle said:

3 weeks is probably a little too far off to book with a provider. I'd wait a week or so and then reach out to the provider you want. Worst case is they say it's too early still to book. But even then they'll have you in their head if someone out reaches out to them about that date and they'll reach out to you first.

Thanks @BuffaloKyle...these are the specifics i was hoping to get...wasn't thinking 3 weeks/months in advance...definitely more like 1-1.5 weeks ahead of time max 

[hammee3ny]

thanks all! super helpful.