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I messaged Meatballz in February about meeting when we were both in ATL. He was very cordial, informative, and quick in his response - and he was open to various scenes. He requested $300. Unfortunately, for various reasons (mostly my schedule) we didn't meet.

Love him or roll your eyes at him, Benson Boone has somehow mastered the art of being impossible to ignore. Critics love to dismiss his music as “sugar-coated emotional cardio” and some even call him a discount Freddie Mercury with better hair and fewer operatic mustaches. But honestly? The man understands spectacle. That back flip off the piano during the Academy Awards performance practically deserves its own stunt category. It single-handedly convinced me to keep watching the Oscars for at least one more year instead of collapsing face-first into my couch three hours in. And then there’s the wardrobe. Those vacuum-sealed suits look like they were stitched directly onto him by NASA engineers. Between the dramatic vocals, the gymnast-level stage antics, and the aggressively tailored pants, he’s basically become a public service announcement for gay men updating their “hot celebrity” rankings. Say what you want about the music, but the man performs like he’s trying to win both a Grammy and a decathlon at the same time - and frankly, that level of commitment deserves respect, at least IMHO.

“Emerson said, ‘A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.’ Maybe so. But an intelligent consistency - and rigorous quality control - in hiring escorts is probably a big part of why I’ve never woken up in a questionable Bogotá hotel bathtub full of ice, conducting an unexpected inventory of my internal organs. People mock routine & "regularity" until they’re the ones explaining to the local constabulary or consular official how ‘spontaneity’ turned into a missing wallet, a fractured rib, and a mysterious rash. Yes, I exaggerate but sometimes the so-called hobgoblin of little minds is really just the patron saint of risk management. Especially in situations involving strangers, dim lighting, locked hotel doors, and the kind of decision-making process that begins with, ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’” I believe in "cautious exploration" in hiring, but my preference is usually for reliable regularity.

Alex Kof - can make ANY scene worth watching. https://www.instagram.com/thealexkof/ https://rentmen.eu/alexkof

Trivial Fact Per a 1964 Congressional Resolution, although ANY state in the US can produce alcohol labelled as "bourbon" only bourbon produced (and stored for at least one year) IN Kentucky can be labelled as "Kentucky Bourbon." To wit: "To be legally labeled "Kentucky Bourbon," the whiskey must be produced, distilled, and aged in Kentucky for at least one year. It must also meet federal standards: a mash bill of 51% corn, distillation at 160 proof, barreling at125 proof, aging in new charred oak containers, and bottling at 80 proof without added colors or flavors." Most Kentuckians take their bourbon drinking seriously, especially during Derby festivities (which began this past Saturday with Thunder Over Louisville - the largest annual fireworks display in North America), as it is the main ingredient in Mint Juleps, which I hate. I personally am not a fan of bourbon and prefer Vodka at it doesn't have as many "congeners" which worsen hangovers.

Last summer, he wanted $500 - over my budget, especially for Indy.

I was dialoguing with him until I read how he screwed you (and not in a good way). No way I'm engaging with a thief. Thanks for the info. Karma, baby. Do you think it would do any good if I let him know that the reason I'm disengaging is b/c of how he took your money but did not provide the service? He's now in Nashville.

https://rentmen.eu/robthellist Great guy. Open to your wants & needs. Very versatile.

I checked into a NYC hotel last week and at the same check-in counter was a drop-dead-gorgeous man, tall, blond hair, great build. We got into the same elevator and discussed the rudeness of some New Yorkers. He said he was Swedish but now lives in Boston and that Bostoners can sometimes be rude, also. When I got to the room who is the first photo to come up on both Grindr AND Rentmen, our friend Mitch (I wonder if the "Den" means Denmark even though he said Sweden)? Yes, my friend from the elevator. I sent him several messages of a willingness to meet - but he never replied. He must be totally booked up or has enough demand to pick & choose whom he wishes to meet. Or, perhaps he didn't like doing business in the same hotel where he sleeps - who knows. Regardless, he seemed like a really nice guy, easy to talk to, and is absolutely beautiful. Luckily, I found several other super hot guys here in the Big Apple (with super fees, also, at least to someone from the boonies) so I'm not complaining. I admit that I had to stroll by some of the hallowed places in NYC of my younger years e.g. Stella's, Gaiety, etc. which brought back great memories but also a great sense of how quickly time flies.

I watched most of it though, I have to admit, I taped it and watched on a delayed basis in order to skip the cringiest parts which, turned out, included most of it. As a previous member observed, the audience looked dead and, in my opinion, appeared as though many would bolt from the theater were the show not being broadcast Live. Timothée Chalamet in particular looked uncomfortable and dyspeptic - like he drew the short straw and had to sit in the front row where he was continuously berated by Conan's not-very-funny jabs. The worst part of the whole debacle were the tortuous conversations between Presenters whose mumbled dialogue seemed so stilted and silly that I'm sure a few of the Directors in the audience were tempted to shout "Cut - let's take it from the top, this time with a little more enthusiasm." Whoever wrote, directed, or choreographed this inane spectacle should have their membership cards from the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences revoked.

I certainly don't condone drinking and driving but, having worked with folks with Bipolar Disorder for many years, Britney was likely drinking to elevate her mood (these folks can have extreme highs in their cycles, but many folks experience only ONE manic episode in their entire lifetimes and remain depressed the rest of their lives - the most common & problematic symptom of Bipolar is depression, not mania) - and this event was likely NOT about transportation or having the money to hire a chauffeur. As many in our own community know all too well, good sense & morality are soluble in alcohol. It is a fact that folks with this Disorder are some of the most non-compliant people with their medication regimen because, although they don't like the "lows" of the disorder, they do miss the mania in which they experience an expansive mood, increased energy, and intense feelings of joy - and, unfortunately the current medications for Bipolar "flattens" their affect/mood so much that although they no longer feel manic - in fact, they don't feel ANYTHING - and then they engage in these high risk behaviors just to relive those moments of feeling alive again. I hope that the judicial system insists that her treatment be court monitored rather than just focus on the punitive. There are now long-acting injectable medications for Bipolar Disorder that offer a sustained release over weeks and months - not a cure but an appropriate treatment for someone like Britney - she just needs to be monitored and be occasionally tested for compliance and therapeutic levels. I'm not into pop music but the few times I've seen her on TV I've sensed that Britney is a good person and a good mother who unfortunately lives with a chronic, self-defeating mental illness - and the best thing that could happen to Britney at his point is that the community NOT "leave her alone."

I agree that poor Nancy was probably made unalive the night of her abduction - I say "abduction" because I don't think this was a kidnapping for ransom - I suspect that her son-in-law, Tommaso Cioni (and maybe his wife Annie) were involved. He was the last person to see her alive, he was very familiar with Nancy's home and knew she didn't pay to have her security cameras record, and the guy at the front door was wearing black nitrile gloves - the kind that biologists wear in their labs (Tommaso teaches biology). I think it was noteworthy that the police have spent hours searching the Tommaso home - and have impounded his wife's (Nancy's daughter, Annie) car. Also, some have speculated about the similarity of Tommaso's band-mate, Dominic Evans (see photo below), who has a criminal record of burglary, robbery, and embezzlement. Motive: not burglary or robbery as nothing of value was taken. Nancy's estate includes her home which is currently valued at over $1 million and, if Nancy is deceased her estate is likely going to her kids. Note also that the ransom was sent to the media, not to the family (most kidnappers don't like the publicity so they deal privately with family) - so, whoever sent the ransom note wanted to make sure the media knew that kidnapping was the motive. No one has touched the bitcoin site thus far that the kidnappers wanted the ransom deposited.

CagedBoyHarry quoted me a travel rate of $300. His responses are very intelligent, cooperative, and respectful - though he seemed to lose enthusiasm in responding quickly when I didn't hire him within a few hours - I am guessing he is in high demand.

When I contacted SirBlackRaven about a session today in ATL he said we had to meet before 2:00 pm b/c he was leaving town at that time (later, in our meeting he contradicted himself several times about this need). I agreed to meet at 1:00. When he got to my hotel room he said he needed to take a shower and closed the door to the bathroom but came back out to get his cell phone (this leads me to speculate about a call to him at almost exactly 30 minutes later). After about one minute he exited the bathroom not having taken a shower (yeah, hint #1). He seems like a nice guy who looks like his photos but maybe a little thinner, shorter, and less muscular. However, my personal preference - I like when an escort does some landscaping downstairs (several photos of him on RM show a very tidy pubic area) but his genital "garden" needs a lot of work. So we talked about 15 minutes and then we got down to business. Wouldn't you know it, after just a few minutes into our "business" he gets a phone call from his husband that required him to leave immediately - after only 30 minutes together -no explanation, he just needed to go immediately. I really wanted to give this guy a good Review, but the emergency phone call seems very suspicious, esp given the need for his cell phone in the bathroom. Also, during our conversation he said he actually lives in ATL so I'm not even sure about his need to meet before 2:00 so he could drive home. I wish him well, and don't like to spit in anybody's soup, and I hate to put a dent in someone's livelihood, but I sadly would not recommend him. When you pay $300 you should expect more than 30 minutes of someone's time. He says he is a NYC native and that he visits there frequently. Maybe others have had better luck with him.

https://rentmen.eu/VonC If you want a muscular dom top who likes to play a bit rough (but is careful not to hurt you) Von is your man in Music City. He's got a V-shape torso, impressive abs, and a huge dong. In the past he always scheduled between 7:00 a.m. and around 2:00 p.m. making me wonder if he's a nightwatchman in real life - but lately his hours include evenings also. I've hired him 3x and he's always been a good choice - but make sure you tell him exactly your preferences. He's gay and ALWAYS a top, and, in the past, advertised as a "Master" who likes to "train" his bottoms. If you like a little kink with your Country music, try Von.

I think this subject was addressed a few years ago. I'm guessing a "frozen" ad means that the escort is taking some time off - frozen profiles were prevalent during the pandemic. This is different than an "expired/deactivated" profile - even though I've "Chatted" online with at least one "expired/deactivate" provider whose ad continues to run on the Rentmen website (even though his telephone number is no longer visible on his profile) - but he continues to welcome my inquiries if I text him. It's a bit confusing (and there's no info on the RM "FAQ" page) - I'd just go ahead and text the "frozen" escort as I suspect that, even if doesn't respond, you'll have your answer.

I texted this guy when I was in Miami a few weeks ago. We were going to have a 3some - he was Gung ho about the scenario. He said his fee was $250 and he would travel from Miami Beach to my hotel near the airport - a pretty good distance - he didn't ask for an Uber or transportation money, which I thought was almost too good to be true, given his super hot body. We had some back-and-forth texting about the time but he finally agreed to meet at 8:30 p.m. He was extremely friendly and cordial in all his texts, though he didn't always reply quickly. Shortly before 8:30 he texted and asked if we could reschedule for 10 p.m. - I agreed as I had two other escorts who had showed up, were in bed, & had already begun the evening's festivities (one drove in from FLL and one was a hot Cuban I found in Grindr). Well, 10 p.m. came and went and "xclusiveboy" never showed up. The next day he texted "Hi" - that was it, no apology, no explanation, just "Hi." I texted him back that I was on the airplane headed home.

I refuse to pay a deposit. In fact, I'd even extend the time frame: I will not pay for services UNTIL they have been rendered - I learned that lesson in ATL last year when I foolishly paid as soon as the escort arrived - he demanded the fee upfront and, as soon as he pocketed it, out the door he goes, uttering "F*g" as a parting gift and as a way to justify his thievery - i.e. f*gs deserve to be ripped off. The first clue should have been him wearing a balaclava in his online face photo - AND when he arrived at my hotel room.

I haven't had the chance to meet him yet but he is easy to communicate with & seems very friendly. He said he is "flexible" as far as services. He says he has a regular "day job" so his appts are in the evenings/weekends. He quoted me $350 for In and $400 for Out with a $50 deposit. I hope to connect with him when I visit ATL in a few weeks. Hope this helps.

I have met with DomDaddy several times - both solo and as a 3some (me + DomDaddy + another escort/Grindr) over the past 10 yrs. His photos are accurate though a few may be dated. I have met him in Indy and in ATL. He is an extremely dominating guy who very aggressive and gives a good, hard pounding, if that's what you want. One major caveat: he gets right to work with little or no chit-chat (the first time I met him he immediately asked me to touch his penis as he believes that cops won't touch another man's Schlong). And once he's finished (he always cums, in my experience, after about 8-15 minutes of heavy duty pounding), he's out the door - I suspect that's why he gets a One Star rating periodically - you get a very meager amount of conversation & personal interaction but you do get a super sexy body and a huge magnificent tool. He's a tall, muscular, very powerfully built guy who is very impressive physically - but just remember that he's all business - and his business is exactly what his name suggests - a total dom top. And I don't think it's just b/c he's not attracted to the client - my last 3some was with him and MrTwelvePlay who is super hot himself - and DomDaddy pounded him with the same sense of speed, vigor and urgency as everyone else. Bottom line: DomDaddy is SUPER hot but don't expect much in the way of personal connection. I can't imagine what clients do who hire him for a couple of hours and especially for an overnight (there is a Review of someone who hired him for the WEEKEND and, if I remember correctly, DomDaddy left after one day). Well, that's my experience. I hope "Muscleking" got his money's worth.

How do you "move on" from an infatuation? Not easily. From my experience, unless you use STRONG and EMPHATIC self-talk that this is JUST an infatuation and that you are a A CLIENT (not a lover), you will be held hostage to your feelings, not your common sense. But...reason and logic rarely win these internal dialogues. We've all been there - and only time and the thinning of our wallets convince us that maybe this "love connection" is not mutual. Enjoy your "butterfly-inducing" friend, but just realize that, in the end, it's a business transaction - and when the money ends, so will the return messages.

I have not hired him yet but he has been very quick and forthcoming with info (e.g. rate of $300). I have him on my "To Do" list. I would be interested in learning of your experience with him, if you hire.

I recently had a 3-some planned with Ashten and another sexy escort in ATL - Ashten was super accommodating, cooperative, and went far beyond my expectations in helping me plan the encounter. He provided extra photos of himself (in a variety of hot poses) and made helpful suggestions on how to make it a more enjoyable (and exciting) occasion. Unlike many (most) escorts who reply to inquiries with 3 or 4 word responses, Ashten's messages were fulsome, specific, and focused on my needs, not on his fees or on things he WON'T do. Unfortunately, the other escort made changes to his travel dates at the last moment which made it impossible to meet. But, I will certainly keep Ashten in mind for future hookups, if and when the opportunity presents.

I also suggest that you ask ChatGPT what it would advise - try to be as specific as possible - it's amazing the amount of detail it will provide - it will list all the pro's and con's of your options - and it will walk you through your decision process. I ran the OP's original question through ChatGPT and its answer was very thorough. I used ChatGPT recently to help me to determine which Part D (drugs) plan I should choose in my state - it showed me ALL the options (and included specifics like premiums, deductibles, and co-pays - and, most importantly, asked WHAT MEDS DO YOU CURRENTLY TAKE? - you absolutely need to find out which TIER in a plan's "Formulary" your meds are on). And, as a side note, thank God the govt set a cap of $2,100 on out-of-pocket costs for Medicare Part D prescription drugs in 2026 when Congress passed the Inflation Reduction Act of 2022 - otherwise, Eliquis would bankrupt me! I would ALSO recommend using the various calculators & educational tools on Medicare.gov (specifically: Find a Medicare plan WWW.MEDICARE.GOV I personally would NEVER put a huge FOR-PROFIT company in between myself and my medical providers/services. But that's just me. I live in a town where HUMANA rules, so I hear a lot from both sides - but I like the freedom of choice more than any financial advantages of Advantage. Also, there was a recent Senate report showing that Medicare Advantage plans use prior authorization to intentionally deny post-acute care to vulnerable seniors at exceptionally high rates to boost profit (Google "Senate Permanent Subcommittee on Investigations Releases Majority Staff Report Exposing Medicare Advantage Insurers' Refusal of Care for Vulnerable Seniors").

Was asking $450 on 10/24/24. That is beyond my normal budget so I declined.