How did you begin hiring?

[Milo Farnsworth]

Sorry if this a repeat thread.

 

I'm always curious how you began hiring escorts? My first escort was about 11 - 12 waaay back in the 1970's.) His name was Sean I found in the old Advocate newspaper. I paid him $10 to whack off together.

[+ keroscenefire]

Mine was this guy who was advertising on Adam4Adam about 3 years ago or so. I was just getting tired of the whole Grindr/Adam4Adam hookup apps game and I was just out of a relationship. So I thought, why not? He was great and really sweet. He gave me some good advice such as never paying cash upfront, etc.

 

Since then I've probably met with at least 30 escorts or so.

[+ poolboy48220]

Perusing the ads in back of the independent newspapers back in the mid-80's. They were more agencies than individual guys, I remember talking to one of the agencies and taking notes on the guys that I was interested, and being terrified at one point that my roommate had seen the notes. I finally bit the bullet and hired one night while the roommate was out of town.

[big-n-tall]

I'm going to do a quick run down of my first year hiring. LOL!

 

My 1st escort experience was in late 2010, whose name i can't recall right now, was a guy he who visited my area and did some solo porn work. The first couple times we met were great. Although i should have seen warning signs it was going to go down hill. By the 4th time, when the cracked out episode happened (which i recounted on the forum before) i was done with him.

 

My 2nd escort experience and also my first overnight was with a lean muscled guy named Coltt. Great guy... amazing kisser. Our sessions were mainly muscle worship but he was truly affectionate. He had did some solo porn work for the site muscleworhip.com. He actually made personalized dvds for me before we met. He's since retired, but we've remained friends.

 

The 3rd guy I met and 2nd overnight was with @ajirons09 and like Coltt, he is a great guy, amazing kisser, and a lot of fun in and out of the bedroom. Although I don't see him as much (because our schedules don't sync as much), he became and continues to be an amazing friend. Even when I wasn't able to see him for a session, when I was in California, this guy would pick me up from various locals and drive me to San Diego without asking for anything in return. I loved those road trips were we would just joke and talk along the way.

 

The 4th guy i began seeing was Michael Vincenzo. Sadly he was retired but he was one of the best.

 

By mid 2011, I decided to go full steam and I really began seeing a lot of escorts regularly.

[MikeBiDude]

I think it was early 1980’s, I was at the end of a convention in Las Vegas and found a guy in the Personals section of the Classified ads in the Las Vegas Review-Journal, or maybe the Sun? Was an interesting experience, nice guy, put me at ease and we had fun.

 

After that I used the Advocate classified when they were still in the main part of the magazine, and Frontiers. I remember a porn guy from Frontiers and I spending time on Compuserve figuring how I could get more pics of him ?

[KrisParr]

It was the mid-90s, on a business trip, stayed at a Hyatt in downtown Chicago. Took a taxi to a leather shop several blocks away that I found in the yellow pages (do those even exist anymore?). Bought a few items, and picked up a gay newspaper. Back at the hotel, looking through the personal ads, I found the courage to call one. “Gus” answered on the first ring. He said he wasn’t too far away and would be right over. Oh shit, this really going to happen. Took a quick shower and there was a knock at the door. College-age, cute, curly hair, scruff. The clothes came off quickly, and he was amazing. However, I had not planned very well, and within 15 minutes or so, I achieved an unwanted, but magnificent orgasm. He asked me to “keep going” so he likewise could reach satisfaction. Five minutes later, we were getting dressed. His fee was $80 and I generously gave him a hundred. That, gentlemen, is a pleasant memory that will never fade. And the start of a fun, interesting, and memorable hobby.

[marylander1940]

Washington Blade (local paper) late 90's.

[JayCeeKy]

I pulled over and said "You need a ride?"

[Geriatric Otter]

Sorry if this a repeat thread.

 

I'm always curious how you began hiring escorts? My first escort was about 11 - 12 waaay back in the 1970's.) His name was Sean I found in the old Advocate newspaper. I paid him $10 to whack off together.

My first hire was also the first sex with a guy. February 2001 when I was 53. Jimmy in San Diego. I called him on a land line, and he agreed to come right over. Immediately I had buyer's remorse. He pulled into the parking lot below my hotel window. Ex Marine, 40s, muscled with a muscle T. He came to my room and figured out right away i was (a) nervous and (b) hadn't a clue what do. Luckily he was very patient, and stayed over the hour I booked, to make me comfortable...

[Poincare]

Great question. The year was about 2000. I went with a college friend to Gaiety in NYC. The dancers got me so excited. In the adjoining room, the dancers would solicit the audience to go back to their sleepy rooms in a dump of a hotel in Times Square. The kind of place your mother warned you never to enter. Well, there was a muscled gorgeous Czech guy who approached me and the rest was history. I was about 32 years left and had gained a lot of weight from chemotherapy. I was about 80 lbs overweight. Just a lot of touching and jerking, but it got me hooked...he gave me a business card that I must of put with a bunch of junk in a desk drawer thinking it would disappear....about a year later my boyfriend now husband of 27 years found it and I had a lot of splainin’ to do....

[tj_forplay]

Not exactly sure when I crossed over to escorts. I started in 2018 getting strictly therapeutic massages for my tightness in lower back. I was trying different "retail masseurs" one offered me extras, that opened me up to a whole new world. I eventually stumbled across the pro section of a4a, rent men & this forum. Started hiring escorts. The first time I bottomed was this year for an escort on our second time together.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Damn I feel young....

 

From RentBoy in Summer of 2014.

[+ Axiom2001]

It's been a great while since I engaged the services of an escort. The guy lived in San Francisco, and I think he attended SF City College. I'd meet him in the Travelodge Motor Inn off Market Street or in a Travelodge on Polk. {...can't recall why our play sessions took place at the Travelodge, but I do recall our having some great times. He was handsome, hot, and hung and dressed gorgeously. He was also talented in the "play department" and tasted oh so succulently. During the advent of HIV/AIDS, he and I stopped seeing each other, for he ceased having his ad published in the Bay Area Reporter. Until this very day, I keenly remember seeing him pass by me as I was leaving the closing ceremonies of the first GAY GAMES which were held in San Francisco. I think I smiled, or perhaps he, but we failed to acknowledge each other. I do remember that I felt sad that we did not respond in any definitive way.

 

As the years progressed, my very good friend who lives in Los Angeles, apprised me that there are guys that men meet for sex. He also mentioned that a price goes with the meeting. Although I already knew this and was already a participant, I listened to his advice and did not let on. From that time on and until I was introduced to Hooboy's-- Rentboy--Adam-for-Adam, etc. I've met a variety of men in this country as well as throughout parts of the world.

 

...remember one guy (a mighty top) introduced me to The Joy of Gay Sex. ...told me to get a copy and read. That I did as well as enjoy, and I think I still have a copy of that source until it today.

 

...have seen a lot of men (most very wonderful experiences), and for the past two decades have principally confined my activities and play with those men with whom I've felt some connection and they with me. For the past 3 years, I've seen the same man (occasionally) and no one else although there are other guys I'd love to meet. But with COVID-19 being with us-- I have decided "NOT-TO-CHANCE-IT." I did write a message to this particular escort via RM's Message to let him know that he was still in my thoughts, for the last time of our being together was the latter part of February. He was in Puerto Rico, but he did respond back with some sincere and encouraging words. In my message I'd mentioned that when some normalcy has returned to the world that I'd hope to contact him.

Edited August 23, 2020 by Axiom2001

[+ purplekow]

After my wife died, I was celibate for a while and then dated women. I found that I had little or no interest in dating them and sleeping with them was not as enjoyable as it had been. Prior to my 50th birthday, I decided that since women were no longer providing exciting sexual activity, that I would try hiring a man. I had always had an appreciation of well muscled men and decided that there was nothing holding me back from trying sex with men, I stumbled across a site with thumbnail pictures of men who were offering services, no idea what the site name was but I had been browsing Muscle Service and it led me to this site. There were about 500 pictures and I studied them and found only 3 men who were physically appealing to me. Prior to the big 5-0, I rented a room at the Marriott Marquis in Times Square and arranged to meet Tony Pitt. He kept calling to tell me he was delayed (turns out he was dancing at the Gaiety) and he wound up arriving three hours after the appointment time. I was about to back out when he arrived. He looked great in tight jeans and a tight sleeveless shirt. He asked to shower and I talked with him from the door as he did. Finally, he said "You can come over and talk to me from tub." I walked over and he opened the shower curtain and was wet, built, and hard as a stone. He asked if I saw anything I liked and I had to admit that I did. That session was hot and sweaty but I felt remorse and I left him the room and drove home. After a good nights sleep and some soul searching, I/ called him again to meet the next night. And I have not looked back.

[marylander1940]

Damn I feel young....

 

From RentBoy in Summer of 2014.

 

Yes, you are still young! Now you might also have to explain to some escorts what Rentboy (1996-2015) was, some haven't even heard about it.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rentboy.com

[+ bigjoey]

Great question. The year was about 2000. I went with a college friend to Gaiety in NYC. The dancers got me so excited. In the adjoining room, the dancers would solicit the audience to go back to their sleepy rooms in a dump of a hotel in Times Square. The kind of place your mother warned you never to enter. Well, there was a muscled gorgeous Czech guy who approached me and the rest was history. I was about 32 years left and had gained a lot of weight from chemotherapy. I was about 80 lbs overweight. Just a lot of touching and jerking, but it got me hooked...he gave me a business card that I must of put with a bunch of junk in a desk drawer thinking it would disappear....about a year later my boyfriend now husband of 27 years found it and I had a lot of splainin’ to do....

 

 

Yes, the beloved Gaiety. In the early-mid 1990’s I discovered heaven and the side room. There I saw one of the most beautiful men I had ever seen: Cory Evans, the porn star:

http://www.smutjunkies.com/updates/cory-evans-handsome-hung-blond-american-gay-porn-star/

 

 

https://m.boyfriendtv.com/model/cory-evans-4926/

 

https://m.falconstudios.com/en/model/Cory-Evans/11518

 

One session back at his hotel began a long string of hiring. The Gaiety had some of the most beautiful men in the world, hot, naked and ready to bring you pleasure.

Edited August 23, 2020 by bigjoey

[sydneyboy]

A realisation that I was no longer 20 and unlikely to be so again.

[rustyrex]

It happened by surprise, like another guys said here, from a massage. I went to this guy and he offered way more than a hand job. I was floored by the offer because no one had offered me full on sex after a massage, plus he said in his ad that he didn't offer anything except a legit experience. So naturally I accepted the offer and the rest is history.

[alexslaveboy]

First meeting

January 2015, I was 43

BackPage ad for Builtjohnynyc who became BuiltGreg who is now StudMark in my basement.. very nervous but he was very accommodating and saw him several times again

 

https://rentmen.eu/StudMark

 

Love muscle

Love cocky verbal studs

And I still do!!!!

[+ Summerson]

I moved to NYC in 1990. I was 24 years old and up to that point, my life had been spent in several "Middle of Nowheres." Born & raised on a farm in one middle of nowhere, attended a small, conservative, private university in a slightly different middle of nowhere, spent 2 years teaching 8th grade English on the Navajo reservation in a very different middle of nowhere. So NYC was pretty much the biggest change possible and just what I was looking for. Not long after I got there, a college friend wrangled me a seat at a fundraising dinner she'd helped organize and there I met a guy named Vincenzo (Enzo for short). He was a native New Yorker and was waiting to move into an apartment his family owned that was still occupied, so we both agreed it seemed like a good idea for him to crash on my couch for a while.

 

A few days after he moved in, he told me some guy owed him money and he was going to go meet him at a bar and get it. He said I should come along. We headed uptown to a bar named Rounds that a lot of old-timers like me will probably remember fondly. He left me at the main bar while he went into a back room, looking for the guy he was supposed to meet. Suddenly, it was like an episode of Wild Kingdom and I was the really naive gazelle at the watering hole. All these gorgeous guys were coming up and talking with me, one after the other, and I honestly had no idea what was happening. I still laugh about it, but it all happened so fast that my brain couldn't put the pieces together. And then Enzo was back with his money and we were heading out to dinner and he asked me what I thought about the bar. And I told him I really liked it, but that the experience had been pretty surreal, which he thought was the funniest thing I could have said. Then he told me that he worked as an escort, just like a lot of the other guys at Rounds, and suddenly the world made a lot more sense.

 

I didn't actually hire anyone until about a year later. Enzo had moved into his own place, I'd had my first NYC relationship that didn't end well, and I was making enough to afford a splurge sometimes. I picked up a copy of The Advocate Classifieds and called one of the agencies listed. Can't remember if it was Man To Man, Thoroughbreds, A-List, Wow, Chelsea Guys... (Sigh. I miss agencies.) The person who answered the phone asked me what I was looking for and somehow I managed to get some words out that must have made some sense. And an hour later, I was answering my door. I mostly hired through agencies until there weren't any left. Once in a while, I'd go up to Rounds, until that was gone as well.

[+ azdr0710]

got my first computer with internet in 1995, which led to porn-watching, which led to websites that had dudes advertising, which led to the hooboy site (precursor of this forum) and the related review site he ran called, I think, male4malescorts.......

 

intrigued by the whole thing, realizing I only live once, and needing to get laid, I picked out an appealing dude in late 2001 in my local city......arranged a hotel room way on the opposite side of town (!)......pre-meet communication must've gone ok (hints from hooboy forum chatter, I presume).......I said I'd wait outside the front door and meet him there and I remember I was so nervous that I was nearly swimming as if ready to pass out.......he arrived and I suggested a walk around the parking lot to chat and loosen up a bit......he said ok, but it was very obvious he thought I was setting him up as he looked around and over his shoulder......I think I realized this and we quickly went up to the room (I may've tried to assure him I was honest).......

 

being entirely new at this, I didn't plan for much to happen.......he got naked quickly and looked great.....we did a bit of a back-and-forth massage, rolled around a bit, I think, then we each finished while facing each other and sorta holding the other's shoulder while on our knees on the bed.......later, some light chat and he counted the money in front of me (I'd already read the debate on that at hooboy! - some things never change!).......

 

second meet was several months later in Las Vegas with Haus Weston.......was still nervous (and cautious??) and he almost cancelled because of it.....as if it wouldn't be any fun for either of us.....I had visions of the LVPD busting down the door, I think.......fortunately, we met and he was fantastic.....perfect body, masculine, subtle Southern accent (Maryland Eastern Shore).......probably because of disease fear, I still didn't plan for much to happen.......he showed off for me and got himself off.....some friendly and honest chat, too.......he "retired" soon after that, then made a short return a few years later before dying mysteriously in the Philippines in 2007 at age 29......

 

much further experience since and great advice from this forum over the years has given me much greater confidence than I had during those first timid meets!.......

Edited August 23, 2020 by azdr0710

[jeezifonly]

Yes, the beloved Gaiety. In the early-mid 1990’s I discovered heaven and the side room. There I saw one of the most beautiful men I had ever seen: Cory Evans, the porn star:

http://www.smutjunkies.com/updates/cory-evans-handsome-hung-blond-american-gay-porn-star/

 

 

https://m.boyfriendtv.com/model/cory-evans-4926/

 

https://m.falconstudios.com/en/model/Cory-Evans/11518

 

One session back at his hotel began a long string of hiring. The Gaiety had some of the most beautiful men in the world, hot, naked and ready to bring you pleasure.

 

First time I was ever a client (presenting tips for personal entertainment) was at The Gaiety in NY, in a side room stand up with a dancer whose nom-de-porn was Fred Slinger

 

http://www.smutjunkies.com/profiles/s/i_stars/Slinger_Fred/index.html

 

I thought, ‘this is pretty cool”

 

So it was,

So it is,

So it shall be.

[Skip]

I was feeling flush and tired of the constant chase in the bar scene back in 1989. I was staring 40 in the face and feeling twice as old as I do now. I hired a "porn star" of the time, Joe Cade. I arranged it through an ad by the now infamous David Forest. He came from LA to Charlotte for the weekend. He was the sweetest, nicest best sex ever guy. I have dated guys over the years, some for longer periods of time, but for me, hiring a nice good looking guy for an evening or a trip or a weekend is just really so much easier and convenient for my lifestyle.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Yes, you are still young! Now you might also have to explain to some escorts what Rentboy (1996-2015) was, some haven't even heard about it.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rentboy.com

 

....and once more....the Pink Pistol fires a shot at me...

[marylander1940]

....and once more....the Pink Pistol fires a shot at me...

 

I don't understand the metaphor.